I did it.
And yes, I'd never look at another one again.
It was just a moment of weakness in which my wife and I were deeply alienated from each other.
Infidelity with a one-time fling, or infidelity with a parallel relationship,? In my opinion, a woman tied up, I'm 28, she can change after the mistake if she actually realizes what happened like this. But if things have happened over time and consciously built parallel relationships, there is no room to talk about change. This is my opinion, my experience and my intuition.
I've cheated once in my life. I neither confessed nor caught me, nor did I repeat. My conscience did its job.
I'm a 35-year-old woman.
In my opinion, infidelity once - infidelity always. You just can't get hold of anywhere else that emotion you feel in infidelity, and it's very sweet and enticing. I personally started and can't stop, and frankly, I don't want to. Once you live.
Your blind faith will lead you to overwhelming consequences only for you
I've only cheated once, and my mate and I had told each other that mendu us would have nothing anymore. even though we both knew we loved each other. I confessed, we cried, it was hard, but at the end of the day it's ok and I wouldn't repeat it because I'm just with the person I really love.
I don't know, but to me, your men are such jerks, and you're such big k*rvi that you let you fuck with someone else, not your husband, that I'm sick of you. Personally, I loathe people who cheat, and it doesn't matter to me that you're a girl, I'il break your bones if you're with me and you someone else.
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What do you want to be in a relationship with when you're going to cheat? Why are you hiding, are you ashamed? How do you fall asleep at night and how do you look into your eyes, your partner to whom you cheat, conscience, shame, dignity, mercy? ...
I'm very fond of your answers, but without excuses like- "we get bored", "we're polygamous by nature", "one life we live"... without such, because i'il tell them - how don't you get bored, kathy look in the mirror, why don't you fuck like animals everything that moves and when you live for the last time - try everything, dope, drink, drink food... as the last time.
The rule applies to infidelity - when it happens, it may never happen again, but if it repeats, it will necessarily be a third.
Once again, do not see your PERSONAL opinion as standard or anything normal. When you don't want a person, just let go and live your life. No one has to suffer because you want to live!!!
"4. I am a woman of 35.
In my opinion, infidelity once - infidelity always. You just can't get hold of anywhere else that emotion you feel in infidelity, and it's very sweet and enticing. I personally started and can't stop, and frankly, I don't want to. Once you live. "
I don't fully understand, you can't be satisfied in a normal relationship? They turn you on hiding lies...? Probably a lot of 20-year-olds don't say no to you, especially if you look "easy." And how many of them would be in a relationship if you were free? And how many of them are they financially? And in relation to the last question, you can't find a fool like your husband? He's giving money, and you're going to go "shit"!
On the author's question, there is no saying about rust for men. They can probably stop.
The romance ends at the moment of the first opening of the mouth. Relationship, family, marriage, children... problems are emerging. Solving problems requires responsibility and above all desire, investing time, feelings, energy in the partner. The thirst for positive emotions, life of the moment, without commitments of any kind lead to ... Infidelity. The easy option for "running" from problems. For an infidelity, it's very rarely the only cheater's fault. It's the fault of the two of you...
No1, if you follow the topic, would you share more.... my case is like yours, so I ask
Yes, I cheated, then I repeated with the same one. At this point in my life, I'd cheat on a woman, but I haven't had the courage yet. It's all about choice, and I'm not afraid of the consequences. All the valued people are around me. I don't care about the rest of us.
Up to 4: 4. Then why did you get married? Divorce and save yourself the indecency after you're caught. Are you only 35, are you going to cheat for another 20 years? Why are you afraid to get divorced?
I cheat all the time. My infidelity is purely physical, just sex and I'm running away. I've been like this since I was a boy, how do I stop?
Up to 18: And how old are you and how long has this been permanent? Doesn't your wife suspect anything after you cheat on her all the time?
And then you call yourself Christians.
A lot of people don't seem to be ing much. However, there are those who are pure due to sexual need. Her husband is a full tree, she loves it, but she's going to be willing to do things that her guy doesn't do.
