To Make A Living

   This is nonsense bro, leave the girl will not be this relationship just wasting your time.

   Dude, go bold, cut and don't care about other people's feelings. They are her concern. It won't get any better. I played this movie. You do not need commitment at all until about 35-40 years of age. Develop yourself, sleep with as many women as you can. Only then will you know exactly what kind of woman you want - you have to try. He is about 25 years old, he aims at his career and your development as a man. The women will come on their own, believe me.

   What exactly made you waver in it? The hesitations are in you. Otherwise, I fully understand you, because I am more or less in your position, I mean the engagement. She attracts me sexually and quite strongly, but she doesn't like sex as often as I do, and we don't live together. Separately, there are some traits in the character that I do not know if I can put up with. Otherwise we get along, especially lately, quite a bit. I haven't cheated so far, but I'm attracted to others ... only for sex. I have always been like that, no matter how much I loved my girlfriends, it is not true for me that when you love, there is no one else for you, sex is an animal instinct, for some it is more pronounced. In fact, I have not cheated on anyone, but there has always been this desire ... I have mentioned in other topics that I do not believe this by making a living. According to me, there is no way after about 30 pieces to say "oh I made a living" and not think about someone else. It's up to a person ... "Or am I afraid to destroy everything and cause so much pain? Or is it a bound life and drooling?" Somewhere here is the truth, both for me and for you.

   Your case is quite common. Unfortunately. Be a man and take responsibility for being honest with the girl and yourself. You're about to cheat on her, and maybe you've already done it - emotionally. If you're not in love, leave her. Do not give up vain hopes, because it is worse than parting with her. Precisely because she is vulnerable. After the great hopes (hers), comes the great disappointment. But you know. ;) The Little Donut

   You're not a kid, but that's how you sound. How old are you? If you are after 30 - shame on you, but before that you are forgiven.

   It never stops - calm down. Whatever beauty you are married to, in a few years you will start to look at her as an ordinary woman, which is likely to happen. Botkai whatever she ties and don't care that she was waiting for an engagement. And I'm waiting for a profit from the lottery, but ... nut;)

   And I haven't made a living and I'm tempted to look at ass pictures and stuff, but I always put myself in front of the girl. I used to go out on dates with my ex, and again it's very, very difficult to get to sex, I'm sorry for the current one and I can't. I like her, I have a high libido, but I don't want to hurt her. It is complex to scratch our egos, having other girls and accumulating pieces that we have not accumulated in time. Yes, I was a virgin until I was very old and I hardly had sex, they didn't like me as much as they do now, but why should I hurt the girl next to me. You will not see anything different! You better cuddle and feel with the girl next to you, if he loves you, and don't do nonsense. You have lost nothing if you have heard how your friends slept with 30-40 and you with less than 10

   Ask yourself if you like her enough to be able to keep pushing for the rest of your life. If you are going to be with her with the idea that you are losing something, it will not be so. You will either split up or you will not be able to stand each other at some point. I used to be just like you. I loved her very much and I still love her, but I hadn't made a living. And I still wanted another. However, it was not worth it for me to hurt her or leave her, because she is the only one for me and I will not find another one that suits me so well. Well, I withstood the pressure and after years, I'm not so tempted. Making money is like alcohol - the more you make money, the more addicted you become and want more. If you impose self-discipline, you may freak out at first, but over time things will calm down. Well, of course, you'll never stop being attracted, because you are still a man and have instincts, but at least it will not be unbearable. But I tell you again - decide for yourself which of the two is worth it. Because both gain and non-gain have a price. Now you may think that if you make a living, your problems will be solved, but this is not the case. You will only replace some problems with others. At most in the beginning it is better for you, but sooner or later the bill comes. And don't think that when you're free, you'll have sex with someone different every night. You may be tied up twice a year or the other option is to pay, but a quality paid fuck is BGN 200. For each fuck of BGN 200, where will it end? In the sense of not abandoning her to have sex with different people, and in the end you have sex once a year. Because both gain and non-gain have a price. Now you may think that if you make a living, your problems will be solved, but this is not the case. You will only replace some problems with others. At most in the beginning it is better for you, but sooner or later the bill comes. And don't think that when you're free, you'll have sex with someone different every night. You may be tied up twice a year or the other option is to pay, but a quality paid fuck is BGN 200. For each fuck BGN 200, where will it end? In the sense of not abandoning her to have sex with different people, and in the end you have sex once a year. Because both gain and non-gain have a price. Now you may think that if you make a living, your problems will be solved, but this is not the case. You will only replace some problems with others. At most in the beginning it is better for you, but sooner or later the bill comes. And don't think that when you're free, you'll have sex with someone different every night. You may be tied up twice a year or the other option is to pay, but a quality paid fuck is BGN 200. For each fuck BGN 200, where will it end? In the sense of not abandoning her to have sex with different people, and in the end you have sex once a year. And don't think that when you're free, you'll have sex with someone different every night. You may be tied up twice a year or the other option is to pay, but a quality paid fuck is BGN 200. For each fuck of BGN 200, where will it end? In the sense of not abandoning her to have sex with different people, and in the end you have sex once a year. And don't think that when you're free, you'll have sex with someone different every night. You may be tied up twice a year or the other option is to pay, but a quality paid fuck is BGN 200. For each fuck of BGN 200, where will it end? In the sense of not abandoning her to have sex with different people, and in the end you have sex once a year.

