Very often I notice how in my life I meet the same people, a specific type of people who are not silent about anything and are always in an offensive position, even against the soft ones. I define myself as a good person and a person who does not seek conflicts, but with a position. I have been in contact with these people since I was well-mannered, but when they have shown this side of themselves, not to consider anyone and to crush every person who stands in their way, I wish I had not been so friendly and uncharacteristic with them, because they they think they can make me a monkey. Is it possible for someone to tell me how to deal with strangers: with upbringing and manners or to ignore and affect them?
1 bigcock7282 answered
I behave politely with strangers. I try to follow my upbringing and I do not insult anyone, I do not shout, I do not swear. If I can help another person, acquaintance or stranger, I help him. They don't make me a monkey, if someone overdoes it, I tell him directly that I don't like the conversation, that he insults me or overdoes the requirements. I avoid sharp conflicts, I get into an argument only when I deem it necessary. I prefer to say things directly in the eyes, instead of hypocrisy and intrigue. This does not mean that I choose the rude tone and the bad attitude, on the contrary. For my part, I also accept criticism and appreciate the truth, if it is very unpleasant for me. They didn't tell me I was soft or uncharacteristic, they told me I was very calm and straightforward. You know, this could be a softer version. I usually accept all people with different opinions, it is not difficult for me to understand my interlocutor, although I do not always agree with him. I don't find it a lack of character, but I notice that certain people take it that way. This quality is irritating to some and pleasant to others. You can't please everyone. I'd rather be called characterless than vicious. I put the extremes on the scales so as not to be annoyed by comments.