Hi, I want to share my pain. An 18-year-old boy I am, I would not say I am ugly. Let me tell the story briefly. I want a lot of girlfriends, to love her, to give her all my attention, to be gentle and kind to her. I've wanted it for years, I keep looking at others. I'm trying to find the problem in myself. Where am I wrong I try a different approach, but it doesn't work. I'm very sad about it, I think about it all the time because I want it too much. I also tried to let things happen on their own, but it still didn't work. Honestly, I'm tired of being alone, I've been waiting a very long time. I have had adventures and flirtations for a short period of time. I don't like it, like overnight sex. I can do without him, the feelings in me overflow. It also hurts me to think about it all the time, I can't get distracted or I can't think about it. I want something real, not lies and intrigue. I would rather have one and spend my whole life with it instead of many and different ones. But I don't understand why it hurts me so much, I would give anything to have a person by my side.
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In general, to think such things is not at all attractive to the mass of girls. They are looking for masculine behavior, not some desperate boys looking for them as if they were looking for their mother. Your whole description is like looking for mom - hugging her, squeezing her hard and feeling the warmth, loving her, etc. And girls want to feel the sexual charge, to have a game, a spark. That's why they deal with various "bad boys", but in fact they are not looking for "bad", but male behavior. I do not recommend you to be a "bad boy", but you may have stepped on the ground a young man with his own goals, ideas and views on life.
Number 1, where did you read all these things ??? "to hug her, to press her hard and to feel the warmth, to love her" I read the text TWICE and I didn't find anything like that! And you, how many times have you read it?
Author, reading this is as if I wrote it ... And I wonder how there are no decent women left to appreciate the boys who are ready to love them, to be faithful to them, and are looking for the so-called "bad boys". I've always wondered what they find in them. Is it masculinity? Over time, I just realized that women really have a very paradoxical way of thinking. They both want someone to love them, to be faithful to them, to give them their attention, and they like playboys from the disco ... More masculine, and after a year I read on the forums from desperate women how their husband beat them, got drunk are unrecognizable and constantly cheated on them, they get divorced and ruin their lives .. And finally it turns out that decent girls are with garbage, and decent boys are left alone .. It's really disgusting but that's the reality. I would advise you to stay the way you are to continue living your life, you just need a little patience and one day you will meet your girl who will like you the way you are and will be happy that you give her all your attention and love her truly, so you will be happy to be able to love her and be sure that she is your girl. ;)