The Perfect Man

   Every LONELY woman's dream is to meet the ideal man, the rest of us are committed. "Every self-respecting woman is looking for such a man. Such a woman knows how to give love, to control her own and his emotions. "Every woman who respects herself respects her partner and is ready to accept him as he is - MAN. There are no ideal people and those who are looking for the ideal woman or man just stand alone. Who wants to control his emotions or those of his partner is a control maniac and is doomed to live from one unhappy relationship to another. Author, start looking for love, not the ideal man, because he was not born that way. There is a partner for everyone, but just as you are not perfect, there is no perfect man. Everyone deserves to be loved and accepted by their partner as he is. This is the secret of all long-term relationships, of grandparents, who even after 50 years. marriage go hand in hand in the park. The secret is to love the person next to you as he is! Eva

   So what do you do when you meet him, and it turns out that he has long met another woman with whom he is engaged? On the other hand, as a free-thinking person, he would not mind an intimate sexual relationship with you, but without deepening and interfering with feelings? Will you give him love and sex primarily just because he is the ideal but already committed man?

   It looks to me like a joke with the men's store on 4 floors, where the last one turned out to be the perfect one. In the interest of truth, my wife found the perfect one and after 11 years of idealizing, she put perfect horns on him and broke the perfect trust. So, my dear ladies and gentlemen, even if you are perfect and perfect, this does not mean that you are insured by all that creeps on others. When you find the person you want to share your life with, love him, respect him, and with that comes fidelity. Otherwise, the story ends and the prince / princess transforms into a frog surprisingly quickly. Good luck to all and love and respect each other.

   Good luck

   I agree with number 1, and the things that you mention as ideal / to have personal space, etc./, should be present in every relationship, if this is your criterion for ideal ... this person must be with someone with many positive qualities, but even to accept the negative ones, no one is perfect ... really women with such a scenario in their head what they want the man next to them, stand alone because they do not live in reality.

   Towards 1: Every self-respecting woman will not reconcile with any man. Obviously you need to read more carefully. Women who seek and know what they want find. I have found the perfect partner. At least in my opinion, our love lasts for years, even though we are thousands of kilometers away. from each other and we see each other extremely rarely. It's always like it's next to me. This is called a soul mate. And believing in something like that doesn't make you lonely or crazy. At least I'm not alone. There are so many people who love me. What does it mean to control your emotions? Good! - Here we obviously do not understand each other or maybe you did not feel someone so strongly that you have the feeling that you are merging with him. It is to suffer with him, to rejoice for him and to love what he loves and vice versa. Here the mistake may be in me. What can you do? Sometimes it's hard for me to find the right words. ONE TIP FROM ME: Don't look at life as a punishment and don't put up with anyone. Everyone is perfect in their own way, but find the perfect person for yourself.

   The secret of true love is to love, not BECAUSE he / she is such, such and such, but DESPITE that he / she is such, such and such! There is only true love when you love someone in spite of everything. There are no perfect people, no perfect relationship, nothing is perfect in this world - the sooner a person understands it, the happier he will live!

   №8, you're great! In addition: The secret of a happy life is: iron health and short memory! :)

   Yes, number 8, I think that with this statement: "The secret of true love is to love, not BECAUSE he / she is such, such and such, but DESPITE that he is such, such and such!" You rob the bonus points, at least me I agree. To love despite the shortcomings. In the end, people undergo a change and human character is polished like a diamond over time, some find it easier to change than others, but let's talk about the ideal .... well, that's funny, we should rather realize how much we have the opportunity to endure our differences and to harmonize our ego with that of the person next to us.