I don't want to be a careerist at all, but not at all, but life doesn't ask. If it depended on me, I would not move from home, I would cook my husband's soups, translate books, enough to fill my time and so on. But when circumstances change, you must act for the survival of the family. After we lived together, my husband surprised me with the news of a BGN 25,000 loan taken from him and spent by his ex-wife. We have to bring him back. Then he left his job to start a new one and found himself with another BGN 4,000 in debt under a loan taken by the employer. He was practically 1000 leva back every month. And I went to work from 9 to 18 hours like most people. But my salary was 800 leva. And what to do now? Well - I became more active. I took on two more projects, then another. I've been writing all night, in the morning I got up from the computer and staggered to work. We began to stand on our own two feet, not to live richly, but not to deprive ourselves of basic things. We continued to repay the loan, but we could now afford not to worry about household expenses. And suddenly - literally days ago I was fired from my main job. Come back another 800 leva. In three days I took on two more projects and I think I will stabilize the budget for the next year. I will even earn somewhere around BGN 1,200 more than before. Today they called me with a proposal for a third, but I think I just can't fit it in my schedule, I'll just fuck people who rely on deadlines. In the meantime, my husband started making good money in his new job, his position in the hierarchy grew, things are going well and the prospects are not bad. However! What were we going to do, if I had slapped on the couch in front of the Turkish series to whine and accuse him of being the last poor man. I am currently working on a number of projects for different companies. He also breaks off from work. Am I a careerist because I support my husband in difficult times and I think about the future of the family? I say again: if I have the opportunity, I will only roll pies and go around with the rag. But if someone now looks at me from the sidelines of what I do, namely: university work, co-author of a series of books, editor of another book, contributor to a newspaper, external author of a magazine, consultant on film subtitles in Russian ... maybe something to forget, she will say, “Bass the careerist!” So I explained the reason. Otherwise - I have a flower garden at the villa, I want to prune my roses and drink my coffee among the aromas, but no. This does not mean, that my husband left naked and barefoot and that he made a living from sandwiches. But he understands why my job is and supports me in every way - we cook together, we clean together, we do everything together. So the very title of the topic annoyed me: “Do you like careerists?” It’s like asking women “Do you like bald men?” No one wants to go bald, but it happens and if they have qualities, they are judged mostly by them and not by what vegetation is on the head, but by what is UNDER it. Do you like bald men? "Nobody wants to go bald, but it happens and if he has qualities, he is evaluated mainly by them and not by what vegetation he has on his head, but by what he has UNDER it. Do you like bald men? "Nobody wants to go bald, but it happens and if he has qualities, he is evaluated mainly by them and not by what vegetation he has on his head, but by what he has UNDER it.
1 jolene450 answered
Personally, I do not like such women, precisely because my ex decided to choose her own interest and career over love and a stable relationship, we broke up (started working in the police). I am definitely FOR the "more humble" and, if you will, "conservative" women