Hello, I am a girl of 16, this year I moved to another class and the problem is that I am quite developed and the boys allow themselves to be touched. They touch my chest, rub their fingers in my ass, and when I stand up they pass by and rub against me. Something super awkward happened to me yesterday. I was in the hallway and we were waiting for the lady in front of our office. Next to us were the adults from 11th grade. And a boy from my class passed by and grabbed me from behind, in front of everyone, including 11th grade. And an 11th grader said, "How can you touch a girl like that" And the boy who touched me said I was "dying for fun." And everyone was just looking at me and laughing, and I had to put up with that for 5 minutes, dying of shame. It was a very nasty day. How do I get the boys to stop touching me? I can't fight, and they go to the gym and they're strong, I can't deal with them with words,
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Well, rejoice, this means that they like you and want you, and this is exactly what every woman wants. You are still young and you do not realize it, but believe me - many girls want to be in your place and be given this attention.
I wonder why you don't do anything more important when they touch you? !! For example, to slap them a few times in the shoulders and / or back, no matter how strong they are, to shout in their faces not to touch you, to tell them that they are idiots…? Sometimes you have to be cruel to people, especially when they don't understand a word or deliberately put them in an awkward situation. I was also touched, but I hit them so hard that my hands hurt. You buy a hot spray and the moment one of the bastards reaches out to try you, you spray it on his face and then he gets better, as he knows. Sprinkle them until they stop touching you. Black Sabbath
You look like a victim to them. In my time, this happened in 5th grade, but only to girls who seemed to be out of number. He made a sharp compass and stuck it in the lustful man's ass.
Well complained to the teacher. This should not happen in any high school. There must be the intervention of a higher official. It's clear that as a girl you can't lose them like that. It's not right that even the boys in the upper class don't protect you in any way. M, 17
The other time he made a scandal. If they try again - complain to the directorate.
Hello! You slap him without thinking! Your other way is to catch a friend so that the infantiles know that there will be slaps if they allow themselves to be touched!
Would you be happier if no one wanted to look at you? Rejoice that you get guilt, because there are girls who are eager to touch them. You complain that they touch you. If no one wanted to touch you, you would complain that no one wanted you.
Give him a slap. If he responds, they will turn him off
kick it in the balls
I don't know why you let them touch you. Even if you are new, you can always grab them by the wrist or just pull away. Or to say "don't" at least. You have to be able to set boundaries. It doesn't matter if you go to the gym or not, you are in a public place. No one will jump into battle for not letting you touch him. Next time, just don't let that happen. And if someone says that "you're dying for fun" you can always say something like "I'm not happy, you're not nice to me either, don't stand by me"
Well, don't wear tight-fitting clothes and they won't touch you.
Scold them, raise their voice, they need to understand that you are serious, I understand you, but you should not give up.
And you're just sitting, right? The next time someone touches you and pinches you, they sew a strong slap or better a fist in the nose to see if it will happen again! If you carry a bag or a thicker textbook, hit it on the head.
Do you not have a principal, pedagogical advisor, teachers? Turn to them. You can't solve the problem on your own, but that's why they are there. True, the issue is a bit delicate, but it is their duty to take the problem into account. Don't hesitate to share with them. It's not that shocking, they should listen to you without astonishment, after all you are teenagers. Don't be silent and patient, you don't have to! One or two by punishing or calling their parents and you will see how the others will calm down.
Complain to someone. If you don't, one day you may have a problem with the intimacies and touches of the person next to you. Do something. Tell either the teacher or your parents. Someone will always do something.
You can complain to the teachers, to the principal, to your parents. But the truth is, there won't always be anyone to complain to, so you better learn to deal with annoyances. I had such a classmate, he touched me, put balls under his blouse and imitated me, he nicknamed me Rositsa the Great ... One day I was so upset that I left school, went to my father's work and asked him to beat my classmate. . My father reassured me, told me that I was a nice girl and that I would still be bothered by various annoyances and that I should learn to get rid of them on my own. He gave me a few remarks to try to get rid of my classmate and promised me that if they didn't work, he would kick him from school to his parents and back. And the next day I go to school happy (and sure that I will not achieve anything with words) that today my classmate will be kicked. However, when I told him in front of the whole class, "Well, instead of wondering how to touch me, why don't you get a boyfriend? Huh? Crazy! Didn't you realize I didn't like you!" Everyone burst out laughing, he was so worried that he almost went to fight with me and became even more ridiculous. He didn't touch me anymore. Over time, I realized that even a "Man, get away, I don't like you, but I don't like you at all." In a serious tone, it does a great job.
