Life has met me with a man whom I considered a hell of a lot. I didn't believe I would say it, but we had become so close that I fell in love virtually. I knew that he did not write only with me, that he commented on photos and various comments of other girls, but he always said that they meant nothing, that he was alone and had no one by his side. I was still studying then, and he was working, and we had agreed when we had time, especially in the evening to write and talk, and sometimes to talk about how the day went. I just couldn't wait for the evenings to come to hear or write. At one point I noticed that he started to be different at times he wrote to me with pleasure, the next day he didn't even care how I was, the next day he needed me again, then again with short answers "aha", "ok", "maybe ". Conversations became rarer and rarer. If it wasn't for me, he wouldn't have called me. Now he was busy, he didn't have an account, his minutes were over, he was somewhere, he had guests and excuses not to talk, and I didn't even drive him on the phone, because on the Internet almost all applications now allow you to talk for free. The relationship became just a chat. And even the chat wasn't every day, once a week was obviously enough for him, and I didn't want to bother him because I believed the lies that he was very busy and tired. However, I had not worked until then and I was in a position for him. A whole month passed, during which he was not interested in me, wrote to others under the photos, put statuses on the wall, that he was in love, that he was not. And after seeing these things, I decided to congratulate him on his new boyfriend, or do I know an old new girlfriend. He read the message and did not answer me, apparently he had deleted it from his messages. The other day I was removed from his friends. I had begun to forget it in the dark, it had been all summer, when I didn't know who he was with, where, what he was doing, and I didn't care so much, and one day he started snorting at me and writing me what's new with me.
Then I asked him, if he has a girlfriend, why is he looking for others, why did he remove me from friends and what does he expect from me? He started whining that they were for a short flirtation, it was all over, he hadn't waved at me, obviously something had gone wrong and I didn't know. And again, out of naivety, I decided to believe him, the chat started, he wrote to me every day. A week passed and he started posting statuses and photos on his profile again for a loner, for a lover, that with as many women as she is, she is the only one. I asked him again who these things were about, and he denied putting them on just so they weren't for anyone. But he stopped writing to me and I decided not to write to him first and to leave things as they are. A few days later he again put the status that the woman is a fortune, it should be appreciated that he was happy and the cover of everything was the status in five six lines with the text I love you written many times. I realized that they had met the same girl and I was very naughty because I was attached to him again. I only saw statuses and their photos of how happy they are, how they almost adore her and how much they love her. Almost a year has passed since the summer of 2016, he had obviously clicked something again and decided to write to me again as if he didn't care how he treated me and that it was hellishly mean to look for someone he had cheated on before, he just wrote a note about how your and what's new like every time. He began to lament that he was alone and that the women were already disappointed. He had even mentioned that he is ready to come seriously to meet. But the chat remained single, because when I decided to write to him the next day, he reacted quite strangely, in one or two words. And that's why I blocked it from everywhere completely already. The bad thing is that this person has some energy that is contagious, that then with whoever you go out with, you talk, write and can't be forgotten. And when you fall in love in this way, it is more real than even a real relationship, because a person falls in love through the soul, and not visually as he did. I saw what he was writing on, artificial faces, lips, big breasts and too made. The other girls were just a waste of time for him. From then on, for a certain period of time, I receive writings from various fake profiles and I just know that it is him. My request to you is to receive advice on how to forget such a heartfelt love. What does it take to rip it out everywhere? I will be happy for more opinions.
1 we_just_love_sex answered
It's high time you left the chat and started living in reality. I am sure that you will meet the right one for you, because of which you will quickly forget this virtual image in which you think you are in love. Enough, it's a pity. Good luck!