Hello, I am 22, I have a friend of about 2 years. We love each other a lot, we don't fight, we even started talking about a child, a family. We are financially secure, we both have homes, everything is fine so far, but there is one BUT! There's something I've been hiding from him from the beginning, so I don't lose it if I tell him. I am from another ethnic group, but it is not obvious to me, it is obvious to my relatives, but for now he did not suspect anything, at least I think so. I think people, is it right before we start something more serious - children, marriage, to tell him this about my origin, if I have to lose it at the cost, it weighs a lot on me that during these 2 years I was silent out of fear, because I love him very much. Help with posts and hopefully no attacks!
1 wymterrayge answered
Well, um, you weren't very honest with him ... But even if he broke up with you because of that, then it just wasn't worth communicating with such a person. If for him the ethnos is above the human qualities, then it is still too green in life and spiritual terms, and nothing good awaits you with it. Look, it's much more dangerous, in my opinion, for your parents not to take any steps in an attempt to separate you. Then it will be naughty, especially if you are still dependent on them ...