Hello, I would be very grateful if the owners of the site publish my story and readers give me some advice. I turn to the ladies in particular, because they themselves are women and know better the condition and psyche of the woman at certain moments in her life. I am 44 years old, my ex is 42 years old, we have two 16-year-old children. (boy) and 12 years old (girl). In 2015, we divorced because my wife had an extramarital affair with her married colleague from another city. I didn't understand, and his wife caught them and made a big fuss, made scandals at work, wrote letters to the bosses, etc. It all reached me. She didn't deny it, but she wanted us to continue living together, she said she loved me, but she did it because she had sexual needs, and I wasn't as good at sex as I used to be. I didn't apologize, she knew very well what was happening to me, but she obviously didn't want to get to the heart of the matter. I accepted the guilt and without hesitation divorced. Even before the divorce, I had transferred the shares from my apartment, so I moved out calmly. What happened to me before In the summer of 2012, my sister, who was 6 years younger than me, died with her boyfriend (they were not married) in a car accident near Igoumenitsa (Greece). My sister was 4 months pregnant. When I was told the news, I stood in my chair for an hour without knowing what to do, and separately the whole organization for the transfer of bodies in Bulgaria shook me. My mother died a week after the funeral of my sister and her friend. She could not survive it. Dad had died before. It was an additional blow, but an evil never comes alone. My small and tight business has always been in the sights of the big players and they decided to hit me. For this purpose they used the NRA. They entered my audit in the company and completely unreasonably charged me some receivables for VAT and others, and on top of everything they confiscated my accounts and all the property of EOOD - it. However, I did not give up and we started litigation. At the local level, I lost the case at first instance, but I appealed and we went to the Supreme Court. It turned out that it could easily be a year since he was scheduled. Even before that, when I saw that things were going badly, I gave my children the hereditary home from my mother and father, reserving the right to use it, and I also gave my wife a share of my apartment. In the meantime, I had seven workers who I fired, but they still remember me well. As all my activities were blocked, all my contractors withdrew from me, and those who owed me money simply refused to pay. I went looking for options on how to survive and feed my family. We literally stayed on my wife's salary. I found some comrades from Sofia who turned out to be much more powerful than the local women who decided to buy my business with the alleged debts to the National Revenue Agency. Meanwhile, the village was still waiting for an appointment with the SAC. My business cost about 100,000 euros, but I sold it for 50,000. That is, for me, after covering everything, there were about 8,000 euros left. The tax authorities lifted the seizure and the new owners started working. A year later, I won the case before the Supreme Administrative Court, but since I had already transferred the company, the new owners benefited and the National Revenue Agency left them with BGN 80,000. I was very angry and on the advice of my lawyer we went to the National Revenue Agency to inflict non-pecuniary damage on me. Of the BGN 10,000 I demanded, the court awarded me BGN 3,000. Abe, how are they? All this time, you realize that I have turned my back on my wife's emotional and physiological needs, but I have struggled to save my family's livelihood. I'm not saying anything to justify myself, I'm just stating. After the divorce, I was left alone, but I continued to take care of the children. I saw them regularly, I paid them BGN 200 per child and I was available separately for all their needs. I realized for myself that I would not do business in Bulgaria anymore and I started looking for other options. I had a foreign client from Germany, he was actually my only one. He trusted me a lot, he shook a little after these stories, but I went and met him in person, I explained everything to him and offered my services. I am a German-speaking person with a technical education and I dare say that I understand my job. I started working for him mainly on the internet, I make the relevant drawings, calculations, etc. and they and I are inferior to each other. My life is stabilizing. After the divorce, I realized that it was much easier to sleep with a woman (and not a prostitute) than to find turkeys at the market. And I'm not writing this to hurt the female audience, I'm just stating it as a fact. So I am 183 cm tall and by 2012 I weighed 117 years. Now I constantly maintain 83 - 85 years. It is possible that the toga and my thickness have repelled my wife. I don't know how I lost weight, but it's already a fact. However, my hair turned completely white, but I did not go bald. I have never smoked, but on occasions I drink some brandy. What happened to my wife? Three years after the divorce, my wife had relationships with different men, but never repeated with a married man. Thank God I didn't bring any idiot to live with the children, for which I am grateful. However, she also realized that they look at her as a sexual subject, get cold and get cold in three or four months and go their separate ways, and this is not a way of life. The years go by, and to look for and wait for the prince who will appreciate and understand her is a matter of great coincidence. Last week he made me an offer to get together and try to live together (without marriage) with the children of course. She tells me that she loves me very much and has not stopped. I did something stupid then, we were alone in the room and I broke it off from sex. I don't know what happened to me, whether it was a urge, revenge, proof of masculinity ... for the first time in so many years. However, she