To Men Who Haven't Had Sex In A Long Time

   I don't think he's cheating on you

   If I haven't had sex for even 2 weeks, I finish in 2 minutes !!! But this is very and strictly individual for every normal man! But when a lot of semen accumulates in it, it just erupts quickly!

   Masturbation. He was obviously complacent

   You can't tell if he's cheating on you. I think you can guess why ... But if he did, it will show on the day he has to leave again. Impatience and the desire to leave cannot be hidden. The contents of the luggage may also suggest similar intentions. However, do not rush to blame. Scenes of jealousy will only make him more cautious (if true) or put you at a disadvantage (if not). Think calmly and pragmatically. Do nothing to separate you from this man if you hold on to him.

   Don't worry, the man just masturbated there more. He didn't cheat on you. The sensuality of his member has changed. There is a difference between a firm grip on the hand and the tenderness of the vagina. Give it to his ass and it will end in seconds)))

   Well, don't you suppose that she can be self-satisfied, for example, and therefore not "accumulate"? It is difficult to prove such a thing.

   Sometimes it has the opposite effect. It has happened to me that I don't even finish an hour after a long break. And it has happened to me not once, but three times. And I'm not the only one, and I've heard of such cases from other people. This is not a criterion.

   I am the author: I want to ask, if we assume that he was self-satisfied often, can we rule out suspicion?

   Hey, didn't you masturbate while he was gone? Everyone does it. There is nothing wrong with that. And enough with these suspicions. You are looking for a calf under the ox. With this suspicion and jealousy of yours, you can repel it. It fucks you longer and better now.

   3, 5, 6 - Agree7 - disagree8 - YESI think I was clear

   If when he came he couldn't wait to fuck you, then you have nothing to worry about, but if it's the other way around, I would worry. You look pretty jealous, but maybe your 6th sense is calling. Calm the ball down a bit and don't make hasty decisions. He is more likely to be self-satisfied, because it is not very easy abroad if you are new.

   He was complacent during that time, but even if he wasn't, that's not an indication. For example, I have a problem with fast cumming sometimes and it only appears when I'm not excited enough. If I have sex with a semi-erect penis I finish very quickly, as well as if I am tired or worried. If I get well aroused, then I drive for 30-40 minutes without a problem, I get tired at some point. Some men are just the opposite, so you can not tell by this indicator. Don't think nonsense, it will only make things worse between you, and it will probably be in vain. Even if he slept with someone, that's all. It's been two months without sex. Go and stay dry for a long time. This does not mean that you do not love the person next to you.

   100 percent and cheating, what are you doing here. Your husband has another woman there, be sure, not because he finished slowly, but because men are like that. But don't be angry with the person, this is a simple physiological need, what is bothering you? He came to clean your cobweb. You should be grateful for that.

   ST1: Well, my girlfriend is not from my city, now we haven't seen each other for 3 months, when I went to her we had sex for 2-3 hours and I'm not cheating if I don't count my hand as a mistress: D: D: D: D

   I think he slept 100 percent with another. in the modern world, it is normal for either a woman or a man to have a lover

   number 13, how can we prove he's really cheating on me? with whom to cheat on me there?

   Author, did your husband go there alone or with friends at work? Do you have acquaintances there to ask? So I am on open relationships in general, so that there are no betrayals, infidelities, lies and deceptions. Everything is clear and open. For me, it is normal for a man in this situation to have sex with someone there. Far from his wife, only he knows what he is doing. But it is inhuman to want a person to abstain. I'm not saying that absolutely all men cheat 100%, but almost all. In fact, all the married men I know, and they are not a little cheating. They have healthy families, children, but they do. Naturally, their wives have no idea. There are ways to catch it. You should know him well. Is he acting weird? Take the topic delicately and watch it carefully. You can test it by trying to let a beauty take it off to see if it works. Men hate these numbers, but it's like they didn't deserve to be trusted. Think of something there that is so important for you to know.

