The First Woman I'm In Love With

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   You don't sound at all! Ignore malicious comments. Your expression that you are "old" makes me laugh, it shows that you have no self-confidence, you just secretly fantasize. You are 26 years old for God's sake, if you already consider yourself old after 10 years, when a beautiful woman is in bloom, you will consider yourself a grandmother. This issue is very complicated, because in our country such feelings and attitudes are not tolerated. They would hardly understand. The girl in question is very young, maybe she has no idea about such feelings, she will be very scared, you should not reveal yourself. It will be best if you meet her as a friend. You can also have a coffee. But you should not be aggressive with your feelings, to share with her what you write to us. She will definitely run away ... You can just communicate with her and once you get to know her you can think about it. I don't know, if your boy is different, you can easily get her phone number, but in these circumstances it is very difficult. You have a Bi orientation, there is nothing wrong or reprehensible about that. I don't know why some people get annoyed. You are not old, on the contrary, now is the time for extreme experiences, but maybe with another girl, more playful, from another environment. You write that the chick in question is timid, modest. Look for another that is bolder and bolder. Tanya

   I got excited just reading! Too bad it won't shine on me. Male 28

   I support you! And I absolutely agree with Tanya's comment. Meet her, she may not be the right person to really fit your notions of intimacy. There is no reason to be afraid or ashamed. Don't go into too much fantasy, because you will hurt yourself. These are difficult relationships. It also takes a little ingenuity to get to it and get to know it. I wish you good luck!

   Nm 3 you are right. Unfortunately, however, another lesbian and as long as you justify the opposite. It is not normal. At 26, a young, clumsy woman (as she says) and doesn't know what she wants. Pity.

   To number 5. Which is not normal? That she liked a person of the same sex to fall in love with? She knows very well what she wants - to experience what it is like to be with a woman. We live in a free, democratic country, the sexual revolution is long gone and everyone has the right to fall in love and have sex with whomever they want, as long as it doesn't hurt the other. It's not normal for people to be so rigid and just wave a finger when they don't like something. She is not yet a lesbian, but if she has sex with another woman, she will not become a lower quality person. We have to defend ourselves, why hide, be afraid of other people's opinion. I recently read again on this site about a man who dreams of a threesome with his wife and another man. Is this very correct? And everyone defended him. The fact that the author liked this girl does not make her another lesbian, she has felt a thrill that you can't imagine, so you don't accept it. To the author - you are mature enough to make your own decision, not to listen to others. And yet it excites them ...

   HORROR !!! Girl, get well ....

   He complimented her and noticed how she reacted. It's really hard to tell if a girl likes the same sex, but you just have to watch her reactions. Maybe her politeness is just a matter of her politeness. So, you can try the fact that you think she's very nice and would like to go out for coffee. If he agrees perfectly, if not ... accept him with a smile and move on!

   Maybe you're not in love, but you're just curious what it's like to be with a woman. Anyway approach carefully, the girl may be startled. I agree with number 2, try the approach with friendship. If nothing else, at least you can become friends - it's still something. Success! --- Jesse ---

   Bray very wrong people in such a small country ...