Three Years Later, He Wants Us To Reunite

The Story

Hello, I would be very grateful if the owners of the site publish my story and readers give me some advice. I turn to the ladies in particular, because they themselves are women and know better the condition and psyche of the woman at certain moments in her life. I am 44 years old, my ex is 42 years old, we have two 16-year-old children. (boy) and 12 years old (girl). In 2015, we divorced because my wife had an extramarital affair with her married colleague from another city. I didn't understand, and his wife caught them and made a big fuss, made scandals at work, wrote letters to the bosses, etc. It all reached me. She didn't deny it, but she wanted us to continue living together, she said she loved me, but she did it because she had sexual needs, and I wasn't as good at sex as I used to be. I didn't apologize, she knew very well what was happening to me, but she obviously didn't want to get to the heart of the matter. I accepted the guilt and without hesitation divorced. Even before the divorce, I had transferred the shares from my apartment, so I moved out calmly. What happened to me before In the summer of 2012, my sister, who was 6 years younger than me, died with her boyfriend (they were not married) in a car accident near Igoumenitsa (Greece). My sister was 4 months pregnant. When I was told the news, I stood in my chair for an hour without knowing what to do, and separately the whole organization for the transfer of bodies in Bulgaria shook me. My mother died a week after the funeral of my sister and her friend. She could not survive it. Dad had died before. It was an additional blow, but an evil never comes alone. My small and tight business has always been in the sights of the big players and they decided to hit me. For this purpose they used the NRA. They entered my audit in the company and completely unreasonably charged me some receivables for VAT and others, and on top of everything they confiscated my accounts and all the property of EOOD - it. However, I did not give up and we started litigation. At the local level, I lost the case at first instance, but I appealed and we went to the Supreme Court. It turned out that it could easily be a year since he was scheduled. Even before that, when I saw that things were going badly, I gave my children the hereditary home from my mother and father, reserving the right to use it, and I also gave my wife a share of my apartment. In the meantime, I had seven workers who I fired, but they still remember me well. As all my activities were blocked, all my contractors withdrew from me, and those who owed me money simply refused to pay. I went looking for options on how to survive and feed my family. We literally stayed on my wife's salary. I found some comrades from Sofia who turned out to be much more powerful than the local women who decided to buy my business with the alleged debts to the National Revenue Agency. Meanwhile, the village was still waiting for an appointment with the SAC. My business cost about 100,000 euros, but I sold it for 50,000. That is, for me, after covering everything, there were about 8,000 euros left. The tax authorities lifted the seizure and the new owners started working. A year later, I won the case before the Supreme Administrative Court, but since I had already transferred the company, the new owners benefited and the National Revenue Agency left them with BGN 80,000. I was very angry and on the advice of my lawyer we went to the National Revenue Agency to inflict non-pecuniary damage on me. Of the BGN 10,000 I demanded, the court awarded me BGN 3,000. Abe, how are they? All this time, you realize that I have turned my back on my wife's emotional and physiological needs, but I have struggled to save my family's livelihood. I'm not saying anything to justify myself, I'm just stating. After the divorce, I was left alone, but I continued to take care of the children. I saw them regularly, I paid them BGN 200 per child and I was available separately for all their needs. I realized for myself that I would not do business in Bulgaria anymore and I started looking for other options. I had a foreign client from Germany, he was actually my only one. He trusted me a lot, he shook a little after these stories, but I went and met him in person, I explained everything to him and offered my services. I am a German-speaking person with a technical education and I dare say that I understand my job. I started working for him mainly on the internet, I make the relevant drawings, calculations, etc. and they and I are inferior to each other. My life is stabilizing. After the divorce, I realized that it was much easier to sleep with a woman (and not a prostitute) than to find turkeys at the market. And I'm not writing this to hurt the female audience, I'm just stating it as a fact. So I am 183 cm tall and by 2012 I weighed 117 years. Now I constantly maintain 83 - 85 years. It is possible that the toga and my thickness have repelled my wife. I don't know how I lost weight, but it's already a fact. However, my hair turned completely white, but I did not go bald. I have never smoked, but on occasions I drink some brandy. What happened to my wife? Three years after the divorce, my wife had relationships with different men, but never repeated with a married man. Thank God I didn't bring any idiot to live with the children, for which I am grateful. However, she also realized that they look at her as a sexual subject, get cold and get cold in three or four months and go their separate ways, and this is not a way of life. The years go by, and to look for and wait for the prince who will appreciate and understand her is a matter of great coincidence. Last week he made me an offer to get together and try to live together (without marriage) with the children of course. She tells me that she loves me very much and has not stopped. I did something stupid then, we were alone in the room and I broke it off from sex. I don't know what happened to me, whether it was a urge, revenge, proof of masculinity ... for the first time in so many years. However, she did not object ... Then I got hungry and asked her to make me a tarator and fry eggs. She did so immediately. I don't know, the kids are pushing me to get together too. It is true that you will have your life one day, but they will always be happy if their parents are together and understand each other. They were tired of not having a word to say in the evening, but their children love me very much. After the divorce, I helped my wife with many things of a domestic nature. I have not been angry with her or abused her. I don't hate her. I respect her because she gave birth to two children and is a good mother. Do I still love her - yes and no. Confused life If you wish come advice and courage Greetings if their parents are together and understand each other. They were tired of not having a word to say in the evening, but their children love me very much. After the divorce, I helped my wife with many things of a domestic nature. I have not been angry with her or abused her. I don't hate her. I respect her because she gave birth to two children and is a good mother. Do I still love her - yes and no. Confused life If you wish come advice and courage Greetings if their parents are together and understand each other. They were tired of not having a word to say to each other in the evening, but their children love me very much. After the divorce, I helped my wife with many things of a domestic nature. I have not been angry with her or abused her. I don't hate her. I respect her because she gave birth to two children and is a good mother. Do I still love her - yes and no. Confused life If you wish come advice and courage Greetings

Last Updated
November 03, 2020
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