They Think Of Me As An Easy Girl

Until now, with "From this spinous k *** and I don't want to eat anything" I believed that the story was real.

It's not you ... but him. You're just an inexperienced girl who has yet to get to know life and men. What happened - it happened, you will not take it back, we have all done things we are not proud of and we would like to forget them. One learns from one's mistakes more than from one's successes. You already have a lesson - until you get to know the person, until he shows you that he loves you, do not rush into intimacy, no matter how much he likes it. Behave with dignity, respect yourself. Be strong, don't let them ruin you mentally. Don't you think to follow, to change the city and the environment? This way you will have a better job and you will see more countries, you will meet more interesting people. Be ambitious, study, read, so you will become more confident and you will not constantly think about your bad moments. You are young, you value your best time because it passes quickly. Be a strong and proud woman! Success!

I hope no one writes comments on this stupid fictional story. Super tiny pastry shop, and there is a cashier, a boss and your mercy a waitress. Such a tiny pastry shop does not need three people to work in it. Author, this story of yours is very similar to your other story: "At 19, I didn't have a boyfriend." You seem to be impoverished by ideas.

You don't sound like a whore to me, but it's as if you're desperately trying to push yourself into that definition. 1. You didn't go with this boy because of him, but because of your own complex, which your relationships have shaken. 2. He was a scumbag too, because he went after your skirt. Me after you. Ie it was all just for sex and that's you. Whore and you know. You can't expect anything else from him. 3. The boys called you a whore because you were probably dressed provocatively. 4. Look, however, it is not at all clear to me what this spinous one was. Were you dressed provocatively again, or was that your attitude? You're not telling us anything. What is his reason for reacting like that? And don't make excuses here that you don't like the attention of others on you. Now that you've changed your image, negative attention seems better than nothing. But you're complaining here because there's some conscience left. Now you're acting like a whore, you'll be like that soon, but you won't care. The whores just don't care. Burn your mind until it's time, gather your legs and find a decent boy.

Isn't that so? What it's really about is that you wanted to please the "cool". You fixed your appearance, and you wanted to "catch" the "dude" / "the bad boy". Well, you caught him, and he made you a blade. Guess what - you're stuck with him, he's fucked you, and he's "bragged" to all his friends. Many boys and girls your age today do not know (because your generation "knows everything") that the other sex wants things from you that if you do, they lose respect for you. And no, it's not just men who are looking for easy sex, and when they get it, they consider the girl a whore. This is also the case with women who seek to love, respect, almost give their lives for them (for example, by giving them marriage), and then, you become nothing for them. There is no man who respects a woman less than the one who loves her and is ready for anything for her. This is simply human nature - lower, immoral, a question of who is stronger and more surviving ... When you submit someone to your will, he becomes something lower than you. Don't dramatize so much, they will gargle with you and you will get bored of them. But your "reputation" will hardly be forgotten .... Otherwise, let me ask you - why not look at the more modest, better guys who would accept you with your previous appearance? What exactly did you "wait" until 19? Weren't there normal boys for you? Why, in your own words, did you just catch up with a person you don't really love, but used to prove to yourself how "wanted" you became? And others come like 2, to justify your behavior ... You do yourself a disservice by self-winding, what was "male nature", what was life like ... Life is what I describe, what really happens, not excuses . Neither I nor my close friends have ever done this to girls. But I guess we're not "men," especially if we compare the female attention we receive to what the whores you describe. And I would say that less than 20% of men like them, but yes - you are deliberately looking for them just like that ...

