Hi, I'm in love with a girl, but I don't know how to tell her. I am 23 years old, she is 18 years old. In principle, I have a big problem with sharing feelings towards the opposite sex, I panic, I get nervous and do stupid things. I met her in the gym (I'm not going for that, nor am I a stripper just a note). At first we even passed each other like road signs, until once she spoke to me ... a little less .. day after day we started talking, I had even written several times. The only place I see her is the gym and only there I happen to contact her, we are from a small town, etc. I had her visible before, but little by little after the conversations an hour after training I started to like her. He constantly talks to me, comes to me, asks me about exercises and so on .. I help and .. I see a spark in her eyes, but I don't know how to approach her ... if she shakes, let's have coffee or go out somewhere, it's as if a lump is stuck in my throat and I can't say those words. I did it two years ago and I suffered because I was severely cut off and now I feel scared, I always think about what will happen in the future .. I always consider each situation with a few steps forward what would happen .. I like it as it is, neither I am perfect nor anyone could be, everyone has flaws .. My biggest problem is not only in my mind what I think .. or just to have me as a "friend" and until there. Any tips on how to tell her tactfully It is clear that every girl feels when there is something like this. But her look, the way she speaks, still gives me some hope. if she shakes, let's have coffee or go out somewhere, it's like a lump in my throat and I can't say those words. I did it two years ago and I suffered because I was severely cut off and now it seems like I'm scared, I always think about what will happen in the future .. I always consider each situation with a few steps forward what would happen .. I like it as it is, neither I am perfect nor anyone could be, everyone has flaws .. My biggest problem is not only in my mind what I think .. or just to have me as a "friend" and until there. Any tips on how to tell her tactfully? It is clear that every girl feels when there is something like this. But her look, the way she speaks, still gives me some hope. if she shakes, let's have coffee or go out somewhere, it's like a lump in my throat and I can't say those words. I did it two years ago and I suffered because I was severely cut off and now I seem to be afraid, I always think about what will happen in the future .. I always consider each situation with a few steps forward what would happen .. I like it as it is, neither I am perfect nor anyone could be, everyone has flaws .. My biggest problem is not only in my mind what I think .. or just to have me as a "friend" and until there. Any tips on how to tell her tactfully? It is clear that every girl feels when there is something like this. But her look, the way she speaks, still gives me some hope. I did it two years ago and I suffered because I was severely cut off and now it seems like I'm scared, I always think about what will happen in the future .. I always consider each situation with a few steps forward what would happen .. I like it as it is, neither I am perfect nor anyone could be, everyone has flaws .. My biggest problem is not only in my mind what I think .. or just to have me as a "friend" and until there. Any tips on how to tell her tactfully? It is clear that every girl feels when there is something like this. But her look, the way she speaks, still gives me some hope. I did it two years ago and I suffered because I was severely cut off and now I seem to be afraid, I always think about what will happen in the future .. I always consider each situation with a few steps forward what would happen .. I like it as it is, neither I am perfect nor anyone could be, everyone has flaws .. My biggest problem is not only in my mind what I think .. or just to have me as a "friend" and until there. Any tips on how to tell her tactfully? It is clear that every girl feels when there is something like this. But her look, the way she speaks, still gives me some hope. I like her as she is, neither I am perfect nor anyone could be, everyone has flaws .. My biggest problem is not only in my mind what I think .. or just to have me as a "friend" "and so on. Any tips on how to tell her more tactfully? It is clear that every girl feels when there is something like this. But her look, the way she speaks, still gives me some hope. I like her as she is, neither I am perfect nor anyone could be, everyone has flaws .. My biggest problem is not only in my mind what I think .. or just to have me as a "friend" "and so on. Any tips on how to tell her tactfully? It is clear that every girl feels when there is something like this. But her look, the way she speaks, still gives me some hope.
1 danielle_fogarty1 answered
You invite her for coffee first, then if she does well for dinner at a restaurant. You try to touch her from time to time and watch how she reacts. If she pulls, you pull and you let her take a step forward. If she doesn't pull, you shorten the distance and at one point you kiss her. Then you tell her you like her and want a relationship.