did not object ... Then I got hungry and asked her to make me a tarator and fry eggs. She did so immediately. I don't know, the kids are pushing me to get together too. It is true that you will have your life one day, but they will always be happy if their parents are together and understand each other. They were tired of not having a word to say in the evening, but their children love me very much. After the divorce, I helped my wife with many things of a domestic nature. I have not been angry with her or abused her. I don't hate her. I respect her because she gave birth to two children and is a good mother. Do I still love her - yes and no. Confused life If you wish come advice and courage Greetings if their parents are together and understand each other. They were tired of not having a word to say in the evening, but their children love me very much. After the divorce, I helped my wife with many things of a domestic nature. I have not been angry with her or abused her. I don't hate her. I respect her because she gave birth to two children and is a good mother. Do I still love her - yes and no. Confused life If you wish come advice and courage Greetings if their parents are together and understand each other. They were tired of not having a word to say to each other in the evening, but their children love me very much. After the divorce, I helped my wife with many things of a domestic nature. I have not been angry with her or abused her. I don't hate her. I respect her because she gave birth to two children and is a good mother. Do I still love her - yes and no. Confused life If you wish come advice and courage Greetings
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if she wants you to get together in 3 years, then she doesn't love you but will only use you, you will refuse her naturally
Do you feel offended? Can you imagine life with her again without the thought of infidelity coming to you every time? And can you trust again? If she tolerates you physically, that is, you have sex and she likes it - she probably still loves you. Besides, you noticed correctly - she is tired of casual and unsuccessful relationships. And you are obviously a literate person, you have preserved both your own dignity and your respect for her - I think she will be ready to work to restore trust, connection and harmony.
He shouldn't have slept with that one, but supported you, that's a fact. But she's been waiting for you for 3 years, and two to be, again ... and we women need support, attention, no matter how selfish it may sound in a given context. In principle, more sensitive people are more manipulable, he may have thrown her with the attention he gave her in a difficult period for her (yes, even more difficult for you, there is no dispute and does not exonerate her). We tend to seek support, security. She may have been afraid that she would not be able to cope, even if she did not realize her motives. We humans are far more animals than we would like. Especially the more emotional ones (which are also more selfless). She made a mistake, she realized what she was losing, she had a more realistic idea of what the world was like, she obviously wanted you to fix your family. That's how it looks to me. She liked having sex with you, she felt like a woman again, not just a mother. Would you lose anything if you reunited? And your sex is sex like the last, not just love and romance? I would advise you to try again, not to be based on Bulgarian proverbs, for me they are the result of collective stupidity. But stand in the position of your wife's husband and watch her. Take on the role of a man. Now she's squatting, take advantage and try to fix your family together, if it doesn't happen, you don't waste anything, time in front of men - pain, and at 50 you like it, 30-year-olds. For comparison, I will tell you my story. I was fired, at the same time my father died, and I was diagnosed (was a medical error) with a tumor and another incurable disease. My friend told me in plain text - I never liked you. I literally failed. There are things - forgiven, there are people, which you can only regret. Try again, is my advice, but let it win your trust, don't get emotional at the very beginning. Judge her again.
I don't think it's a good idea to get together. Nothing will be the same, and the chance of hurting you again is not small. She wants to come back because she is over 40 with two children and no one will take her seriously. He will only fight with non-committal relationships. And as he gets a little older, they will end. Separately, that children are not small and there is no need to do it for them. We live in the 21st century and this "because of the children" does not sound serious. A closed page, although sometimes it is difficult to accept and realize. F32
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On the one hand, I understand your respect for your wife. But on the other hand, it turns out that when you went through hell, she just went to fuck other men, and now that you've got back on your feet, she's coming back. The whole story seems very disgusting to me. I guess 16-17 or so years ago in front of the altar you said some oaths, if I'm not mistaken they said: "To be with you in good and evil, in disease and health, in wealth and poverty, etc., etc., while death has divided us! "and not" while your company is flying! "I personally would not take your place. You already have children (to be alive and healthy), and for me personally this is the beginning and end of the whole meaning of getting married. I think the answers you will read will be divided into two groups - "Get together" - written by women and "Don't get together" - written by men. I also think you blame yourself a lot for everything - it's not possible to be an ox during the day, but a bull at night. As he himself said: you fought for business, with institutions and courts, you made many sacrifices and the fact that you literally could not lift him from stress is not an excuse for her to look for sex elsewhere. This is my 5 money on the subject.
