They Forgot My Birthday

   You take things very personally. If you wanted to spend the holiday with friends, you would have invited them to a birthday party. My husband and I are among the people who, unfortunately, do not think of such things - it is good that there is a Facebook so that I can at least clean the closest ones. I was cleaned by a lot of strangers / semi-strangers. Is it? Did that make them friends? True friendship is not measured by such things. If this day is so important to you, CELEBRATE IT. You can modestly invite your friends to a cake somewhere after school, but celebrate. Don't be angry if you haven't invited people to think they don't care. And don't roar about nonsense. In life, they expect more serious disappointments. Learn to live with them.

   That no one at school congratulates me on my name day either.

   And no one knows when my birthday is (from class). Don't be upset.

   I understand that you are hurt, you are 14 years old, birthdays are important for the younger ones, there are big people and for them it is important. I will give you an example with me, I am a girl of 20 years, my birthday was congratulated to me ONLY with the people I move E And? I want to tell you, raise your head and next time you will not congratulate them and that's it! As number 1 put it. It's good that it's Facebook, otherwise I really can't remember to congratulate either birthdays or name days! Don't be angry and don't take it personally ... - Don't worry!

   How should your friends know you have a birthday? You all know your RD days and congratulate them, you treated them / invited them, or how? Maybe they were waiting for you to treat them somehow? They may not know at all. They may know, but they may have forgotten. And you could have reminded them of the previous days. I can't believe you've been roaring about this all day. I hope no one roared that you did not invite him to RD.

   They didn't forget it, they just didn't want to congratulate you. Do you think that Facebook did not say that you were born? Just forget and don't take things so personally.

   Just because they didn't remember your birthday doesn't mean they don't appreciate you as a person and a friend! I don't remember such things either, but I appreciate my friends. In fact, it is rare for people to have such a good memory that they remember the birthdays of all their friends, so don't take it personally. Another issue is that you, alas, did not give any signals that you have a holiday and did not show that it is important to you. When you decided not to celebrate, you could at least have some candy at school - I and all my classmates "signaled" for the holiday. It even seems strange to me that you left your birthday a secret !? Anyway, I hope the story is not made up, because it looks a bit like that, and I wish you a nice day! ;)

   And my birthday was not cleaned this year, but I did not die ... And it is possible because it is a day for "sobriety": D. Calm down, it's normal to forget lol.

   Get used to this waiting for you. My parents forget me every year, but the cover was on my 18th birthday. They called my older sister to wish her a happy birthday. It was both funny and sad. Now my boyfriend forgets me, otherwise he remembers his ex-girlfriends' birthdays, stupid. I expect that in the future my children will forget anyway. Somehow I learned over time that I'm not so special for someone to remember when I have a personal holiday. I'm not a bad person in general, I try to help everyone as much as I can, but my favorite people forget me every year and I don't care ....

   n 9, PARENTS to forget your birthday is a little strange, especially your mother. Are you adopted or born by caesarean section? I don't know which woman will struggle all day to have a child and she won't remember that date. Your family is crazy, honestly! It is understandable for friends, but parents, siblings, children are just HORROR to forget your birthday. Didn't you celebrate it, especially on your 18th birthday, didn't they give you a party or give you money to make something special on that day?

   And I don't understand why you kept your birthday a secret. You could treat them to some candy and everyone would congratulate you. Or have a little party with friends. If you don't have Facebook or you haven't written your date of birth, don't take offense so much, it's normal that they haven't showered you with wishes. However, it is normal for someone to have a birthday party.

   Are you adopted or born by caesarean section? What does this have to do with anything? !?

   Number 10 I was born by caesarean section. The last celebration with a birthday party was when I was 6 years old. Then every year it happened like this - the night before my birthday because I was sent to shop in principle "quota I choose" and accordingly the ideas of what to cook every day were my duty. Every year I was reminded of a "candy box." Then they remembered immediately. "Oh it's true he had a birthday." But on my 18th birthday, it was funny that the three of us were sitting together and my father shouted at my mother "don't forget to call Mima tomorrow to wish her a happy birthday" and my mother immediately started whining that she had forgotten and so on. n. I left them, I didn't say anything and I watched Seir. They called my sister and she told them that they had confused the daughters. Both funny and sad. Then they call me "Sorry" but then strangely they did not forget me. Even my mother, if we heard each other on the phone the day before, mentions it herself in order not to forget to call tomorrow :-) And now I'm sorry for my boyfriend. 3 years is still not enough to remember. But I try not to mince anything :-) And sometimes if I have children I don't know ...

   If she had organized an unvas party and invited them, you would have had a great time. No one will remember your birthday if you do not celebrate it. Only the names of the days are remembered by all.

   Happy birthday on a crutch! Leave them to others, so they don't respect you.

   I also had a birthday recently and only our and one or two relatives congratulated me.

   n 12, has a lot in common with the caesarean section with not remembering the mother's birthday of her child - she may have experienced trauma, but most often it just happens that such mothers fail to make a stronger connection with their child. It's just that for her, the operation may have been a trauma she wants to forget. If you gave birth to a child with 10 hours of pain, of course you can't forget the birthday, and finally there are erdorphins and so on hormones that make you happy

   And so it is with me, I am number 15 and to repeat, who did not congratulate you on your birthday, there is no elementary respect for you. I have had similar "friends", if I may call them so. Just dump them, if they think of themselves, they will greet you and apologize

