First of all, I will say that the story will not be the shortest and I will ask the team of the site to approve it for me. Thanks in advance! Let's start with the fact that I am currently in 12th grade and as you may have guessed, there are a few weeks left until my graduation. After 7th grade, our class broke down and I, along with another boy and 3 girls (pretty good friends), were transferred to my current class. However, one of the three girls has a lot of acquaintances from the current class and the other 2 next to her somehow managed to fit in, while me and the other boy were isolated. Our attempts to find new friends or company were somehow unsuccessful, as everyone had already split into groups (companies) and it seemed as if no one wanted to accept us. Coincidentally, the other boy I was transferred to this class with, had to go to one of the other 2 and I was left literally alone. I have almost no friends outside of school, and the ones I have left are from other cities and I just can't see them that often. At the end of this summer (11th vs. 12th grade) I got close to 2 of the girls next to another boy in the class from exactly one outing, which happened quite by accident, we just ran into the boy in question and he offered to go out. with the girls and so on ... I was quite happy that at least last year there was hope to make new friends, but alas ... At the beginning of the school year one of the girls had a birthday and I was invited, as she constantly reminded me of the date and how she would soon give me an invitation. I waited, waited and never received an invitation. That's why I asked the other girl (her best friend) if she knew what was going on with the organization, because the days until her BFF's birthday were getting shorter, and she mentioned that she had given up on the original idea and was now thinking of another, which means after all, it will be her birthday, so the next day I went to buy her a present. Eventually, more than a week passed after her birthday, and I thought she had given up on celebrating it. Anyway, I pretended nothing had happened. During this time, the former birthday girl promised me a chamber of things that she has not fulfilled to this day, such as how we would go out for coffee, discos, etc., when she had free time. The truth is that she always found an excuse when I wrote to her if she was free, if it was comfortable for her one day, and so on. She always told me how busy she was with the whole organization at her prom, as well as with the preparation for the matriculation exams (she will not take entrance exams) and therefore she had no time left, and after the next time I wrote to her, she promised that one from the coming weeks we will definitely go out. This, of course, did not happen and the excuses were the same. Today, for example, she refused me again, explaining to me how valuable I was to her, but she was just busy looking for a birthday present for one of the three girls I mentioned at the beginning of the story. I was surprised, because during all these months she always told me at school how much she didn't like her and how she could barely stand her. In response, she told me that they were already company with her and how, at the time she told me she was very busy, was constantly dating her and other people in the company, which shocked me. Later it turned out that they were really arguing only this summer, and before that they were company again, and at the beginning of the year the girl I trusted so much did not mention anything at all on this issue.
She also admitted to her birthday and how she decided to just invite the people closest to her, and I did not fit into this category and therefore decided not to give me an invitation. When I asked her if she hadn't thought about how I felt then and if it wasn't right for her to at least mention that she refused to be at her party, she said she didn't owe me anything, as I did. on it, just on the day the invitations were handed out, she decided that we were both too estranged and there were many other more important people for her, including the birthday girl in question from my old class. A while ago she wrote me how she had nothing personal to me and even invited me to her prom, hinting that I was not angry with her because she was not a bad person, she just liked to be direct and even shared all the pumice of the other girl. from my old class, who spoke behind her back while they were arguing, etc. I asked her what all these promises she was telling me at the beginning of the year were then, and she answered me as follows: "I tell you because I haven't thought of some things, now I've thought I've decided everything "What do you think I should do? Should I go to her prom or just delete her from all social networks and forget that I once knew her, because I'm really mad at her right now. since she wasn't a bad person, she just liked to be direct and even shared all the cougar of the other girl in my old class who talked behind her back while they were arguing, etc. I asked her what all these people were for then. promises she told me at the beginning of the year and she answered me as follows: "I tell you because I have not thought some things, now I have thought I have decided everything" What do you think I should do? Should I go to her prom or just delete her from all social networks and forget that I once knew her, because I'm really mad at her right now. since she wasn't a bad person, she just liked to be direct and even shared all the cougar of the other girl in my old class who talked behind her back while they were arguing, etc. I asked her what all these people were for then. promises she told me at the beginning of the year and she answered me as follows: "I tell you because I have not thought some things, now I have thought I have decided everything" What do you think I should do? Should I go to her prom or just delete her from all social networks and forget that I once knew her, because I'm really mad at her right now. which she told me at the beginning of the year and she answered me as follows: "I tell you because I have not thought some things, now I have thought I have decided everything" What do you think I should do? Should I go to her prom or just delete her from all social networks and forget that I once knew her, because I'm really mad at her right now. which she told me at the beginning of the year and she answered me as follows: "I tell you because I have not thought some things, now I have thought I have decided everything" What do you think I should do? Should I go to her prom or just delete her from all social networks and forget that I once knew her, because I'm really mad at her right now.
1 htownfun95 answered
In my opinion, you should no longer devote time, attention and emotions to it. But even rubbing it is a bit exaggerated. I think you realized that it was blowing dust and reacting as it is convenient for her at the moment. Probably popular people (especially young people) still do not realize how to build relationships, because their attractiveness gives them everything ready. Just step back and try to focus on another person who would like to have it. She doesn't seem to have the same feelings for you.