Hello! I am a completely normal girl of 23 years - learning a job, in short, really nothing unusual. For 3 years, however, absolutely every boy with whom I started dating or writing just wants to sleep with me! This is inexplicable for me, because I do not dress provocatively, but rather stylish and elegant, I do not hint at sex outside the permissible joke, I do not have any naked photos on Facebook, on the contrary - guys have asked me why I do not upload such ... and again the same - here is a fresh example from ten days ago. There was one who wrote to me literally every day to see me and I finally accepted.
We went to the movies, a completely normal meeting, we had a good time and that same evening he invited me to "watch a movie". After I turned it into a joke and refused, of course it evaporated. If I date someone at all (because most people say directly to each other what they want before we even go out) most of the time there is no second date because I get direct offers of sex. I also have a desire, but not only for that. I had a relationship for one night, of course, but it's not for me - then I feel very humiliated, and sex itself is not worth it, because boys are selfish in bed when it's just for once. I'm tired of being seen only as a sexual object - I'm the best at university and at work, I manage my life on my own and I'm far from an empty-headed bastard who only goes for sex. And even honestly, it's inexplicable to me, because I wouldn't say that I'm the type of girl that men like, and that's why I thought that someone would look at me more seriously, but hardly ... why is that?
I also have a desire, but not only for that. I had a relationship for one night, of course, but it's not for me - then I feel very humiliated, and sex itself is not worth it, because boys are selfish in bed when it's just for once. I'm tired of being seen only as a sexual object - I'm the best at university and at work, I manage my life on my own and I'm far from an empty-headed bastard who only goes for sex. And even honestly, it's inexplicable to me, because I wouldn't say that I'm the type of girl that men like, and that's why I thought that someone would look at me more seriously, but hardly ... why is that? I also have a desire, but not only for that. I had a relationship for one night, of course, but it's not for me - then I feel very humiliated, and sex itself is not worth it, because boys are selfish in bed when it's just for once. I'm tired of being seen only as a sexual object - I'm the best at university and at work, I manage my life on my own and I'm far from an empty-headed bastard who only goes for sex.
And even honestly, it's inexplicable to me, because I wouldn't say that I'm the type of girl that men like, and that's why I thought that someone would look at me more seriously, but hardly ... why is that? I'm tired of being seen only as a sexual object - I'm the best at university and at work, I manage my life on my own and I'm far from an empty-headed bastard who only goes for sex. And even honestly, it's inexplicable to me, because I wouldn't say that I'm the type of girl that men like, and that's why I thought that someone would look at me more seriously, but hardly ... why is that?
I'm tired of being seen only as a sexual object - I'm the best at university and at work, I manage my life on my own and I'm far from an empty-headed bastard who only goes for sex. And even honestly, it's inexplicable to me, because I wouldn't say that I'm the type of girl that men like, and that's why I thought that someone would look at me more seriously, but hardly ... why is that?
1 heleem_tyler answered
Men always want sex, whether you offer it to them or not. No matter if they love, hate, and even if they are indifferent, they want sex. Accept it, learn how to overcome it and your life will be much easier.