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There's No Shame In Being Poor - It's A Shame To Be Rich

By bigzaddyzane June 16, 2020 15 answers Last updated June 16, 2020

Hi! My ex-boyfriend inspired me to write this article. There's one thing a lot of men do (rather boys) and it's to pretend to be rich when they're not. Buy expensive shoes and then have a penny in their pocket, even for a coffee, buy expensive cars on a payout that they can't keep because the parts are too expensive for their pocket, buy iPhones to flaunt, and then pay them for two years. They live in houses in the face of decay and instead of putting that money into something useful, like renovating their home, they spend their little money on expensive things in order to attract chicks. Then they say there are no decent women, but excuse me, no decent girl will be impressed by this false display. In this way, you only attract girls who want boys with money to buy them things, take them to restaurants and so on. And when they find out you're not rich, they'il dump you. Accordingly, all this display is absolutely useless. In my case, my ex was showing off his £180 shoes, with his Mercedes on a pay-per-beat, which, as he broke down, I don't know how much money he took to fix it, and with his expensive g shock watch, which she had collected all of his family. While at the same time he lived in an apartment in a terrible state, crushed from everywhere. When I found out about him, it fell a hell of a lot in my eyes, it's a shame. Guys, don't be apathetic, like him, there's no shame in being poor, it's a shame to pretend to be rich!!!!

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strict_teacher_ answered · June 16, 2020
Good luck with the next one, you tricked yourself into thinking it was a baron, noooo beam. People like you who are looking for them to get there
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danerm5 answered · June 16, 2020
Oh, my 20s! I have an expression for them, and they are en masse. Why they want to experience some of the women who see them, I don't know. It's good, it's good, but they're not.
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bussdownblicky answered · June 16, 2020
That's what my mother says. Let them buy the items they want, it has nothing to do with you. Don't get mad about other people's, you're just poisoning your nerves. You're not going to pay off his loans, so don't mean it. For someone it is a priority to have a Mercedes, for someone else to live in a renovated dwelling, and for me it is a priority to have food in the fridge. The budget shall be allocated according to the priorities. There's nothing wrong with different people, different priorities, no one can say what's right.
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vikiwills answered · June 16, 2020
Demand determines supply. As long as there are women who swear on money, there will be pseudo-rich people.
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mysweethobby answered · June 16, 2020
Depends on what you mean by poverty. In my opinion, if you have nothing to eat or cover your elementary needs, you are poor. But that means you don't have enough brains or you're too lazy, which is embarrassing. I know that now a lot of people who are just going to attack me and start justifying themselves, but that's the truth. You're always going to make some money to be smart, and if you've got a smart one, you're going to make a little more for a nice car, a watch, or so on. Everyone has different needs, so stop criticizing and looking at yourself.
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aliska_dark answered · June 16, 2020
Well, there's a theme for programmers in a neighboring section, and there you can find out how pragmatic, sober-minded men are looking for in the sex market and what labels are put on them. People like your ex know best: It's not how much you have, it's how much others think you have. The very fact that he's your ex means you've always opened your legs to him, which is a success. When you taught him what he was, it's a big deal. There are 100,000 other women who aren't. I don't think so. And 1 for number 4 - demand determines supply.
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littleodemons answered · June 17, 2020
Uh... and you write about how such men couldn't catch good boyfriends, and you've got one yourself. So his strategy works.
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anorsel answered · June 17, 2020
Number 1 and 4 tell you that!!
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cristal_bach answered · June 17, 2020
Hahahahaha, shoes from 180lv expensive to you?
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beautifulwomen89 answered · June 18, 2020
Next time, grab someone with a rusty or a ruged golf 2. At least you'il know he's poor, and sex with him can go to charity - you'il atone for a sin of your own and go to heaven. Success!
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codeviolation answered · June 18, 2020
It's a shame to be acting like anything, because you're not your real one, but some dream character that's almost always unattainable. It doesn't surprise me what the author wrote. Many of today's people slave to misguided ideals, and materialism is elevated into a cult. Me
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peaches8669 answered · June 19, 2020
Because they know that women are looking for rich kids, so that's why they pretend to be bartenders... How can I tell you? They go into a fake image to get a fake woman... The deception is mutual. Don't you think so, author? :)
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xx_sexkitten_xx answered · June 19, 2020
You describe a mass phenomenon in Bulgaria and not only among men. I'm going to give an example of the proms for which parents take credits and sprinkling madly for just one night.. For many people, it is more important what they look like in the eyes of others rather than living well. But it's a way of thinking. Without a man reaching a conclusion himself, he'il never realize it.
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blankmike411 answered · June 19, 2020
Most people who call in and at pay-per-account phones. I'm talking about guys with $10,000 and up income.
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cindylauree answered · June 20, 2020
Are you one of those chicks who dumps the guy after they find out he's not rich? Honestly, it's a ridiculous subject. I hope you find someone to make you happy!! Pease