M, 30, Sofia. I soon started working in a new place. I have no complaints about colleagues and work so far, my grief is different. A very beautiful girl works on my floor. But when I say beautiful, it means pure, natural beauty, without 5 kilos of make-up on the face, provocative rags like dressing, etc. I really like it. The bad thing is that it is in another department, it divides us 1 door and 1 wall. I don't know anything about her, I see her for 5 seconds when she comes in the morning and says good morning to her colleagues and possibly to one of the breaks. She is always with her colleagues on these vacations. I just don't have access, I don't have a job in their department, it will show from a plane, if I go there, that's the process of working with us. I can't get it out of my head for a second week now. With great difficulty I learned the name, on social networks among the piles of photos I did not see a boyfriend / husband in the photo. Colleagues, whom I trust - and they know nothing about it. Those who know, I can't ask them, because they are watchmen and I don't want them to gargle with me. What to do.. In moments of "reassurance" I tell myself that there is no way such a girl does not have a boyfriend and I harass and film in vain, and that there is no need to push myself after having as many women as you want. I am most angry that I do not have contact and contact with her ... It is always full of people, and to stalk her when she is alone somewhere (even if I succeed) will have a negative effect. Living - we live in different directions and neighborhoods. What to do..? I'm single, let me tell you, don't think about things :) that there is no way such a girl can't have a boyfriend and I harass and film in vain, and that I don't have to push myself after having as many women as you want. I am most angry that I do not have contact and contact with her ... It is always full of people, and to stalk her when she is alone somewhere (even if I succeed) will have a negative effect. Living - we live in different directions and neighborhoods. What to do..? I'm single, let me tell you, don't think about things :) that there's no way such a girl can't have a boyfriend and I'm harassing and filming in vain, and that I don't have to push myself after having as many women as you want. I am most angry that I do not have contact and contact with her ... It is always full of people, and to stalk her when she is alone somewhere (even if I succeed) will have a negative effect. Living - we live in different directions and neighborhoods. What to do..? I'm single, to say the least, don't think about things :)
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I am a man of 25. I will give you advice, and how much you will perceive it is your job. As a man, you have a duty to pursue and pursue your goals. When you want something really much, you have to do everything you can to achieve it. In this case, you liked the super cool babe. Ok, but digging on the internet will not do anything. If you want to stand out among everyone in the office, and among the many other men who took her down, you just go to her and tell her directly who you are and what you want. You go to her and say, "Hello, I work in the next department and I see you every day, I couldn't help but meet you because you like it very much. At least you work in the same place and the chance will work for you." The conversation is extremely long, then he just offered to see you, if he refused, take at least some coordinates, if she refuses again, leave her for a while and don't bother her, but you will see what a huge difference her attitude towards you will be. And the fact that she will refuse you the first time does not mean that after 1 month you will not go out, if she is free of course and if you are aggressive enough and confident. And don't think so much about what you're going to tell her, just when you see her next time, don't wait more than 3 seconds, but go and talk to her. What can happen but cut you off? And while you're talking to her, you don't know if an equally cool colleague who hasn't noticed her before and has been impressed by your determination won't be looking away. Precisely the fact that there are always a lot of people should make you talk to her, not sharpen her, like 90% of the chikidjii who do. Don't think he doesn't know who's watching her and staring at her. She is aware of anyone who has an appetite for her, but the question is who will stand out. Women are smart and cunning. If she cuts you off, though, you'll notice how filled you are with a very cool adrenaline rush from talking to her. Congratulations and good luck!