So it's very convenient to run, fuck and then come to the pallet because there is no one else to take you, as long as you are 20 years old, I understand, but given that you have a family together where she went. I'm not in your place and I don't know what's wrong with family and an unfaithful wife, but I'll tell you one thing. You do not love love has the first 2-3 years then remains a habit, respect and a common worldview in the family case. I would personally get together with her for the sake of the children, but I wouldn't have high expectations of her, not even any, I would have fun with her and with others. After all, she has chosen to betray all of you, thus leaving her children behind, your dignity, and everything you have built over the years for what? The broken one, no matter how much you glue it, can't become like new,
No. No matter how many arguments there are in favor of getting together (according to you), from the outside it seems that your wife has clung to you like a straw drowning man. This personally repulses me a lot. From nowhere he wants you to get together, there is no love. Clean bill! And you look tortured, and even tortured. I guess you're thinking - who will take me for a serious relationship. There is truth in this, now obviously no one is looking for such connections. Outside is Sodom and Gomorrah. However, I would be left alone in your place. Your life is yours, the children are no longer small, you will continue to help. The trust between you has already been erased, but not as a mortgage. There are things that are not restored or forgiven. Looking at you will give her a chance, but it will doom you to a life of reconciliation in which you will have to pretend to be happy. But many people live it. To be alone requires strength,
Never forgive betrayal. In the most difficult moment she betrayed you, now she is coming at you again. "I fucked myself, they already wiped my slipper, take it again ..." Don't, man! You will spit on the surat. By claiming that you no longer have a problem with women before it's too late, start a family with another, but make sure she's more literate and not a cynical consumer. You may find one.
No, don't get together. Your wife stabbed you in the back when the biggest dramas happened to you. Then she thought about how to scratch herself, not to mention what. Headless goose. She doesn't think she's fainted from love now, you're just very comfortable with her. She saw that there was nothing better. By now, you should have found a suitable woman like Luff. The problem is that this horizon is not cloudless either - if she is a girl, she will want a child, if she has children, you will have to live and deal with them. You have to choose for yourself, according to your inner attitudes.
I think it's good to give yourself a chance, but don't rush to live together and give hope especially to your children. Besides, I think it will be very refreshing for you to meet again, to go to the movies, to walk outside the city and so in time to judge for yourself whether you want to spend more and more time together, whether you love her. Finally, make a decision based solely on yourself and your needs. Because a good parent is a happy parent, no matter where he lives. As a child of divorced parents, I can tell you that I would rather be happy separately than be pressured to live together in my name, creating a poisonous environment.
He absolutely shouldn't come back to you. She scolded who she could and now she remembered that she loved you, oh shit with such cheap numbers. Moreover, what have you stabilized for?
These nasty, corrupt assailants ... must have divorced a lot of people. My husband went through the same thing. We were detained for 2 years, unfoundedly. I did not go to cheat on my husband, but I want you to know that it was not easy for me and I was about to leave several times. He was super nervous and tense all the time, he had nothing to do with life at home. Either he was in the office, or with lawyers, and when he came home he would make a scandal over every little thing, or he would go to bed without saying a word. It bothered me a lot that he didn't want to go out with us anywhere. He had been crushed and nothing was being done to him. I felt powerless to distract him from the problems and make him smile. At one time he also suffered from insomnia and had become downright poisonous. Black-eyed nervous. I don't know if I would have taken my path if our children had grown up. I had suggested to him that he did not love us and that we were not his happiness. But little by little, things started to work out, the seizure fell, the work started, and my husband now enjoys his family and life in general even more than before. But how many times have I thought that he no longer loves me, that he probably has a mistress, that his job is a priority for his family, or even that it is for psychiatry with these nerves and insomnia, and I was on the threshold. We women accept your bad mood as a personal defeat, and when this state persists, our self-esteem hits the bottom, and then a man is capable of all sorts of nonsense. I do not justify it, but if you find yourself in what has been written so far, I understand it. that he probably has a mistress, that his job is a priority for his family, or even that it's for psychiatry with those nerves and insomnia, and I've been on the doorstep. We women accept your bad mood as a personal defeat, and when this state persists, our self-esteem hits the bottom, and then a man is capable of all sorts of nonsense. I do not justify it, but if you find yourself in what has been written so far, I understand it. that he probably has a mistress, that his job is a priority for his family, or even that it's for psychiatry with these nerves and insomnia, and I've been on the doorstep. We women accept your bad mood as a personal defeat, and when this state persists, our self-esteem hits the bottom, and then a man is capable of all sorts of nonsense. I do not justify it, but if you find yourself in what has been written so far, I understand it.
