I am married, with children and a man in prison. I have an extramarital affair with a colleague who is 10 years younger than me. Our relationship has lasted almost a year, and this year we have seen each other intimately at most seven times. In a word, he doesn't show a strong sexual attraction to me, and if it was just that, I would never call him a relationship ... but the rest of the time he treats me like the most in love man on the planet. He looks at me and caresses me with a tenderness with which no one else has done it ... he can't last a day without seeing me, even for a coffee ... And his jealousy knows no bounds. He is jealous of all my colleagues and I almost avoid talking to them to avoid a possible conflict, because he is also hot-tempered and constantly threatens to beat us and me. He is also jealous of my former relationships ... he can't stand having other men before him. You guessed it that since I am willing to put up with all this — I am madly in love with him. I told him a few days ago, I felt him get excited, he didn't stop looking at me with a gentle and amorous look, but nothing, he didn't say a word about feelings and love. And is he really experiencing them or is it time to stop hoping and put an end to it What do you think, have you encountered such people? I will wait for your comments!
1 shynnasty answered
What can I tell you, this is like a dog that neither eats its bone nor gives it to anyone else. There may be another, do not reject this idea. Tell him what is bothering you and ask for an explanation for his behavior. And those who threaten to fight are weak-willed people and you should not be afraid of such a person. And one piece of advice - do not give it very much in love, but hold on to the situation. That's how you let him rule over you.