The Reasons For The Breakup Of A Marriage

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After the divorce, I often thought why in the beginning everything is super good and over time it falls apart. Analyzing my 15 years of marriage, I found the following: in the beginning we are full of enthusiasm, we cannot breathe without each other, we do everything together and finally the decision for marriage comes. Before the marriage we lived separately and everyone took care of himself - he honored himself, he washed, he cooked and so on. After marriage for a while things are done together - the debts are distributed and everything is fine. The shoot begins when the child appears. In most cases, the woman stops working and stays at home and starts doing almost everything, and the man works and ... gets used to helping. Over time, the woman gets used to it, and the husband gets used to it. And when it starts and works, the following picture is obtained. For example, they both work 8-10 hours. They come home and the man sits down because he is very tired and waits for something to eat, from time to time he picks up carpets or throws away the rubbish, the chat pat deals with the children and with that the responsibilities in the house are exhausted. The woman takes on the rest of the things and stops paying much attention to herself. Her worries swallow her, and when they go to bed at night, she doesn't even have sex. And so, because his wife no longer attracts him, he starts looking around, going out with friends and having fun, or standing at home in front of the phone and drinking brandy with a neighbor. Gradually, the relationship cools down and quarrels break over for trifles or most often for money. Especially if the husband earns more, he usually says that because he brings the money into the house ... and so the main idea of ​​the marriage is lost, and that is to help each other in everything, to love and respect each other, to be equal and to share everything. Most of the women come to terms with the situation and become working housewives, and the rebels like me start a fight and fail to return to the old situation where everything is done equally and the two divorce. What do you think Do I have the right to demand that everything be done by both?

Last Updated
October 05, 2020
Author:
nathanwchen

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