Third Child - For Or Against?

The Story

Hello, readers. I am 35 years old, I have an older daughter at 14, a son at 4, and three days ago I found out I was pregnant. This pregnancy, unlike the other two, is not planned, that is, we have not thought about a third child. In general, in Bulgaria people with more than 2 children are not looked upon with a good eye, at least I am left with this impression. I have nothing to comment on the financial situation, our children are not deprived of anything, we have quite a large income - my husband has his own business, I work in the field of fashion, so the point is that money is not a problem. we grow up, but rather I feel emotionally exhausted. With a teenager and a 4-year-old baby, I don't know if I will have the strength to raise another child. When I gave birth to my daughter, I was 21 and it was a little harder because we were too young to be parents, but with my son it was easy, I hardly felt when time passed. I told my husband, he is to keep the child, because what could be better than giving life, I like a lot of people with more than two children, but I'm not sure that I will be considered diapers again and go through again the baby years, as my son is about to get out of them ... We haven't talked to our daughter yet, the little one won't understand and we won't share it with her. What do you think? Would you give birth at 35 again? What do you think? Would you give birth at 35 again? What do you think? Would you give birth at 35 again?

Last Updated
September 02, 2020
Author:
pennystar28

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