The Female Orgasm-chimera?

   I have the same problem and I am very worried. In the sense that my friend doesn't feel very happy when he can't satisfy me on his own. I think it all depends on the person ..

   Reaching orgasm does not depend on just one. Not just the "right" things. It all comes down to getting to know the desires and bodies of the partners, to releasing the thought during sex, to forgetting prejudices and wrong upbringing or information. I myself, after 14 years of sexual experience and a stable 6-year marriage, have only just begun to LEARN to have an orgasm, but it costs a lot of work and often hides in some small action of the partner, which he has saved so far (or I have not allowed or searched). You will almost certainly get an orgasm when masturbating, try to show you a lot of things.

   The problem is that he is too careful and cannot reach the points to achieve the goal

   I'm 29, I've had a lot of men in my life, I like sex. I have not had an orgasm with a man. I have experienced an orgasm only when masturbating.

   Maybe you need to combine masturbation with sex and so it happens, put the restrictions in sex aside and you will get not one but many. Or so I do. If you learn to say exactly what you want in bed, not only will you have a full sex life, but the man you are with will hardly think of another woman. Both women and men cannot read minds, so we have to talk

   Tell him what turns you on without asking you where and how to caress your cock, etc. You feel, not him. Learning the places will be different.

   your problem comes from not enough arousal, you watch 30 minutes of porn then 15 minutes. French love and on the 5th minute you will get a guarantee

   Don't worry, I had an orgasm at 40 with my new boyfriend and every time since! In my opinion, it depends on the experience of the man.

   Do not rush to penetrate. Let him arouse you to the hole and then. See in zamunda.net - site for movies in the catalog erotic-documentary there are movies about arousal, etc.

   Abe, in my opinion, is up to the woman's physiology. My girlfriend also doesn't get an orgasm during intercourse. She gets it only through masturbation, otherwise she gets very aroused and it is very nice during sex. The only way to end when we are together is when we do very strong, exciting, etc. vaginal sex, when she is already very aroused, to start fixing her from behind and for her to be touched in front. This brings her great orgasms but we rarely get it :) Try it too, it can work!

   It is very important to get to know yourself, to know where the center of your pleasure is! Buy a vibrator and experiment on your own ... see when it's best for you, the angle of penetration, your body posture ... Buy a simple vibrator - they are cheaper, not those with rabbits, pearls, balls, etc. .n. After I bought a vibrator much more often I reach orgasm without additional stimulation of the clitoris with my hand !!!

   I am a girl of 19. During sex I stimulate my clitoris and sometimes I cum several times. I recently started this stimulation and it turned out to be effective, try it 100% you will be able to finish if you touch it and relax! Good luck darling!

   Until recently I had not had an orgasm with a man, only when masturbating, but I must touch my clitoris, otherwise it disappears :(! I am 19 and I want to experience not only a clitoral but also a vaginal orgasm, but I have no idea how it happens ? Masturbating during sex and clitoral orgasm is something, initially so, then you may experience vaginal hope ...... Good luck!

   When some centers in the brain are aroused, they prevent others from being aroused. Something like competition. Asking yourself the question, will I get it now, even before you go to bed you have aroused some centers and you prevent the sex centers from getting aroused. So don't ask yourself such a question at all, relax completely and say, show where what gives you pleasure. If you even feel that you will be more comfortable, take his hand and put it in the desired place. This way your boyfriend will be able to arouse you, this will make you relax even more and you will have an orgasm. Keep in mind, I am a man that only from a woman's breathing - a sharp intake of air, exhalation, etc. the man perceives what to do, but if you tighten up and have no symptoms, if you don't say, he can't figure out what to do. You will feel it. Good luck. (and it's a pleasure to watch a woman writhe with pleasure)

   I'm not 19 but I get both regular sex from my boyfriend and a regular orgasm .. in my opinion each person is a little more individual .. for example when I think that the moment is approaching and everything in me goes out and when I think my friend how he would finish and what would be his happy face and I finish such things without even thinking about it;) try this ... or if not .. do it while watching porn should be at least a little .. or look at your breasts and crush them (if you like them) find a part of your body that excites you and that you know that your friend also likes and abuses it;) at least one of them has to work :)

   These nets are quite individual, talk without shame to your friend what you like and what you don't, there are various durex sprays, for example the blue one that is available in every store and try everything without shame.

   Number 4 if you tell me exactly how you manage to achieve self-satisfaction .. please. (I'm a virgin)

   Personally, I haven't had an orgasm for a long time, but now that I've given birth and my husband and I started having sex, I get sex again, and every time it depends on the woman, there are some women who have lazy uteri and it's very difficult not to say impossible.

   The very complicated thing comes from the fact that the types of orgasms are different. For example, I do not count the clitoris because it does not satisfy me at all. This one when stimulating the G-spot is great, as if they flood waves of pleasure and everything around you becomes a little unreal for certain moments - it's amazing, but it just lacks those uterine contractions that I think are very important. They happen during a vaginal orgasm and this is what I am still trying to achieve with a man, otherwise it happens on its own. I think this is the real orgasm and you just have to have these contractions. As they say, there is more to learn :) There is a lot of experimentation and technique, and "discoveries" often happen by accident! Good luck to all the ladies! !! !!