   I am the author again. I can't be sure that he is cheating on me or that he is not cheating on me .. rather I was wondering if I can judge by the fact that he endured a lot, given that he did not cheat on me ... but by reading your comments , and obviously I can't judge from that ..

   There is no way you can prove that he is cheating on you. I think he is trustworthy, maybe he masturbated, it's normal if you haven't seen each other for so long, and even if he hasn't finished, it may be difficult for him to do so afterwards. But there may be another and therefore end slowly if he did it and was satisfied. There is no way to know, however ... look for signs. you will understand by his behavior ....

   is on a business trip with colleagues. sleep in a motel. they have no contacts or are very limited. there are staff at the motel, that's it. otherwise they extended his business trip and I'm already crazy, but what can I do .. I stick to the correct relationship and I haven't cheated on him .. he claims that he doesn't cheat on me either 100% .. I don't know his colleagues. but I want to know ... I'm so fair that if he cheats on me, it would pull me away .. I don't want to be with someone who cheats on me .. so if he cheats on me, let me cheat on him too, but I'm not that kind of person. I keep asking myself, and I can't answer - are you sleeping with anyone there? if he's asleep, it must be one of the hotels ... and there are probably so many people there, it's unlikely that the staff will sleep with everyone ... I don't believe it ... but I still have a mystery I want to solve! if you can think of anything

   It depends on everything darling, it depends on the mood of the alcohol that is consumed. It all depends. Mostly I think it's up to you. In general, the man is predisposed to the woman and if he is calm (in his own waters) the ejaculation is faster, if not impossible and slower. In your case, he has not seen you for 2 months, his member almost considers you a stranger and there may be such an anomaly :). I don't think there's any point in worrying when he comes home to you, then everything is fine!

   manual :)

   And I confirm the view that it can not be a slow ending criteria - a personal experience! Is she there, is she having (paid?) Sex there, is she masturbating ... it's a little hard to know. To what extent is this most important to you? To put it bluntly, this is just jealousy, and it is not very constructive. Isn't it more important for you what his plans are for the future and what they had among them, and in what way ...

   abe babe, don't worry about things you can neither control nor change! - How will you know if he is cheating on you? - You can't, unless he decides to tell you, which obviously won't happen. - If it really does, how will you stop it? - There is no way, unless you go there and you are not stuck with advice all day: have more confidence in the person next to you. if you constantly watch him all his life, what he does, how quickly he empties, etc., it is not healthy for you, and if he finds out, it will be very annoying and repulsive for him that you do not trust him. don't be lurking and suffocating, keep one thing in mind, but that's it.

   Ooo 100% cheating on you - we are men. If we have 10 minutes free, we immediately look where to melt the pepper. And women are easy, of course - you caress them a little, smile at them and immediately want a quick one in the toilet or in the kitchen. We are rubbish in a word .... haha. Anyone looking for something to eat with their boyfriend will always find it! They say that people who cheat or are prone to cheating are the most jealous ... which I don't think is the case, but who knows. Don't seek the opinion of pessimistic people or people who have suffered and come here to complain - you will only suffocate more. And those who explain that infidelity is an acceptable act - I have no comment on them!

   1000% committed fornication: D: D: D

   I am the author: I am impressed that the opinions are approximately 50 out of 50. Some are of the opinion that he is self-satisfied, and the others that he is probably cheating on me. here I am already tormented by the question "WITH WHOM"? As I explained to you it is in a motel, there are only staff, they do not know anyone. Hopefully the version with masturbation is correct.

   jealousy was not supposed to be constructive ... but no one is happy to be cheated on. how am i correct and I feel good about the fact. my conscience is clear, I have no desire .. here it is a matter of consciousness in my opinion .. both men cheat and women. but if I did not lie to him, I would not accept him to lie to me! And how can I understand the truth ... I can't.

   I worked in a hotel, so I can only tell you that you have something to worry about.

