Hello! I really like the site and decided to get involved. The problem is the following ... my boyfriend and I love each other a lot, but his parents don't like me because of my problem - that I have a health problem and I can't have children. They are good people, but very demanding .... This worries me, I do not know what to do. Since I've known this for a long time, I've told my friend since the beginning of our relationship. He loves me very much though. We haven't tried a donor egg - which is my only option - to be honest, I don't risk it because my health condition doesn't allow it and my disease is hereditary. If I was healthy - yes, otherwise I want to have my own, but I can't. His parents love to have a child of their own - a grandson, but my friend and I love each other many times and he told me that he would not leave me anyway. I do not know what to do. Yes family is most important. Sometimes I think about leaving, but I can't because I love him so much. She will find another one and give birth to many children. Sometimes you leave because you love him so much - don't get me wrong. If they hold on to their own, I can't have ... I don't want him to have problems with me. We have been thinking of adopting for a long time, but again theirs do not agree. Please for opinions. Thanks!
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A good option for everyone to be happy is a surrogate mother fertilized with semen by your husband. Thus, he will be happy that the child will be from him and his parents will enjoy their own grandchild. Adoption is hardly an option since they are so demanding. I guess you won't mind having a baby, not your own, but still from your husband?