Give it to the boys - don't bother them. Anyway, one day it will happen
I want you to tell me if it is normal for a 14-year-old girl to be touched by 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16-year-old boys, she touches me every day, and even in places where I shouldn't. the story is how it all started this year I moved to another school on the first day of a teacher a boy of 16, 15 years old touches me I said nothing because I did not know what on the second day I met a few girls and 3,4 boys the boys told me I was very sexy and would be happy if we did something together I got angry and one of them said leave her gathering strength for tonight and the next day they started touching one day I saw a very very cute boy with a blonde hair and blue eyes turned out to be a new boy who is from our class and the lady put him sitting next to me he asked me my name and if I have a boyfriend I answered him,but before he left school he asked for my number I gave it to him The next day you took me off and the next day he told me he was crazy about me and offered me to be boyfriends I told him I couldn't tell him I had to talk the next day I accepted him of course he already had friends who also liked me sometimes he goes out with some of his friends and I and when we go out sitting in some restaurants and when my boyfriend goes to the toilet they stain my ass ass tits but when he came back they stopped and once again we went out with them I went to the toilet and another boy I went out and he was outside he pushed me against the wall took off my pants and started pushing my cock into my heel I woke him up and it runs out I told my friend and he asks me if I want to stay to sleep with them I answered him to give me some kind of blouse they put it onbut I was already undressed in panties and bustier he came in look came to me we felt and told me if you want to have sex he started kissing me he touched me he started to undress I remembered what happened you had sex with me and the next day we broke up to be honest I enjoyed it and they keep touching me
This story is very strange to me, if it is true I am very sorry about what is happening! I do not agree at all with number 1! Every woman wants attention, but from a certain boy! And not from all the idiots trying to get to her! It is very important how you look, what you look like, how you behave. There are many factors these people behave this way there must be a reason! This reason is rooted somewhere in you. Did you show that you DON'T WANT to be touched? Or do you sit and laugh like a red tomato? How you behave is really important. They treat you like a little girl, I don't think there is a problem in the chest. As they tell you here, hit an idiot, but it's a humiliation for him, maybe they'll stop? Or grab a stronger boy and see him see you a few times, and that's it. Or learn to defend yourself! They might even rape you somewhere, do something while there is time! Every second person already goes to the gym because it's fashionable ... but that doesn't mean you have to sit and watch it! If you feel in trouble, you can accuse them of sexual harassment. It's just like that, if you don't want to. Paris
Girl, in white countries this is called SEXUAL HARASSMENT! Remember that no one has the right to touch you in any way without your consent, whether you are comfortable or not. The fact that everyone does it and it is a mass phenomenon does not make it normal. Don't be ashamed to talk about it and seek help. Contact a teacher, principal, classmate or parent. Do not allow anyone to humiliate or humiliate you. Today it is groping, and other days it can turn into rape and the arguments will still be "she liked it".
When you give them, they will touch!
It's the same for me, I'm 13 years old, I don't have very big breasts but my ass is very tight or whatever they say sexy (I'm not bragging) once I was in the hallway and a boy from 9th grade robbed me while I was sitting I asked him why he You told me you're a sexy cock * and you'll be * and one day I said it and it continues what to do I know I don't help but I can't
Still illiterate and thinking about sex !? №20, first learn to write, and then compose your nonsense!
There are several options, the lighter is the spray, as someone has already suggested, the heavier is the teaser. Both are punishable at school, but rest assured that no one will repeat once they get what they deserve. And others will know! Success!
Listen №7. These are the only two ways.
Unfortunately modern. children, because they are still children, are very bad, rude, selfish, abusive, and with an elementary lack of upbringing. When I was your age, ie 36 years ago, such a thing could not happen at school, or if someone allowed himself, first the teacher would slap me a few times, then in the principal's office, he would eat another slap and after his father was called to school, his father would throw him a fight at home. And now you are the 16th and most of all the already completed criminals and freaks. Your generation is inexorably dull! I'm stuck in 8th grade, at a class meeting, one of my classmates drank more and let the boys touch her. She lay down in one of the classmates and the others surrounded them and touched her. I managed to reach into her pants and feel her pubic hair. I got such excitement,