To The Male Audience

   Yes, I know, I also once allowed myself to find out too early and it was a mistake because the girl did not understand or did not care but it does not matter .. I never thought to crush a person's personality for me the rule applies whatever you don't want you to do not do to others. Maybe it's time to change the people around you because obviously they don't care about you, you shouldn't despair, you'll find the right niche, just look around and shake off the past (wow, I sound like a fortune teller on TV), but that's basically find yourself. some hobby helps to recharge your mind.

   Don't do that. I think you're just mistaken in your approach. You have to be extremely delicate in your confessions to men. You simply need to intrigue them without being intrusive and show them how much you want to be with them. Then, if you see that they are interested in you, make further contact. If not - you interrupt. This is not about playing games, but just being careful and understanding. Not everyone has to like everyone. They just didn't like you, that's what happens. Many times they didn't like me either, but everything is okay. There are a lot of men who would fall for you, don't think so :) And watch this movie: He's Just Not That Into You It's a lot of fun and will give you a different perspective on the subject.

   There was a very interesting study with Tinder. It turned out that men generally offer to everyone, but no uglier than them. But they start with women who are in their category, so to speak. Women, on the other hand, prefer only the coolest men who look far better than them. In all probability, this is the case with you - you liked someone who is outside your category. And he knows it and he played you. And no one cares about your self-esteem. It must have happened to you that someone, let's call him - not so attractive, took you down and you cut him off while the thought of his self-esteem was completely foreign to you at that moment. Get used to it.

   And if you don't like her, do you have to be rude? I don't know why we are such savages! m34

   I will definitely listen to n 1 and n 2 ... You give me different advice, but very useful for me, thank you! I have already found the hobby and really the recharging of consciousness is in full swing :-), and as for my delicacy in relationships with men ... I decided that it is really better to be careful and understanding, rather than intrusive desperate and demanding! I will watch the movie, at the moment something unloading would definitely cheer me up! Thanks to both of you! To n 4 Short, clear and accurately written ..., so I think! Thank you for feeling just like me! To n 3 In general, I avoid dealing with complex men, but ... this one was just like that! However, this did not stop him from behaving like the last savage ... just as he wrote n 4! When I have no sympathy for a man who is talking to me, I simply decline his invitation in the most tactful way possible. . we are not cattle after all! ... However, some "men" behave just like that and the only thing they deserve is to die alone ... along with their complexes! the author