Hello! I am a 17 year old girl and I feel betrayed by my friends. I was always there for them, as soon as they called me, I went out immediately, but if they found boyfriends, they stopped looking for me. Although, even with a boyfriend, I always found time for them. I have 1-2 girlfriends who only if I look for them SOMETIMES go out with me, otherwise they are with their boyfriends. But most of all I feel betrayed by another. I knew that when she caught a boyfriend she forgot about everything, but the one year she was single, we became really best friends, we shared everything, we went out often, but recently she found the same story, and I didn't think that once we become so close it will do the same. At first we went out, but he started to interfere in our relationship and to follow us and make her go to the 2nd place where you are and that annoyed me, because I couldn't say 2 words to her, they were just scratching. Other things happened, I found out that she told him what I shared with her, and I also learned from common acquaintances that he did not think well of her (I will not go into detailed in order to remain anonymous). I didn't look for her after she cut me off a few times because she was going out with him. I thought I'd tell her what he said about her, but I chose not to interfere in their relationship, because it seems to me that even if she found out, she would still be the same, she would even tell him, and he would turn her against me even more. (I forgot to share that he also spoke against her and they discussed me). Since then, when she accidentally meets me, she hugs me and enjoys me like a little baby and asks me things in common, but I'm kind of cool and withdrawn ... I think she misses me and wants to see me, but doesn't do anything about it. the question is waiting for me to look for her, but no ... I'm not that kind of person! It's as if the offender is going to apologize. Even now I'm dumb and I don't want to look for other girlfriends, because if they are, I'll be without them again. I don't know how to prevent this thing. Share if you have such experience and advice. :)
1 gibraltar_fa answered
Well, tell me that if she's a real friend, you should only see each other sometimes. And if you are a real friend, tell me what you know. M