   She thinks of marriage and family, and you think of other women and separation. You will not be. Do the man and tell her that you are not happy and if you stay together, you will only hurt her unnecessarily. Or sit back and imagine life in five years. First imagine it with her, then without her. List the pros and cons on a piece of paper to see where you are headed.

   This topic is superfluous ... The author, sooner or later, will abandon it. Now he wants one of us (the commentators) to tell him exactly that, so that he can justify himself in front of us ... Boy, act like a man. If the girl is good (even if she is not), leave her out of respect for her. Don't take my words literally, I don't know you - just advice from a stranger.

   On the other hand, it's better to dump her now, no matter how vulnerable, than to get married and have 2 children and decide you can't stand monogamy anymore. Because the second, unlike the first, can literally ruin her whole life and hurt 20 times more than the first. Now it will hurt for half to a year, it will pass and she will find a new one, with which they may be happier. Otherwise, what is this woman doing, fucked with two children and marriage behind her back? Not that it's the end of the world, it won't be the first, but it's still not pleasant.

   There is no such animal to make a living. There are people in their 40s who have not yet made a living, they still fight it as teenagers. Either you can be with a woman or you can't. Or the third option is just that this girl is not for you, although now you do not realize it well. Be a man and don't lie to the girl when you don't have strong enough feelings. The most whore behavior in this case is to lie to her how much you love her, and at the same time look for others. Keep in mind that over time, these desires of yours will increase more and more. I can't give you exact advice, but in the things you describe, it's better to separate, because sooner or later it will happen. However, if this happens after, say, you have a child, then you will really ruin her life, and as long as she suffers for a while now, it will pass.

   Number 2, how many like you I know who are left alone, without a wife, family and children, because up to 40 years they do not need commitment, and when they are 40 no 20 years old will look at them, but all literate girls around their age have long been married and have two children.

   Don't hurt the girl. Because of such egotists like you, you ruin the psyche of such good girls ... He hadn't made a living ... Well, make a living. Break your heart, then fuck a bunch of whores, then take a whore and cry that she's cheating on you. It all returns to this world. Sit on your ass, dude. The bird lands on his shoulder once. Finding the right woman these days is a miracle of miracles. A woman who loves you, you and your children. When you make fun of the feelings of a faithful person, I think that only betrayals await you. As your libido is high, do it with the woman who loves you;) Good luck! ;)

   Be honest with yourself and with her - separate. However, there is no guarantee that you will meet another nice, good and family-friendly woman. You can go from woman to woman for years and be left alone and a bachelor - sorrel. You have been warned.

   You are not ready for an engagement, author, or for marriage. Not yet, and maybe not with this girl. Yes, it can be very nice, decent, etc., but it's not for you. Passion must be in a relationship, especially in the beginning, fire, longing, in order to be likely to survive the years. A woman should excite you, challenge you, be with her because you want to, because you can't do otherwise, not because you have to. Free the girl to look for the man who will love and appreciate her, and you live life. You will know the woman for you when / and if / you meet her. And then your ass will be cool :)

   "Develop yourself" ... hahaha. Justification for incompetence and dissatisfaction.

   From the author: Thanks to everyone who commented! I agree that everything has a price. I don't want to sleep indiscriminately with anyone, nor do I want to betray a decent girl who loves me. I just want to be happy. The problem is that, as I said above, I'm not particularly sexually attracted. I don't think there is a female body that I would like to go to bed with every night. And when I try to imagine children from her ... somehow I don't get inspired. I used to think that sex was secondary and it was important to be smart, loyal and gentle. But then I didn't have much experience with women. Now I think that sexual attraction from BOTH sides is very important. I try not to think about it, not to be superficial, but these thoughts come to my mind on their own. Of course, I wonder if I won't be sorry, given that that there really are few decent and intelligent girls around. But I also wonder if I'm too cowardly. By nature I am not shy, I would not have a problem to take the next step, and I have no problem with downloading, flirting ... but these damn doubts. A man should propose marriage boldly, sure of a bright future.

   If you have the slightest hesitation do not.