If the children were small, it is worth taking a risk and being with them every day, but they are already big and will soon fly out of the family nest, then you will have to communicate with the person who betrayed you in the most difficult moment for you. What do you expect from a traitor who will betray you again? Watch your composure, don't deal with traitors!
She has realized that her market quotation is below zero and she confuses you with I love you and a second chance. Cut her to hurt her, was it a little pain for you? !! Even without a home you had to leave her, let her sleep with the hammers ...
I will try to be as objective as possible about both possibilities in front of you. The fact is that she betrayed you in the most difficult moment for you. She also realized the fact that trampers will always find, but a man for a serious attitude much, much harder at this age you are, by the way, the same goes for you about women. It is also a fact that you have kind of returned it, if you cut it now you will rub its nose and caress your ego. If you get together now, it is unlikely that he will go for lovers again, he will take care of you and try much harder for you than before. Your children will also be happy, which in itself is not to be neglected. If you can accept all that she comes back to you when she realizes that she will not find another for a serious relationship, when the difficulties with you are gone, when she has combed well (figuratively speaking), then act. If you do not accept it, you will have more casual relationships, sex, but in the end you are always left alone. You can find a woman for a serious relationship much harder, and I'm not convinced that you want him internally. I think you still love your ex, but I really don't know if you'll be happy with her. I also don't think it's a good option to get together, but to continue with casual sex relationships. Such things would undermine the already complicated relationship between you. In my opinion, don't force yourself with a definite answer right away, for a while you only see yourself as boyfriends, if things work out and you feel good, act with her. Personally, my opinion as a man, I could not accept her after this whole story, but still I am not in your place. It's one thing to read about these things on the computer, it's another to have experienced everything on your own. Success! you will have more casual relationships, sex, but in the end you are always alone. You can find a woman for a serious relationship much harder, and I'm not convinced that you want him internally. I think you still love your ex, but I really don't know if you'll be happy with her. I also don't think it's a good option to get together, but to continue with casual sex relationships. Such things would undermine the already complicated relationship between you. In my opinion, don't force yourself with a definite answer right away, for a while you only see yourself as boyfriends, if things work out and you feel good, act with her. Personally, my opinion as a man, I could not accept her after this whole story, but still I am not in your place. It's one thing to read about these things on the computer, it's another to have experienced everything on your own. Success! you will have more casual relationships, sex, but in the end you are always alone. You can find a woman for a serious relationship much harder, and I'm not convinced that you want him internally. I think you still love your ex, but I really don't know if you'll be happy with her. I also don't think it's a good option to get together, but to continue with casual sex relationships. Such things would undermine the already complicated relationship between you. In my opinion, don't force yourself with a definite answer right away, for a while you only see yourself as boyfriends, if things work out and you feel good, act with her. Personally, my opinion as a man, I could not accept her after this whole story, but still I am not in your place. It's one thing to read about these things on the computer, it's another to have experienced everything on your own. Success! You can find a woman for a serious relationship much harder, and I'm not convinced that you want him internally. I think you still love your ex, but I really don't know if you'll be happy with her. I also don't think it's a good option to get together, but to continue with casual sex relationships. Such things would undermine the already complicated relationship between you. In my opinion, don't force yourself with a definite answer right away, for a while you only see yourself as boyfriends, if things work out and you feel good, act with her. Personally, my opinion as a man, I could not accept her after this whole story, but still I am not in your place. It's one thing to read about these things on the computer, it's another to have experienced everything on your own. Success! You can find a woman for a serious relationship much harder, and I'm not convinced that you want him internally. I think you still love your ex, but I really don't know if you'll be happy with her. I also don't think it's a good option to get together, but to continue with casual sex relationships. Such things would undermine the already complicated relationship between you. In my opinion, don't force yourself with a