Time To Part

   I would be right, even if it's hard, you really have to find the strength to end it. Hopefully those who are reading this and are currently in such a position have the strength to take this decisive step, because each of us deserves a true and full love.

   Hello! I have a girlfriend who has been with a man for 15 years. Ever since she was a child, when she was 15. Now she is 30 and they are still not married and do not even think about living together. Their relationship is something like: we fight, we fight, he cheats on me, we humiliate him and I forgive him again. Why? I asked her more than once or twice. And she answers me: "Because I love him and because I'm afraid to be alone at that age." How can such a MAN be loved? How can a person prefer to be with someone who hurts him, instead of looking for happiness elsewhere? We women are very stupid creatures. Unfortunately!

   Not everyone can find the strength to end. Sometimes fear prevails. This fear has many aspects - it is possible that the woman is afraid of the man's aggression, it is possible that she has no support from anyone and does not feel independent and strong to continue alone. I cannot imagine such love surviving in spite of humiliation and in spite of violence and pain. Rather, it is a manifestation of fear - fear of loneliness. Sometimes mental violence changes a person and makes him easily manipulated and obedient - something like a zombie. Everything as an experience is very personal and probably everyone will react according to their understandings and according to their character.