Hi! I want to discuss this very important moment for every adolescent moment of its development! I stress that I have not created a family yet and I do not have children, but I will nevertheless have my opinion on how I would do as a parent! I ask people of any age group to be involved in the conversation so that they share their experiences as parents or teenagers... In my opinion, the ideal age for starting a sex life regardless of gender is 16-18 years. From this point of view, I would talk freely with my children about sex, boyfriends, and love from a younger age – say 13-14 years. It is this moment that I perceive the right one when I start giving them detailed explanations about the sex life and the world of the big ones! As I will strive to perceive it right that the best age for the first intimate relationship is 16-18 years and in the period 14-16 years. I would tell them to pick carefully and even get to a seaman, limit themselves to kissing and pressing... For myself, I have come to the conclusion that the age of under 16. is not suitable for intercourse because of the undeveloped and poorly controllable emotional body of teenagers. The great lack of proper assessment for both themselves and others (which for some lasts for decades over these years... would easily lead the "child" to the wrong choice and the opportunity to put himself in danger is great. That is why I accept that open and frequent conversations at this age are of great importance for the further development of children and their personalities. We all know that girls get their first menses at the age of about 12-14 years, and boys – their first ejaculation around 14 years. (as the years can vary greatly in each of us); 11+ years. it is normal for both sexes to separate their first secretion. The boys began trying to masturbate at the age of 9, 10. And that's why I've been talking to them since then on "gender and sex," of course, more carefully. That's what makes somewhere 3rd, 4th grade! For the first time, which I will keep being aged 16-18, I would encourage children to be proactive, to boldly take the first steps and help them with enough advice on how to be successful with their first partner and the first attempts at sex! And most importantly, I have to spend free time and space on where and when to do it. It seems to me that many parents ignore precisely that children need autonomy and not accepting this fact hinders the proper and timely development of their own children. It even leads to an accumulation of fears and complexes with them that one of their parents will hear them and see them, which becomes a GREAT problem in their relationship with the other sex. Not to mention that it is precise because of this lack of "PLACE AND TIME", a part of teenagers miss the right age and the opportunity to be with a person, and it is the fault of their parents! Parents, release the terrain of your children and if you have no job find yourself, and not soak on the heads of your sons and generous and shout only "come on mom, come on mom" and "come on, Father" and so in 30 years, and someone up to the age of 50 shouts "come on mom" – full Bulgarian infantilism and brutal behavior towards your children!!! Personally, to my children, I will say that not only is it nice for their mates to sleep at home, but also orgasm, accompanied by screams and groans is a perfectly normal thing that they should not worry about and that they should not beware of "accidentally someone not to hear them"! Personally, I won't be in any way preventing me from hearing my teenage child having fun in the next room! The mass of people we do not live in large dwellings where only one floor is available, right? Then why would it be a problem for a few missed hundred of pleasures and sounds of slaps in the next room and from your children??? I perceive it perfectly normal and talk about what's wrong if they're missing! In life, I have convinced yourself that people who have suppressed the manifestations of sexual pleasure during sex at a young age experience a lasting loss of (greater) orgasm! It is as if there is a space in the "taboo", which "locks" them in front of the opportunity to relax and enjoy their partner deeply and experience the desired ecstasy! I look forward to your experiences and comments! By the author of the topic "The Numbers and age" Thanks! Author89
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