I'm a girl and I'm a teenager. I can't communicate with people shy and I'm mostly silent. I've been told quite often that I don't talk about having to talk more and say things like that and I feel bad because they push me and even more silent I don't like to share something and others use it against me. There's a girl x with her we talk to her and I share a lot of things that I and X and another person y we went and at one point they started attacking me with words and telling me that I'm not communicating, that I'm not talking and I'm not saying anything I started to feel bad x also shared that I don't talk or share anything with her and most of the time she's just talking. Also, x constantly jokes in front of the group and laughs at me joking about everything I say or do and I get super nasty. A few days ago x and another person we were talking about and I decided to speak my mind and x told the other person not to listen to me and that I was wrong. How can I talk when they don't give me a chance? I've often been told only to be quiet, you're very quiet, you don't talk, talk more, say something, you need to talk more, etc. I'm asking for your help. I'm asking the editors to publish.
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cheleyyy answered · June 15, 2020
Stop contacting these people! They're the only one who hurts you and pulls you down! You don't have to care how they react if you leave, because they might try to manipulate you, that you're wrong, so they can have someone to kill their complexes. But that doesn't mean isolating yourself from the world - sign up to some extracurricular activity (sports, music, whatever it does). So besides making friends with similar interests, you're going to get your self-esteem up and you're going to have the courage to do the things you like, ignoring people's opinions. Start a new page of your life! :)
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kaileeshy answered · June 15, 2020
10, talking doesn't mean sharing!
Talk about things that excite or excite you, talk to common themes, not personal ones, show a funny clip that you've seen or happened just says things from earth to cosmus and nothing so personal with you.
You take things very personally, you joke about what you said well, me and my friends are constantly making fun of our, and it's fun for us to do it and, they have, it's not out of the question, but listening to it seems unlikely.
I can tell you that the girl or boy in question has no idea, she just wants to be right, interesting, etc. a purely childish story in, which you're not a friend, I guess she's a girl, and she just wants attention on herself, so don't put it on, and say it's nice if you're better, be right, I don't care, for someone else's opinion, if I'm not nice to you, to get out and see how the meek silent one will shut her up and she'il be in shock.. next time, tell her that when you're uninteresting, and there's nothing to say you didn't go out, enjoy your back.
In case you see that they're just making fun of you, and if they're not doing it, for the moon, for the sun - not literally, but simply, for all sorts of things :)
And never put someone else's opinion, relax, and that's it, don't be shy, and if they're not your friends, away!
Better 1/2 real, not 10 fake :)
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oopsididitagain1235 answered · June 15, 2020
Surround yourself with people in the company of whom you won't have to worry about being yourself.
:)
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vskrislim answered · June 15, 2020
From the author. Today, the same way started me and a few other girls and the girl above in the text began attacking me in front of a friend and my friend is on their side. They started saying I wasn't talking to them, that they didn't know anything about me and others. I'm getting really bad. They didn't even try to get to know me, and on top of that I didn't speak at all when they spoke to her I didn't give her an opinion. I've known them for two years, and they said they only knew my name and my age. I feel bad. I'm not sure what to do?