Hello, everyone. For many years I am writing to tell you my bitter experience from the badoo dating site. I am 25 years old Last year I decided to register in badoo for a serious relationship. After a month of digging on the site, I received a message from a man who impressed me. He introduced himself as 31 years old .. 88 sets .. And that he was looking for a serious relationship .. in March last year we started writing. We met in April. We liked each other a lot and he offered me a serious relationship. I immediately agreed. He is 196 cm tall. With a perfect body, but nothing special in his face. Basically, I look at a man's character first, then the body. He impressed me as a good and decent man. After a few weeks we had sex. He turned out to be a gifted lover, kind, gentle and considerate. I fell in love a lot. What bothered me was that he keeps getting into badoo. It was naughty for me to ask him (after all we were in the beginning) why he doesn't delete his profile when he already has a relationship with me and claims that he loves me ... I decided to write to him from a fake profile to find out what he writes to women. Well, I wrote to him, he immediately replied that he was single and looking for a serious relationship .. I offered him a meeting and he agreed without thinking .. And he was supposed to go with me .. I was very sick and stopped answering him from the fake profile. I decided to personally ask him Why he keeps getting into badoo and if he doesn't take me seriously he should just tell me so he doesn't waste my time. I don't like adventures. I want a family, I'm still 25 now. By the way, I didn't tell him anything about the fake profile so as not to offend him. After I asked him about badoo, he said that I was too jealous and that he didn't sleep for badoo and he would immediately delete it to show me that he was serious. delete it .. but my doubts remained. Once while we were watching youtube together, a message popped up on his phone from Ina ... I pretended not to have seen anything and we continued to watch the video on youtube. After he hurried to the store he forgot his phone and I decided that now was the time to find out who Ina was .. I opened his phone and read thousands of messages from her explanations in love he had written that he loves her called her my love . But last month he had stopped answering her ... she had written to him "why don't you answer me if you're okay with what's going on with you". Apparently because of me he stopped answering her ... The next day I admitted to him that I had seen the messages and asked him for an explanation. He explained to me that he had met her on the Internet before we met, but they had never seen each other, only written to each other. No meeting was held. And he slept to answer for me. He told me not to worry and immediately deleted the number. Okay so far. Anyway, I still had some doubts in him that he was lying to me about some things .. I had the feeling that he was not sincere .. After a few months we decided to separate because of my doubts (which later turned out to be valid) that he was not serious. and hides things from his life. He called me again after a month, that he missed me a lot and did not forget me .. And that he only loves me and I am the woman of his life .. we met again .. later I found out that he returned to badoo and wrote with women, that he is single and looking for a serious relationship .. I was very angry and asked him why he is in badoo again since I am supposed to be the woman of his life. He told me not to overdo it and that I didn't understand anything. He said he came back to badoo after we broke up, because that's where he met me and that pushed him to go back there ... And that we weren't together during that time when he went back there. Well, he deleted his badoo again ... But he kept finding lies on his part. I asked him what he was hiding, he said that I was crazy and if I didn't believe him I was looking for another more serious one .. for my birthday he didn't give me a flower even that offended me a lot as a woman .. we decided to separate again to take a break the relationship .. a month ago I was again looking for explanations in love again the same job. We met at their place all weekend, I spent with him oaths of love, blah blah ... He said he lied to me about his age. He showed me his ID card 82 set. I asked him why he hid his age and what was the point of doing it .. He said that because he looked younger and someone did not believe him when he said that it is 82 sets and for that everywhere it is presented for 88. I forgave him .. anyway I already loved him and it didn't matter to me his age. I decided to forget about it. But the other day I saw badoo messages on his phone while he was in the bathroom. I picked up the phone and read all the messages directly and looked at what type of women it was written on ... I was shocked. There was at least one normal one. Everyone he wrote to was either ugly or fat. I was disgusted honestly. Not that I'm bragging, but I'm a beautiful woman, blond with blue eyes and a nice body