Good evening, I would not get involved to tell my story and comment on individual statements if I had not suffered 5 years ago, and especially due to the fact that I am pregnant with my third child by a man who truly loves me and I love him , my second husband. So, I am a woman, but I cannot fail to note that we women have a great deal of disrespect for ourselves as individuals, and a great deal we fall into the hands of sloppy men who quite skillfully take advantage of our weaknesses and manipulate us as well. they want. Five years ago, I caught my ex-husband in adultery in a very strange way. His mistress complained or rather regretted it to a friend of hers - how bad I was in character, how I only expressed dissatisfaction, how I did not give him sex [because I was frigid], how I ate his money, how I abused him in front of my relatives, what a pampering I was, and he was dear to me only because of the children, our marriage was completely formal, only on paper, and she [the mistress] gave him everything he needed. This information reaches me in one way or another and I decided to check it. I learned who the woman was - ten years older than the former, married with two children. I also learned where they meet. I caught them both right at the hotel, but I was furious and they fucked up. When I unscrewed both him and her with a slap and shouted: "who is a frigid bitch, and how much money did I eat for you" ... It became a show. One of the guards came and yelled at me to go outside scaring customers. No, I say. He picked me up and led me out the door. I cried. They stay inside and do not go out.
At one point, the ex goes out and calls me. " let's go home, let's not do circuses. No - I say - we will do. "She had locked herself in the toilet of the lobby bar and did not move from there. I left her, and the same evening I went with the children to mother and father. I told all the relatives the reason. I firmly decided - I am divorcing He asked us to talk, this time I didn't raise my voice, I clearly explained to him how I knew, etc. I told him you don't love me anymore, you don't cheat when you love, he couldn't answer why he cheated on me. me - no love, it was just sex He loved me - chatter, chatter I ask him - what is true of all these things she said. She says - there is nothing true. Then - why? Well, he shouts, we are so we're talking, and she told me that her husband doesn't have sex with her, I tell him I don't care, I'm not one of those women who will bend over and squat for the children. I told him clearly - you have set out on a path from which there is no return and everyone knows it. He will keep his pants running - a year, two and then again. I mean, I've always been helpful to him. I took out bank loans because of him. Cooked, cleaned, arranged. I have not fallen into postpartum depression. I didn't deny him sex. I am a sexy woman, but monogamous. I can't just go to bed with a man and think of reasons for infidelity to calm my conscience. We got divorced. We sold the apartment - we divided the money and who was from where. He thought he would scare me by paying the minimum child support and I would squat to him. He just got the man wrong. The divorce worked well for me, because I knew I was right. Then we were 30 years old, with two girls aged 4 and 2. After the divorce, I decided either I would find someone to truly love me and the children, or I stay like that - alone, but I will not allow a man to be with me just for one sex. Two years after the divorce, I lived without sex, I didn't die or go crazy, but the wait was worth it. I have the self-confidence of a beautiful woman and I know the price, I don't get anyone's mat and mat, and I don't accept infidelity as a form of behavior in marriage. I am now married to a wonderful man, unfortunately with a cruel fate. He has been a widower for 10 years.
He loses - a woman and a child in a car accident. He was barely saved. It is difficult to return to life after that, but he succeeds. And my children accept him very well and he accepts them. I told him I wanted to have a child because he deserved it. He cried. I want to tell you - do not waste your time with unfaithful people - there is no government. They lie to us and then to themselves, and it is always someone else's fault. Know that you will always find a person worthy of you. Not everyone in our country is abnormal. Luck and love,
1 roxana_lee answered
It doesn't sound like a fabrication. An inspiring story. Be brave and do not agree to less than you deserve.