Hello. I am 14 and I am 8th grade ... As you can think of a new class, new teachers and so on .... So my problem is that I am terribly very shy and I have only 2 girlfriends. One is 2 years younger than me and we will study in the same school and the other studies in another school. I am so shy that I am shy in front of my best friends but I hide it. I have been harassed since kindergarten, but because I am shy, I did not open up to anyone. It's still like that. I have been bullied for 7 years and now I have returned to the old school where I have a friend but she is in the 6th grade and in 2 years she will study elsewhere and I will be alone. In my new class, I know almost everyone and I know their characters. I studied in the previous school for 3 years and there I was harassed because I didn't talk to anyone, I had very short hair and I was fat, they thought I was a fat boy. They realized that I was a girl when we were divided into groups (girls against boys). I let my hair grow long and in the old class one that annoys everyone sat next to me in math shouting that I have ropes and I do not have and have not had. Now that I'm in the old school but another class, I don't know how others will accept me. How can I not be so shy?
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The most important thing is not to care what others think of you. I was in a similar situation when I moved. In high school I was bullied a lot ... There was no reason for that but ... It's you. If others do not accept you as you are. I tried to talk to the other girls / boys, don't worry about talking to your classmates, you will still be with them for a long time.