Hi I'm a 22 year old boy! I want to share my grief briefly! Because I believe a lot in my zodiac sign just to emphasize that I am a scorpion! Anyway I will drive in essence! So far I have not had a serious relationship with a girl, I get some apathy, fear and worries about a relationship ...! I have many shortcomings that repel most women, such as being quite infantile in some situations, irritating and always right about myself ... But I still attract them, but it comes to passion and sex, and so far no one complained in this regard! The problem is that I have something like an inferiority complex from my childhood and I think I have a psychological problem and it means that I am afraid to show publicly that I have an intimate relationship with a girl! Something like embarrassment, fear of being slandered, insulted, insulted and humiliated! As a child I was very humiliated by my peers, underestimated that I was stuck, etc.! I had late puberty and since I entered the university, I started to struggle with it ... I'm weird, I don't know what I want! I depend too much on passion and sex and that prevents me from finding a girlfriend! This is one of the other factors besides infantilism. I AM JEALOUS, VERY STRONGLY TO DISEASE JEALOUSY! I'm just looking for pleasure! I feel lonely, moldy, because I'm uncomfortable showing my intimacy in public with a girl! I'm cold, I can't love, I suppress my emotions, I often cry at home alone, and I've always been asked, a lot of people, how they didn't see me cry once, even when I understood tragic news or a sad movie! It's as if I'm devoid of feelings, and I want them! It's hard for me to overcome this fear and suspicion of society, because I am very hypersensitive and vulnerable! A slight insult put in the "RIGHT PLACE" and I just lose my mind and my words and the girl may consider me a mold and a coward! I WILL BE THANKFUL FOR YOU TO GIVE ME ADVICE ON HOW TO OVERCOME MY PROBLEMS ...
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Hello. I'm a girl, I'm a Capricorn and I was in the same position as you, I experienced the same things. Even when I met my ex-boyfriend, whom I loved endlessly, things didn't change because he couldn't understand me and wonder why I was like that. Unlike now ... the person I managed to be patient with enough and for a year there is no mention of the previous bad feelings. My advice is one - when you meet a girl you like, give her a chance to "cure" you, do not push her away, do not shut yourself in, because that way you will always turn in a circle and you will not recover. It is important who you will be with to solve your problem. It can happen after 1, 2, 3 relationships, but if you are internally convinced that you want it, it will happen. When you find your girl, believe me - you will change, first because of her, and then you will understand,