Hello, dear friends ... It is written by a very confused and lonely girl. A girl who longs for love - real and strong. A girl who gets a lot of attention, but things are quite complicated. I have been living abroad with my family for more than a year. We have come to earn some money as it is called in order to secure a better future. With the money I plan to invest in a study in Bulgaria. In general, my life is spent only at work. I have no friends - literally! Yes ... Everyone here is busy and lives far away, because this is London. The problem is that I can't take it anymore. I am only 21 years old and I miss my friends and love terribly. There are many interesting and well-mannered boys here. For example, yesterday I met one and it is quite nice and I want to meet him. But when it comes to going out and the questions pop into my head again - "What will our people say", "How can I tell them that I liked a foreigner", "Will they let me hang out with a stranger in the big city" ... What so? I have been given the opportunity to meet different people from all over the world, which is great. I understand that they are parents and they are worried ... But because I live here - I have to somehow fit in and be happy, to live ... How to gather courage, I am afraid of their opinion and it bothers me a lot. Please share your tips and opinions ... How to reach happiness at last ... Thank you !!! I am afraid of their opinion and it bothers me a lot. Please share your tips and opinions ... How to reach happiness at last ... Thank you !!! I am afraid of their opinion and it bothers me a lot. Please share your tips and opinions ... How to reach happiness at last ... Thank you !!!
1 liltunechi answered
I believe that happiness is everywhere, not in something specific. The more you look for happiness and decide that it is something, the more you will run away and feel dissatisfied. My thought is that if happiness is in love for you, you may receive it, but the bad days will come with meaningless quarrels and you will still not be happy. Now, for example, you have found a person you want to meet and that makes you happy, but you immediately find a problem with the solution. It seems to me more rational to find happiness in events and possessions on a daily basis than in people, events and things that we do not have. If something makes you smile, act and disregard other people's opinions, even if they are your parents. The other thing is, you're 21, which makes you big enough not to worry about making your own decisions about life. Your people may not be happy that you are hanging out in London and going out with a foreigner, but such decisions are entirely up to you. Take responsibility for both the good and the possible bad. If you have met a person and you want to get to know him, start going out and stop looking for problems. Your parents will find out sooner or later, they will give you an opinion, but they can't forbid you because you work, you make your money, you think individually and you can be independent.