   Hmmm, the crystal balls have a prediction accuracy of 50%. sorry, this is the situation ...

   29, please tell me what it is about? explain to me .. my friend says that there were 3 waitresses per shift - they had a lot of work, and no one dealt with anyone ... tell me what you mean. it is very important for me,

   Jako cheats on you for 2 months and 8 days and in 12 minutes and you're in the shower

   Well, I'll tell you this. I worked abroad in a hotel as a maid. There were men and women working in the hotel. Everyone has been with everyone. Neither women stand on dry land, nor men. Especially, the more work there is, the greater the tension. My boss, who was also married, wouldn't let me sleep with others because he only wanted me for him. He had 1,000 lovers. I've had sex with almost everyone there and they with the other girls. And there were some who started like that, but then a serious relationship took place and even now they are married. This is a way of survival. And especially if you are a man and if you do not do something like that, others think of you as a pedal and even if they do not want to, they will have sex just to not rush them. In the hotel itself, the place predisposes a lot. There you hear from the rooms people having sex, there is no way you do not want. Especially in the summer hot passions, I had even more than once masturbated in hotel rooms. The more I tell you, the worse. I don't want to get you into movies. Sorry.

   You didn't say where you went on a business trip. If he's in Western Europe, don't worry, forget a local woman to go with him, unless he's paying, of course. No matter how liberated those women are, do they hear a Bulgarian and run away. If there are maids in the motel like this girl above me from Eastern Europe and with big itches, then he may be luckier, but it's still not certain. I think you are self-suggesting and unnecessarily worried!

   Well done to №33-honest, straightforward and accurate! Men cheated, what about women ??? Men do it with them, not alone! And women want it, they don't stay dry !!! Sex is for pleasure and unloading!

   number 33, he just sleeps in the motel ... meaning he doesn't work there .. there are another 100 motel clients like him .. and 3 waitresses per shift .. for the others there the staff will lie to you ... so no I can be precise in my reasoning ... well, if he worked at the hotel I would write him off, now this kind of hope after all ..

   number 32, how did you judge it?

   Don't pay any attention to her at all 33. It's clear to me what kind of motel she works in;) And there are some here, it just says that it's a motel, you read a brothel. I also worked in a motel. It has nothing to do with what she describes. Everything is on level. Everyone knows their job. And the boss has his duties, believe me he doesn't care about the maids. 33 was taken very seriously.

   the author: I think I should stop with my "movies" and trust the person next to me. By the same logic, he can think that way about me ... but that's my nature - I'm jealous, and very much so.

   38, working in a hotel, if you're ugly, you may not be upset. In the hotel I worked for (not a motel or a brothel, but a completely normal hotel), that's exactly how it was. I will not say that even the married couples who came to spend a vacation together, the male part of me was constantly taken down and especially those with children - I just felt sorry for them. They paid no attention at all to their wives and children, but to a maid. What else can I say. Such are men, and women are no different.

   33, I'm the author .. we still can't summarize everything and say that all GOs do .. it depends on many things, right? so my friend sleeps in the motel, eats there, BUT .. the waitresses are 2 or 3 per shift-I'll lie to you .. maids and the like I do not know exactly how many. the motel is by the roadside. it's full of foreigners from all over the world ... mostly men who work and are posted there. by that logic, we have to assume that these 2-3 waitresses per shift sleep with these men who are 100 for example ... I understood what you mean, but the subtle difference here is that he doesn't work there in the motel itself, and is one of the clients ... of course he may be cheating on me, BUT will he be the most privileged man (motel client), and who will these waitresses sleep with next? with him, with the Poles, with the Austrians, with the Spaniards ... with whom? I try to understand all the comments. in yours too .. I am very suspicious and jealous. I explained here in detail ... you may be right, but I hope he doesn't cheat on me anyway, because I'm correct.

