I don't know why I can't enjoy sex. I love my friend very much, the connection between us is very strong, but I don't feel anything, except that I like doing something together. It's been a few months now and it's starting to weigh on me. Is there anyone who has had such a problem and solved it
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In what sense do you feel nothing? Can't you get aroused? Isn't there a thrill between you?
There's no thrill, but I just can't get aroused. Maybe I'm not relaxing enough, and he's still as fast as a race, and I don't know anymore ....
Obviously you both need to put more effort and attention into the pre-game
I recommend you relax a little before you start with a few cups, but you can still succeed !!!
Apparently you haven't gotten to know each other well enough in bed. Put a little more effort, be more creative. If you are more shy and reserved, this can also be the reason for the lack of pleasure from sex.
You have to relax.
You just aren't for each other.
I have the same problem and I think it's all about the psyche. I talked to my friend and he can't understand me, you just have to relax not to think about anything else but only about pleasure and I have to do that and I will try to succeed.
I have the same problem. I'm almost 19, but I don't feel any pleasure and I have a feeling that I'm just lying down to have fun, and I don't feel anything. When masturbating, everything is correct (but I'm not mistaken). Indeed, I also think that it is a psychological problem, because now that I know that I do not feel it, every next time I worry if I will feel something ...
9. Don't worry, you will learn. I advise you to show him exactly what you love. You don't feel anything because you weren't aroused enough, maybe not wet enough. Get a special gel-lubricant (for example, Durex) and tell him to apply it gently, to touch and massage you ... when you feel how you fill with blood, how you feel desire - it can continue. I'm not saying you'll end up penetrating, but it will definitely be very good for you