and I have a bust .. I can't believe how he can write to these women at all, since I'm so much prettier than them .. I have no words really. He had written to everyone that he was single and offered a serious relationship. When I came out of the bathroom I didn't tell him anything, I was already tired of his lies and I understood this badoo, that he will never abandon the site .. he always goes back there after turning his back. We had separated on the morning of November 30 .. and on the same day at 2 pm he registered again in badoo .. for a few hours he forgot me .. frivolously on his part I wrote to him from a fake profile again the same .. single said it was a year and a half, etc. I offered him a meeting in the evening, he immediately agreed .. And during this time he had not written to me all day. I wrote to him and told him if he wanted to see me tonight he said no .. he was already preparing for the meeting with the fake profile .. I angrily told him not to bother to go out, that no one would be waiting for him .. that in fact this it was me .. I decided to admit to him anyway I no longer trusted him and I didn't care about his reaction. He was furious, I asked him why he was doing it. And isn't it in connection with me why he pretends to be single for the women on the site .. what am I for him .. a sex toy only I told him how he could have sex with me all weekend to swear love to me and that he wanted a family and children with me, and the next day to go on a date with another and lie to her that there was no woman in his life for a year and a half. . I told him that this was a great insult and humiliation for me .. He never considered me a serious relationship so .. I said that even if he swears his numbers will not pass and I have lost confidence in him and this is the end .. not to bother to swear and apologize. He didn't answer and stopped writing. I wrote to him, I was hurt a lot .. And to this day he is silent .. why doesn't he fight for me? I'm so disappointed ... And it hurts. I keep watching in badoo there he is online without caring how much he hurt me and I suffer. A man without a heart. He obviously played with me and didn't love anyone. Now he is still lurking for a new victim in badoo. Today I wrote to him again from a fake profile and he answered immediately. (While I was suffering and he left me without any explanation) I put pictures of a pretty fat woman. I introduced myself as divorced with 3 children and he continues to write. Nothing stops him. Apparently he doesn't choose ... I'm disgusted by this man. He is ready to go out with any woman without being interested in appearance, position and character. Too bad for his next victim. Are all men on the internet like that? More love on the internet does not thank .. a waste of time, lies and a broken heart. Give an opinion Tell your internet stories, if you have any (While I was suffering and he left me without any explanation) I put pictures of a pretty fat woman. I introduced myself as divorced with 3 children and he continues to write. Nothing stops him. Apparently he doesn't choose ... I'm disgusted by this man. He is ready to go out with any woman without being interested in appearance, position and character. Too bad for his next victim. Are all men on the internet like that? More love on the internet does not thank .. a waste of time, lies and a broken heart. Give an opinion Tell your internet stories, if you have any (While I was suffering and he left me without any explanation) I put pictures of a pretty fat woman. I introduced myself as divorced with 3 children and he continues to write. Nothing stops him. Apparently he doesn't choose ... I'm disgusted by this man. He is ready to go out with any woman without being interested in appearance, position and character. Too bad for his next victim. Are all men on the internet like that? More love on the internet does not thank .. a waste of time, lies and a broken heart. Give an opinion Tell your internet stories, if you have any Are all men on the internet like that? More love on the internet does not thank .. a waste of time, lies and a broken heart. Give an opinion Tell your internet stories, if you have any Are all men on the internet like that? More love on the internet does not thank .. a waste of time, lies and a broken heart. Give an opinion Tell your internet stories, if you have any
1 xxcouplexx69 answered
I've met a lot of men from dating sites before. Most of the meetings were one-off, but several led to a relationship. One also lied to me that he was younger than he really was. In these sites, as in life, there are many fraudsters and freaks, as well as worldly people. It is not the site's fault that this one turned out to be an insensitive manipulator. I met my husband on the site aha and we have been together for 5 years and we have a child. One should not stigmatize sites, they are the only way for many people to find their soul mate. However, great care must be taken as to whom one trusts. It's best to dump that jerk, stop watching him do it, and focus your time and effort on finding a normal man.