Hello, I am 17 years old. My best friend and I have known each other since we were children. We live in a small town, our houses are next to each other ... by the way, here we all know each other and know our secrets, problems and absolutely everything. But no one knows about my secret and there is no way to share it with anyone and it bothers and weighs me terribly. It's about practically stupid whims of the heart (love torments, as some call them), but in my case it's a little more complicated! I have been dating for 3 years with 1 boy, and my best friend with his friend, and not just any friend, but his best friend. So it turned out that the 2 best friends go with 2 best friends! At first glance, everything looks great. The 4 of us are having a great time, but the problem is that I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend - my boyfriend's best friend .... The situation is terrible, I have no choice but to remain silent, because if I tell my boyfriend I will hurt him terribly, and if I tell my girlfriend our relationship will change completely ... and I am 90% sure that the boy I am in in love there is nothing to me, after all between him and my girlfriend has strong feelings - they have been together for 5 years! I don't know what to do and how to act, I love my boyfriend and I hold on to him and my best friend, but I can't erase from my memory the real owner of my heart from the moment we met (before 4 years) ... I will be very grateful if you help me with some other advice; ... in which I am in love there is nothing to me, after all between him and my girlfriend has strong feelings - they have been together for 5 years! I don't know what to do and how to act, I love my boyfriend and I hold on to him, as well as my best friend, but I can't erase from my memory the real owner of my heart from the moment we met (before 4 years) ... I will be very grateful if you help me with some other advice; ... in which I am in love there is nothing to me, after all between him and my girlfriend has strong feelings - they have been together for 5 years! I don't know what to do and how to act, I love my boyfriend and I hold on to him and my best friend, but I can't erase from my memory the real owner of my heart from the moment we met (before 4 years) ... I will be very grateful if you help me with some other advice; ...
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You better not risk confusing your life completely. In love it does not happen as we want or think. There is nothing more valuable than friendship, so don't risk it.