Tips For The First Time?

   I'm going to have the same thing, only I'm 29. Yesterday my girlfriend and I pressed on my bed (I live in a house with my parents), and we both wanted it but decided to postpone it for the weekend (because my mother was on the first floor, and I want the first time to be completely alone and have all the time just for us). With mine we talk about everything in plain text (no nonsense, no quarrels, we are 100% honest with each other). I told her my fears that my first performance would not be impressive (and that it would hardly last more than 2 minutes). She just smiled and told me "don't think so, everything will fall into place". So I will tell you the same thing - be completely honest with your girl, talk about it and do not stop kissing and hugging before and after the event. Everyone started from somewhere, no one is born a scientist. The important thing is to have the desire to work together and love each other. And never abuse your girlfriend's trust - because everything comes back.

   Hello, dear boy! So I read your story and my first advice to you is to get to know the girl well physically, first, that is to press and feel to find out who likes what in a possible love game, secondly, a very important thing is to express your feelings the first time through more kisses, gentle touches and here and there a kind word that will predispose the girl to the maximum, and since you are inexperienced I will give you some advice on this because me and my friend were the first: 1. Be calm and train in putting on condoms, in advance, to be calm that you will be able to when you and your girlfriend start having sex 2. You should be aware that it is possible the first few times the attempts will not work, so do not worry, that you will expose, the same goes if she is worried about stimulating her with gentle movements with wet fingers or with her tongue and mouth orally very gently and emphasizing the clitoris most of all! 6. Before penetration you can try to insert one or two fingers to make it less painful for the girl 7. Don't worry if you finish quickly, just next time you will try to try a different pace to see how to learn to restrain yourself and not finish immediately, but to last 1 to 2 minutes more and so you will gradually achieve a better pace and duration of sex! Good luck and write what happened! ⁴ if you finish fast, just next time you will try to try a different pace to see how to learn to restrain and not finish immediately, but to last 1 2 minutes more and so you will gradually achieve a better pace and duration of sex! Good luck and write what happened! ⁴ if you finish fast, just next time you will try to try a different pace to see how to learn to restrain and not finish immediately, but to last 1 2 minutes more and so you will gradually achieve a better pace and duration of sex! Good luck and write what happened! ⁴

   Well, the important thing is not to get upset and worried and not to put it as a kind of fixed idea that you should hardly be the best, the most resilient, etc. Let everything happen on its own. My first time was unsuccessful. The girl was also a virgin and we were both worried. She was just lying down, and I couldn't get an erection out of anxiety. The second time it happened, but we were much calmer, we had drunk a little and so on.

   First, don't care too much. And people who have done it countless times have been exposed, especially with a new partner. My advice is the following: For a start, take a nice bath and prune the meadow. Provide protective equipment and lubricant. Do not rush. Start from a distance, kiss, grab, only then undress, then play naked. You will feel like you are wooden enough. If you don't feel anxious, know that it happens too. But if you drive it slowly and don't think about it much, the chances are slim. Ask her if she's okay, if she's in pain, what she wants ... But don't overdo it, she doesn't need to approve of your every move. The important thing is to feel cared for and not worry about stopping you if she doesn't like something. I guess it's her first time too? Accordingly, make sure it is wet enough below. If it doesn't happen, for some out of anxiety, others do, take advantage of the lubricant. When you feel that you are hard enough, grab it, put your head in the hole and press. I have already forgotten what the feeling was like the first time, and it is very individual. I had a little whining and drama, then it was time to finish and so on. You have to feel it according to the girl. For some it is slow and easy, for others it is better once and for all. People have been doing it for millennia and without guides, so it's not scary. You will do it. in others once and abruptly it is better. People have been doing it for millennia and without guides, so it's not scary. You will do it. in others once and abruptly it is better. People have been doing it for millennia and without guides, so it's not scary. You will do it.

   Well, you pierce it and then you perform reciprocating movements with the pelvis. Play porn to see how it goes.

   With your fingers and tongue for a long time, until you feel that it begins to tremble slightly (vagina and clitoris begin to pulsate slightly). Then you insert it and you both finish at the same time. Train and squeeze the head of the penis before ejaculation - so it is suppressed. After several such attempts, you can now control the process completely with your psyche and last as long as necessary.

   Thanks for the comments so far. Let me bring in some info. The girl is not a virgin, on the contrary she has a lot of boyfriends. Thanks for the hygiene tips, but my main worries are not exposing myself. I'm not worried about the size, I just want the chick to have a great time, not like she's with a tree. If you can give advice on how not to cum after 2 strokes and how to give her maximum pleasure I will be grateful

   Brother, if you have doubts that you will empty the dump truck, you quickly go to the toilet before that, you swear at a villain and then you are. You put on your coat and give boldly. Calm down, these women can sleep with almost anyone they want, once you're together and she's chosen you, even if you're not the most beautiful of the day ... you have nothing to worry about. Brother.

   Well look now author, there is a trick, so to speak. Before sex, you crack a chick and you won't end so quickly. Otherwise, the rapid completion of the first time does not occur in everyone. For example, I did not finish quickly. I asked various friends, half of them also did not end immediately. As I wrote in a previous comment, the important thing is not to worry and not to make it a fixed idea that you have to be the best and so on. Use a condom, among other things, it dulls the strong feeling.