My ex-girlfriend and I were together for a little over 2 years, she is 21 and I am 27. Yesterday we last saw each other. We had a fight and went out to talk. We were in her car and gradually the scandal escalated, we fought for incredible stupidity, but it didn't matter anymore, we talked some stories on both sides that they don't even happen to me again. The last thing I told her was to stop and that, I don't want to see her again. she stopped at a traffic light before the crossroads where I was going to get off. I looked ahead when she punched me in the face I was shocked as I came to my senses I got a second blow. This time I reacted and grabbed her hands. I came to my senses just before I hit her. I also said that she was a stupid girl and that I would beat her, she started shouting I don't know what would happen if I hit her. I told her to stop. I didn't believe this was happening to me before, but I would never hit a woman, I honestly hadn't thought about how to react if a girl started hitting me. She stopped after the scab. while my hands were busy removing the belt I received a third blow to the face. When I got off I kicked the car with all my might and left a mark on the paint (the car was new). she came out and attacked me. She was insane, I easily parried all her attempts to strike and I did not answer. I used a lull and left. I was glad I restrained myself and didn't hit her, when I came home I saw that blood was flowing from my lips and I had a fingernail on my chin. In the evening I talked to our mutual acquaintance who already knew the story from her. We talked seriously and I explained to her that I would not see my ex again. We gradually changed the subject and the girl said something that shocked me. "It's usually men beating their wives, but obviously you have the opposite," laughed. I left, I couldn't believe it was said by a girl. I also talked to a friend later. I received similar insinuations from him. In the evening I thought. I remembered my grandmother and the other gossipers at the entrance scolding their peer who used to beat her husband. The epithets were mainly at his expense! I also remembered writings from this site. And gradually I realized that according to our society I am a fool because I did not beat her as she deserved, I know that according to the majority I did the right thing, but now I do not even deny the negatives of my action. what do you think The epithets were mainly at his expense! I also remembered writings from this site. And gradually I realized that according to our society I am a fool because I did not beat her as she deserved, I know that according to the majority I did the right thing, but now I do not even deny the negatives of my action. what do you think The epithets were mainly at his expense! I also remembered writings from this site. And gradually I realized that according to our society I am a fool because I did not beat her as she deserved, I know that according to the majority I did the right thing, but now I do not even deny the negatives of my action. what do you think
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I think you did the right thing. In such a situation, there are not many correct moves anyway. Big dogs should not bark! If anyone thinks the opposite, it is obviously one of the little ones. Greetings