And when the wife is ready to do anything in bed, with the other one, she doesn't have feelings- absolutely sure, then why does it happen anyway?
I may be wrong, but in general, infidelity occurs more often in men because of the sex itself and with a variety of partners, and in women there is an extramarital affair. Or else to say, 90% of cheating women cheat again because they get in touch with all her emotional strain. But in my observation, after the extramarital affair is over, the cheats stop and a new partner is not sought.
First, let's figure out what kind of infidelity we're talking about. Because it's one thing at the work party to have too much fun and get off with the cool guy from the office next door, it's quite another for 10 years to have a parallel relationship. And one and the other is cheating, right? But the first one I would forgive, we are people, everyone can make a mistake, whereas the second is not a random mistake, and it is a perfectly conscious decision to betray your soul mate. Not to mention that the second type of infidelity is not only physical, but also emotional, and sometimes it hurts more. For me, even emotional infidelity is more severe, because if she sleeps with my boyfriend with someone just once, I'll say nasty, but it just happened, but if I find out that she regularly shares super personal things with another, and it's more important to her opinion than mine, it's going to hurt me badly already. So sometimes even without sex, it's still cheating. And yes, I cheated on my ex, but I just thought it was mean and asked for a divorce. Not that she revealed me or anything, but for me things were going to emotional infidelity, not just fast sex, and for that I decided that there was no point in maintaining a relationship in which we both did not feel good if we preferred the company of other people. I never know if he cheated on me physically, but emotionally for sure. That's why I put an end to it, and I don't regret my decision. Otherwise, we would still be living under the same roof, sitting in two different rooms and everyone being busy at night after work chatting with another or another, but otherwise pretending we have a stable marriage.
22....21. That's why I set the example when things aren't ok in sex.
21/25, your example I understand, and clearly clearer. "When things in sex aren't OK" And when they are? Then why? That's what I was asking.
22/26....I have not commented on them, much less defend!
Out of belief is the lowest thing you can do to someone you say "love."
by 20, when you got blind Sunday and got married, you don't think it's going to be a big deal for one of them to cheat. No one goes with this attitude to the altar "give now I'm going to get married and then I'm going to cheat" it's all about circumstances and changes, both feelings and character in both partners.
Number 30,
I don't agree with you. Garbage is rubbish before and after and always... It's bad when you fall in love with garbage. Then a man fucks his own mother.
A woman at her wedding with one of the musicians...
A man at his wedding his wife's sister... the wedding night...
Garbage is rubbish. One in a million, someone change...
No one has an excuse. I don't want to hear about human weakness. Personal weakness cannot and should not be at someone else's expense. If you can't and you don't get up, don't drag the person by your side. Go away and smash your own head.
That's the 32 problem, to decide to throw yourself into a serious relationship or marry a person you have to be sure of your decision. To be sure of your decision, you have to be in love to be in love, you have to think that the person across the street is perfect and sinless. None of us, however, realize that falling in love has an end, whether with time or with the actions of the other end sooner or later comes. And then, one does things about, which at the beginning of the relationship did not even think. I'm not talking about infidelity, I'm talking about betrayal, humiliation and resentment.
I personally didn't cheat, we broke up with my husband after 10 years. relationship, after a long time I slept with another. I can't imagine how I'd feel if I'd done it while I was with my husband. I don't blame cheating, I'm trying to understand them, and I think that in order to get to infidelity, both sides are to blame. Many do not annoy only those who claim that they love their mates very much and in the relationship they do not miss anything, I ask themselves, why do they do it?
I think a man cheats if he doesn't care about his soul mate if he doesn't really love him. I cheated once this infidelity lasted 1 year. I just fell in love with another man - I loved and still loved this man like no other. Passed. two months since we separated, the reasons why we split up are very strong affecting children.... long history.... I'm not going to cheat on my husband the second time. I'm not going to cheat because I don't want to cheat on anyone else, nor do I want to. I'm dealing with someone else. But if the man I've been dating is looking for me and wants to. I'm not going to do it for sex, i'm not going to do it because of sex, but just because I love him, I love his soul the way he loved me.
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