The Suffering Of The Weak (mental)

   To have others like you. Here I am. I'm in 11th grade and I also have a year left, I feel the same way, but somehow I cling to something, I think positively at times. When they insult me ​​or something like that, I say to myself - it seems to them that they have no upbringing and are weak-minded. Don't think - yes they are, I'm so ugly or something. No, you're not like that. Whatever they call, have dignity, do not impress them, do not cling to your shortcomings. And for me, the attitude of my classmates is terrible, given that I hardly speak, I have not done anything to offend, offend or interfere with anyone, but they just like to vent their anger. Weak people feel strong ... when they crush others, they feel good that way. There are people like us, good people and they are okay with the others ... there are some and you can't believe it. Girl does not lose hope! What are these expressions? desire to live? "? Just because you don't have respect from people you don't even like yourself, do you despair? When you see that they are at a lower level than you, why do you compare your desire to live with their behavior? It has nothing to do with it. we have an obligation to go to the place every day, to have to be patient and watch the same naughty people every day, but hey .. you lasted 4 years! Don't give up right now! I understand you, but don't cling to it , try to spend the rest of your time (outside of school) with only positive emotions Do things that make you feel happy Sign up for something, find a hobby, organize your future, organize your time in good things who takes the books and the headphones and pulls the ignore. This is how I live, not so pessimistic from the 9th grade. I enrolled in sports, I found a favorite hobby, I fill my time outside of school with good emotions. As for the friends .. I have a few, and they are in another city and here, where I study I do not have, but I am supported by the fact that ours give everything, literally and gave to enter this high school and I want it or not I will push, even with difficulty. One year remains and I will pass it. I will graduate and I will never see these people again, in 10-20 years I will not remember their names and their actions. I will live. And to have a desire for life, because I do not limit it only to negative emotions at school. Tighten up, author, I'm with you. You will succeed! -T. :) they literally gave it to me to enter this high school and I want or don't want to push it, even with difficulty. One year remains and I will pass it. I will graduate and I will never see these people again, in 10-20 years I will not remember their names and their actions. I will live. And to have a desire for life, because I do not limit it only to negative emotions at school. Tighten up, author, I'm with you. You will succeed! -T. :) they literally gave it to me to enter this high school and I want or don't want to push it, even with difficulty. One year remains and I will pass it. I will graduate and I will never see these people again, in 10-20 years I will not remember their names and their actions. I will live. And to have a desire for life, because I do not limit it only to negative emotions at school. Tighten up, author, I'm with you. You will succeed! -T. :)

   Dear girl, I am a middle-aged man. As a child, I was quite anxious and had bullying at school. People harass someone (especially at school age) not because they are bad or deserved, but simply because there is a lot of cruelty and evil in human nature and they do it on a weaker and harder to defend person who can't to avenge and harm them. That is, the root cause is not in you, but in the fact that they need to crush someone. After school, if you're at university, at work, that changes. There, people are still really bad, but now life, environment and age force them to behave differently, and such bullying as at school no longer happens. And you will change, you can find your good place in life, to be respected for achievements. Otherwise, if you have no other way to protect yourself at school, it is not impossible as an option to help, for example, to talk to your class teacher or another favorite teacher of yours, listen to what she will tell you. I wish you happiness, and I'm sure you will be happy.

   Unfortunately, I was too. But not always ... times change. And after work I was like that too, but things will change again and have changed :). You have nothing to worry about. Everything will be fine...

   Children are cruel, a lot. When I was a student, I had the same problems. There is nothing that can be done. Wait. At the university everything is different, people are already big and a little more mature. Over time, everything gets better

   That's where your problem is that you're too good and allow others to crush you. Show yourself the bad side, learn to fight for yourself, do not be silent, respond to insults and be confident, because, believe me, you have no reason not to be! Just don't let aggression overwhelm you completely, because getting out of this state is very difficult. I tell you from personal experience. The difficulties now and overcoming them will make you a stronger person in time. You will see. Black Sabbath

   I'm going through it as hard as you do right now. I had a best friend I have known for 7 years. She was the only "real" one I knew, or so I thought. Find another one now (from her class, because we are in different) and she most brazenly dumped me. So, for no reason, without words, without even a little effort to explain how I deserved it. I wake up in the morning and hurry to finish because I don't want to be among such fake and conceited people. When I come home, I am overwhelmed by thoughts of loneliness, cruelty and lies that are scattered among most of today's friendships. How did I not find at least one true friend for 15 years? How come at least one didn't stay ... They all left. And I, the stupid one, never learned not to care.

   Why don't you move to another school? If you are 18 you can even do it without your permission. You don't have to care so much about these. They feel that you are tying them up, that you care, and this makes them even more ambitious to crush you. But if you can still change schools, because that's just wasting your nerves with this daily stress. Your people should also agree to this, because such stress can have a very bad effect on your health. Tell them this argument if you think it's appropriate.

   Such is our world. If the bastards find someone, their mother is sorry, they will do everything possible to offend them and feel a little pleasure, without thinking that they are offending the person and may traumatize him. You just haven't come across the right people. Those who offend do so because they have a lower IQ and they usually do not go far and life sooner or later returns it to them, but not to everyone. Put up with them a little longer and that's it. Just don't let them hurt you. This is a big fall and this is exactly what they want.

   You are a sensitive girl and that is why you accept things that way. Unfortunately, the arrogant, the brutal, the shameless are now progressing. You know, I've noticed one thing and I can't stop wondering - I know beautiful women without self-confidence, and I know ugly, fat, disgusting ones - with cosmic self-confidence. It's all in your head. Don't say that you are not beautiful - I am convinced that you are beautiful, your youth adorns you, one day you will regret this time ..

   Wow! If you can't stand it, go on your own and you're done ... Clean work.

   You place yourself depending on the opinion of others. In fact, what matters is what you think of yourself, not others. Until you learn to respect yourself, there is no way others can respect you.

   Child, stop for a moment and look in the mirror. Think about whether you love the person opposite. It doesn't matter what others think of you, it matters what you think of yourself, whether you love yourself. No one can love and respect us if we do not first love and respect ourselves. Don't think about who thinks about you, it's more important what you think about others. Not what impression you will leave in them, but what impression they will leave in you. If you think so, you will have more confidence and self-confidence. And respond to the villains with a smile and kindness. If that doesn't calm them down, at least I'll drive them crazy.

   Unfortunately, for me, too, depression is a very common "phenomenon," or as some say, a weak psyche. It hurts that there is no lasting alternative to it. The best cure for depression and mental suffering is to walk in life and be surrounded by happiness, but unfortunately there is no complete happiness and there will always be something bad that will ruin us mentally. Unfortunately, such is life! If I lived a wish, I would never be born if I knew how much suffering many people go through. We can't choose our appearance and if we don't have beauty, they avoid us and keep us cold. I say it from personal experience because I can't boast of beauty and for years they avoided me and didn't respect me. I lived for every day and I was tormented by the fact that I had to. But I am grateful that there is someone who stimulates me to live! But there are specimens, who are trying to spoil it too! Many times I have thought how good life would be if we experienced only good emotions, but alas!