   Author, by no means do I want to introduce you to movies and inspire you. I'm sorry, but I wanted to be honest. Yes, you are right - no summaries can be made. Certainly there are always exceptions. I haven't had sex with everyone either, but that doesn't mean they didn't want it. Which is already the difference between physical and mental infidelity. I don't know what worries you more. I personally am not jealous and I do not understand that. I'm sorry if I bothered you unnecessarily.

   THE AUTHOR - no, I'm even glad that a person who worked in a similar place wrote to me. here we are talking about a motel - it doesn't matter ... but in general I'm correct, I wish it was the same ... I didn't say it wasn't, but how can I be sure? there is a language barrier there .. but I don't know if that interferes .. only the waitresses were young - I just wonder what's going on. we had sex for a long time, and I thought it should end quickly if he lost training, but as far as I read, that's not true. I want him to be fair to me, if not - it doesn't make sense to me, and I would go on alone ... I'm trying to find out the truth, but I don't know if I can.

   Motel to read hotel, excuse me for the mistake. 38

   38 and I was taken down, but when it comes to a hotel on a level, you are also expected to stay on a level, especially when you are 23 and you think that everything that flies is eaten, you remember. I don't know what hotel you worked in, but when we started working, the supervisors explicitly let us know that such behavior with hotel customers will not be tolerated and if they accidentally find out that there is some flirtation, luggage and where you are from.

   DEAR GIRL, I WILL TELL YOU AN EASY AND EFFECTIVE WAY TO UNDERSTAND THE TRUTH WITH A VERY ACCURATE RESULT !!! I guess most of us have seen documentaries about the lie detector and it is known that when someone lies, the values ​​of some vital signs change - fever, sweating, rapid breathing and of course an accelerated pulse. According to expert research, only 2% of people can be so cold-blooded that they lie about this otherwise accurate machine, which means that it gives up to 98% accurate results. Since you will not take your friend to the detector in question, you can find out the truth yourself and find an answer to the question of whether he is cheating on you. Here's what you can do: when your man is not on a business trip and one night or afternoon over the weekend you happen to be resting on a bed or sofa, hugged into each other. Try to lie down next to him in such a way that your head is on his chest, especially on the left. Logically, you will be able to hear his heartbeat clearly and distinctly. Given that you are at rest and resting, his heart should beat evenly and slowly, with about 65-75 beats per minute (unless, of course, your friend has any health problems). During this time, as you lie on top of him, ask him the question that has been bothering you long enough. Concentrate carefully on the beating of his heart and if the pulse visibly speeds up after you ask your question or when it starts to answer you, then things are very clear - he lied to you !!! I am a supporter of monogamous relationships and I do not want to imagine the person next to me cheating on me if he needed to satisfy his physiological needs, there is nothing wrong with releasing tension, yet masturbation is something that everyone does, something completely harmless and harmless to anyone. For this, I sincerely hope that your doubts do not turn out to be true. Try what I advised you at this opportunity and I expect you to share what you have found. I look forward to your answer !!! Good luck :-))

   number 46, I'm the author. Thank you for the advice. Interesting opinion. But judging by myself ... I'm not cheating. but if they blame me or doubt me, my heart rate could speed up if I get angry at the question ... kind of - it's logical what you're saying, but it's not a 100% guarantee. I've seen him for a few days now, I THINK he's not cheating on me. Well, of course I can't be sure. When he is around me, I trust him. When he leaves, my doubts begin.

   Wow, the author, how will your husband tolerate you - you are an inescapable jealous case, woman. I hope your man reads the scriptures to you here and sees what kind of psycho he's dealing with

   But 2 months, maybe if he masturbates. to me the record is 30 days from which, the last 10 I did not sleep. but then I was a fitness maniac. I didn't lose my strength, then I turned on the TV and how I watched I guessed what I cracked without looking for it, I was 20 years old now at 33 I can barely hold back for 3 days, the balls start to hurt and you are 2 months old, or shine or push, priestesses how much will you on the road

   Honestly, after so much time of experience, the first time is much longer and later the work becomes faster. Personal experience