Hello, you sound like a young, intelligent, but at the same time inexperienced girl. What happened to you is horrible to say the least. I can't understand the previous comments that are attacking you. What is the girl guilty of in this case? Was she dressed provocatively? Bulgarian women are always to blame for them. So dear girl, pay no attention to the comments or to your evil ex. The fact that you wanted to like yourself, to be noticed and accepted is something completely normal that everyone strives for. There is nothing whoreish about maintaining yourself and paying attention to your appearance! You have my admiration for the change you have achieved and for taking care of yourself and your body. In my opinion, next time you should be more careful about the boys, because as you said, you are inexperienced and you don't know who has what second thoughts. I can't explain this rude and disgusting behavior towards you. I don't know what city you're from, but I advise you if you keep contacting someone. You have nothing to worry about your mother, after all you are 19 years old and it is normal to have sex. Indeed, if this aggression continues, you must retaliate or you can go to another city to study. I'm outraged by what I read. Be strong and don't let any trifles ruin your day, let alone as life has told you. Life is ahead of you and I hope you meet the right person for you!

No, you're not a geek, you're surrounded by them - you're just in a very bad environment. It's good that you've fixed your appearance, because people notice this en masse first, that's just human nature. But as important as it is, just as important is what you have in your head - how you think, how you think, to be able to judge people ... I think it will be best for you to go and study somewhere in Europe. Like a country and explore universities.

I believe you, and I know why it happened to you. Boys at this age like to prove themselves. They even bet that they will leave with a traffic jam and within a certain period of 5-10-20 days they will have opened it. Most likely the friend of your "boyfriend", who lost the bass and had to pay, is the one in the pastry shop, he decided to expose you and came in for this purpose, to turn your order over and insult you. What can you do but file a complaint with the police, convict the offender. You can, as they say above, go to study in another city. But the most important thing is to be careful who you sleep with

Don't pay attention, young, beautiful girl. This is happening en masse. You were inexperienced and gained experience, and he is a womanizer. No one will mess with him

Honey, you obviously live in a small town and this jerk you had sex with said bad things about you to your friends and acquaintances. He's angry because you didn't want to have anal sex. A normal man would not behave in such a way, make scandals and insult you because you did not let him go as he wants. Typical behavior of a complex who tries to pretend to be a man. I advise you not to pay attention to such insults. I know it's easy to say. But you should not care about the opinion of others. Do you like to put on make-up and dress in a certain way? Do it without fear. Do you want to have sex? You don't have to give explanations, your body is yours. What if they think of a light girl? Is the opinion of 5-6 failed complexes so important for you? People who treat you badly allow themselves to do so because they know they will hurt you. Do not show weaknesses in front of others, be naughty with iron armor. Don't spare your insults, hit them where it will hurt them the most. Or better yet: do not certify them with your attention. Such complexers, as soon as they see that the victim of their insults is not affected, leave with a wagged tail. Never, ever show others that you are hurt. If you cry, at home, alone. For in front of people, a stone without feelings. That's how life is. I was also the busiest in school until 6th grade, then we moved to another place. At the age of 16-17, I had built such self-confidence and self-confidence that no one dared to insult me ​​or make stupid jokes. At university, I was thought to be arrogant and insensitive, but so what? Only my closest friends know me as I am. The opinion of others does not interest me.

Talk to your father. My daughter to tell me something like this, these few squirrels are unlikely to get an erection more in their lives, because they will wake up without balls. What are you so afraid of? From a few pimply teenagers? Live your life girl. True, you shouldn't have had sex with this jerk, but it's for a lesson.

Well, look now, your problem is firstly that you are waiting and secondly that you are obviously not choosing the right people (which is true for many women). Tell your mother and she will give you the best advice.

Don't you think that oligophrenic made them treat her badly in order to let him anal and have something to brag about? Sun, don't make her angry at such melons! Keep in position and things will pass!

Something here, in this story, does not bind me ... There are things that are not mentioned. I have always been against defining people as who they are, etc., especially when it comes to anyone's intimate life. The insults they make to you are ridiculous, you have done something wrong. If your story is real, not made up, share it with your mother, she will help you.

So, my advice is to share briefly that he is very small and that's why you didn't want to do anything special with him. It was as disappointing as the first time. And then to make as much fuss as he wants ... :) In the end, whatever called called.