   I, on the other hand, am happy when they don't congratulate me on my birthday, because no matter how many parties and nonsense I had, something nasty happened and I cried, my parents were arguing about something, someone was purposefully picking on me, either is very dumb, no matter how much we get together, or a bunch of other incidents. I never had a full-fledged birthday party, nor do I believe it will happen, so at the age of 10 I started rebelling against having some partisans because I just didn't want to. However, my parents thought that I should have "fun" and if they called, they called parents with children and did not comply with me and so on until I was 13 years old. Because of this and the things I listed above, I swore that I would never celebrate and now, as few people know my famous birthday, I have a great time! Not to mention that I don't like gifts who knows how much. And what about a friend whose best friend died right on her birthday from a rare disease ... And that's what I was talking about when we were kids! There are much worse cases. Imagine, this girl's birthday is doomed probably for the rest of her life. And I think you should have informed your friends about your birthday. In this hectic and nervous everyday life, teenagers are tense and forget about such things, but this does not mean that they do not respect you. Some people just don't remember dates. I'm sure if you go and tell them "" Hey, people (when are you) I had a birthday. ", most will be shocked because they did not know or missed due to inattention. Next time invite them and have fun, so they are more likely to remember it. Black Sabbath And what about a friend whose best friend died right on her birthday from a rare disease ... And that's what I was saying when we were kids! There are much worse cases. Imagine, this girl's birthday is doomed probably for the rest of her life. And I think you should have informed your friends about your birthday. In this hectic and nervous everyday life, teenagers are tense and forget about such things, but this does not mean that they do not respect you. Some people just don't remember dates. I'm convinced that if you go and tell them "" Hey, people (when are you) I had a birthday. ", most will be shocked because they did not know or missed due to inattention. Next time invite them and have fun, so they are more likely to remember it. Black Sabbath And what about a friend whose best friend died right on her birthday from a rare disease ... And that's what I was talking about when we were kids! There are much worse cases. Imagine, this girl's birthday is doomed probably for the rest of her life. And I think you should have informed your friends about your birthday. In this hectic and nervous everyday life, teenagers are tense and forget about such things, but this does not mean that they do not respect you. Some people just don't remember dates. I'm convinced that if you go and tell them "" Hey, people (once upon a time) I had a birthday. ", most will be shocked because they did not know or missed due to inattention. Next time invite them and have fun, so they are more likely to remember it. Black Sabbath on which her best friend died right on her birthday from a rare disease ... And that's what I was talking about when we were kids! There are much worse cases. Imagine, this girl's birthday is doomed probably for the rest of her life. And I think you should have informed your friends about your birthday. In this hectic and nervous everyday life, teenagers are tense and forget about such things, but this does not mean that they do not respect you. Some people just don't remember dates. I'm convinced that if you go and tell them "" Hey, people (once upon a time) I had a birthday. ", most will be shocked because they did not know or missed due to inattention. Next time invite them and have fun, so they are more likely to remember it. Black Sabbath on which her best friend died right on her birthday from a rare disease ... And that's what I was talking about when we were kids! There are much worse cases. Imagine, this girl's birthday is doomed probably for the rest of her life. And I think you should have informed your friends about your birthday. In this hectic and nervous everyday life, teenagers are tense and forget about such things, but this does not mean that they do not respect you. Some people just don't remember dates. I'm convinced that if you go and tell them "" Hey, people (when are you) I had a birthday. ", most will be shocked because they did not know or missed due to inattention. Next time invite them and have fun, so they are more likely to remember it. Black Sabbath Imagine, this girl's birthday is doomed probably for the rest of her life. And I think you should have informed your friends about your birthday. In this hectic and nervous everyday life, teenagers are tense and forget about such things, but this does not mean that they do not respect you. Some people just don't remember dates. I'm convinced that if you go and tell them "" Hey, people (when are you) I had a birthday. ", most will be shocked because they did not know or missed due to inattention. Next time invite them and have fun, so they are more likely to remember it. Black Sabbath Imagine, this girl's birthday is doomed probably for the rest of her life. And I think you should have informed your friends about your birthday. In this hectic and nervous everyday life, teenagers are tense and forget about such things, but this does not mean that they do not respect you. Some people just don't remember dates. I'm convinced that if you go and tell them "" Hey, people (once upon a time) I had a birthday. ", most will be shocked because they did not know or missed due to inattention. Next time invite them and have fun, so they are more likely to remember it. Black Sabbath In this hectic and nervous everyday life, teenagers are tense and forget about such things, but this does not mean that they do not respect you. Some people just don't remember dates. I'm convinced that if you go and tell them "" Hey, people (once upon a time) I had a birthday. ", most will be shocked because they did not know or missed due to inattention. Next time invite them and have fun, so they are more likely to remember it. Black Sabbath In this hectic and nervous everyday life, teenagers are tense and forget about such things, but this does not mean that they do not respect you. Some people just don't remember dates. I'm convinced that if you go and tell them "" Hey, people (when are you) I had a birthday. ", most will be shocked because they did not know or missed due to inattention. Next time invite them and have fun, so they are more likely to remember it. Black Sabbath

   17, you talk complete nonsense. the attitude towards the child has nothing to do with the way of birth, both types are forgotten for a maximum of a few months. this is what a woman who has given birth in both ways tells you, and I suspect that you are not speaking from personal experience. but the author's problem has nothing to do with it. above they gave her good advice. author, the world does not revolve around you. invite a few friends for a walk, cake, billiards, bowling, disco or whatever you like and they will not forget. you can mention in advance that you are wondering where and how to celebrate it, how many people to invite or something in this style. and waiting for people to remember, given that you didn't mention anything, and then making dramas and roaring, is pointless. F46

   It was the same thing with Moon. No one in the class knew I had a birthday. If I told you that I forgot that I had a birthday, would you believe me? Don't work so hard. And happy birthday on crutches from me! My cousin was also born on September 20, but she is 9.