definite answer right away, for a while you only see yourself as boyfriends, if things work out and you feel good, act with her. Personally, my opinion as a man, I could not accept her after this whole story, but still I am not in your place. It's one thing to read about these things on the computer, it's another to have experienced everything on your own. Success! I think you still love your ex, but I really don't know if you'll be happy with her. I also don't think it's a good option to get together, but to continue with casual sex relationships. Such things would undermine the already complicated relationship between you. In my opinion, don't force yourself with a definite answer right away, for a while you only see yourself as boyfriends, if things work out and you feel good, act with her. Personally, my opinion as a man, I could not accept her after this whole story, but still I am not in your place. It's one thing to read about these things on the computer, it's another to have experienced everything on your own. Success! I think you still love your ex, but I really don't know if you'll be happy with her. I also don't think it's a good option to get together, but to continue with casual sex relationships. Such things would undermine the already complicated relationship between you. In my opinion, don't force yourself with a definite answer right away, for a while you see yourself only as boyfriends, if things work out and you feel good, act with her. Personally, my opinion as a man, I could not accept her after this whole story, but still I am not in your place. It's one thing to read about these things on the computer, it's another to have experienced everything on your own. Success! Such things would undermine the already complicated relationship between you. In my opinion, don't force yourself with a definite answer right away, for a while you only see yourself as boyfriends, if things work out and you feel good, act with her. Personally, my opinion as a man, I could not accept her after this whole story, but still I am not in your place. It's one thing to read about these things on the computer, it's another to have experienced everything on your own. Success! Such things would undermine the already complicated relationship between you. In my opinion, don't force yourself with a definite answer right away, for a while you see yourself only as boyfriends, if things work out and you feel good, act with her. Personally, my opinion as a man, I could not accept her after this whole story, but still I am not in your place. It's one thing to read about these things on the computer, it's another to have experienced everything on your own. Success!
I sympathize with you for the loss of your loved ones, author, very sad! It was hard for you, you needed support, it was very clear that you would not want sex. But what is your wife's point of view? She may have felt rejected, as number 14 said. Talk to her honestly and openly and then decide whether to get together. Now they use it for sex, but they can find someone later. You are alone and what - aren't you also looking for sex, love, how many women will want you with 2 children, with an ex-wife, you pay alimony and go to them to help them, will it be easier for you to start a relationship ? You say you decided to divorce, she didn't think about divorce.
I'm a woman and I understand you very well about the torment, but honestly I can't justify your ex-wife's action. Even if she felt neglected and lonely, she could talk openly with you and try to solve the problem. Infidelity is not a good thing, and once it happens, it is very likely to happen again in time if you decide to give it a second chance. I'm also divorced for two reasons, but quite different from yours. I tried to save my marriage for two years, but I couldn't. I never cheated during marriage. I've had a failed relationship attempt in those four years, but I don't jump from man to man just to be alone. Pay attention to your words: "Three years after the divorce, my wife had relationships with different men." You can judge the situation according to your inner needs and give yourself a clear assessment of what is best for you. The children are not small, I also understand that they need a father regardless of their age, but they have one, despite the divorce. I wish you success and happiness, whatever you decide! From what you have written, it is clear that you are a valuable person.
Author, did you make a decision? You will probably give it a second chance, although it doesn't deserve it.
If you get together on the principle that we are together, that there is no one else to take us, yes, the hell that will happen will seem like a seven-star hotel in Dubai. And to be left alone, to be enlightened that loneliness does not kill. But from lack of freedom and fresh air in a relationship - yes.
You better get together and try / lose nothing. Fuck her every night, like a kind of revenge! After a while, catch your mistress, but let her know that you fuck others. If your ex-wife wants to stay with you, then she loves you. But never, do not have the faith of a woman / first think of yourself, At the time when you thought about the family, it betrayed you! For _this you put yourself first. If you like living with your ex, you continue if you don't break up.
The author. Thank you for your answers and wishes. One enters such sites when one is really confused and needs support or just to share. During these years, I realized that one cannot make plans for anything, but even if one does, one must always have one thing in mind. Until before these things happened to me, I always thought I had a wonderful family, healthy children, a home, a wife who loves me and her madly, but as the saying goes - a man never knows what awaits him or where you knock where it cracks. In a word - destiny! After the divorce I could go and live in Germany, but I stayed in Bulgaria because of the children, I love them very much. The real parent, if he cannot live with his children, must at least be close to them and if they need help to react immediately. Children from a distance are neither watched nor brought up. The other is " It's just that our relationship was built on sex between sensible and mature people, nothing more. After that, I didn't go looking for women, I told you above why my ex-wife, just the opposite. She rolled something. She refused to have relationships with married men, she already had one and saw the result, she didn't want relationships with bachelors because she didn't want to have more children. So he settled on divorced men. Unfortunately, for three years after the divorce, she was with five divorced, the relationship lasted between 3 and 6 months and until then. After they get sexually fed up and beat the jester, or after a while they call her again for sex. However, she did not make them live together, nor did she ask them for money or to look after her children, she just expected love and tenderness. It all came down to getting her coffee somewhere, taking her to a restaurant and going to bed, if she has raised the issue of a deeper relationship - escape, and some have even encroached and allowed themselves to be quite rude at times to treat her. She herself, yesterday Saturday roared at me and said that she felt disgusted because she was terribly frivolous, they just used her in a moment of weakness and fear. "Do I have to sleep with 200 men to find the right one" - he shouts at me - I don't want anyone but you. I feel safe and calm with you. I know that he stayed in Bulgaria because of us. You could have arranged your life differently. One time he didn't insult me, he didn't call me a whore, he didn't hit me, he didn't take revenge on me. I am wrong about many things and I want to take revenge on you from now on. "I think she is sincere. However, I myself have no expectations from her, nor will we get married, nor will I be her master or father, nor expect miracles. is, that I scroll. I have accumulated a huge amount of sexual energy. After the relationship with my colleague from the university, I have not had another woman for about a year and a half. I'm not a porn maniac, nor am I a chikiboy and at the moment my ex is my salvation. On Saturday we were just the two of us and we talked about a number of issues, but then we had sex all night, I didn't let her sleep peacefully, but she was dedicated. I don't know - I finished three times. I apologized and she called me, you are the father of my children, you have nothing to apologize for. The children are my great hope. They are not like other children. They are homemakers and they are very good in character, they are studious (full excellent students), but they are by no means rusks. I just want the days of life that I have left to help them, and as much as I can. They love us very much as parents and are attached to us. Share, talk, we discuss and hope to be very happy one day with families and a nice profession. Well, we will start with the former without conditions, whatever comes out. I wish you happiness and a lot of love
Author, thanks for the comment, people like you are rare now, I'm happy for you, be happy together, I wish you from the bottom of my heart!
Good luck, author, let it be for good! H2
Write again in 2 months, let's see what happens!
Author, you have trusted your lower head in vain without asking the upper one. You made a mistake. She was devoted in bed, and the tears, and all the other performances to tie you up again. She will not forgive you for forgiving her. Think about it. HE WILL NEVER RESPECT YOU AND COUNT YOU AS A MAN. All such cases are of the same type and are repeated until startled. You shouldn't have talked to her at all. Jester - and to the future. Now you have crossed out your possible chances, preferring the easier way, which, however, leads to the swamp. And don't make excuses that you've collected a lot of material in your testicles - that doesn't excuse you.
Well, you don't mind touching her, she even told you the number ... when you count, she didn't stand alone. Baia drove the mileage, but oh - those men were the bad ones. And she's good with an eternally raised skirt! Awl in a bag is your wife. What are you going to get together for, for sex? You sound desperate, is this the only woman on the planet or is your self-esteem just below zero and of the type - there is no one to tie me to. Too bad. How long do you think the violent sex will last? She was calm with you - understand financially insured. She will look for the thrill outside again. Finally, you will not be able to enter through the door from your overgrown horns. I'm not judging you, but I'm wondering. A sick person wears a healthy one, you read the story.
Author, how things developed!
And I wonder how things turned out seven months later?
The author. Thank you for your attention and interest. Everything is fine. We are together. She is very dedicated to me in every way. However, he develops a phobia of not getting sick and cooks me only healthy foods. Maybe this is due to the fact that her parents got sick and we only go to doctors. I am firmly by her side. I help a lot, she sees it all. There's just no way to fix it yourself. I neither hint at the past nor raise questions about past affairs. We look ahead. Children are my pride. I have no problem with them. The big talks are already following in Germany. That's how life goes. I do not regret it, because there is nothing more disgusting than humiliating a woman with children, regardless of her mistakes. No matter what we say, a woman is a weak being and at certain moments emotionally unstable, and if she wants a second chance, she should get it.
Author, you are a very good person! You remind me of my father. I wish you peace of mind. Be very happy and go boldly forward together!
I'm glad for you, author. You have suffered a lot. I hope the bad is in the past. Although with a woman like yours, one should always have one thing in mind. Whoever betrayed you once is not trustworthy. But your life is yours. Success! One woman
You are a real man! Only the strong can forgive. M36