The Father Wants An Abortion!

No one in the world can make you have an abortion. Mo thought about whether you could watch it. I guess the father won't give a penny.

He has no legal right and can't oblige you. I've had a miscarriage, and I'm just going to tell you that when I went to bed on the donkey and ask the doctors if I'd have kids again, they honestly told me there was always a risk. It may be small, but it does. If you didn't want that child, maybe you'd be sure of an abortion. But my personal advice is, since you want the child to keep it. You'il just think in your mind like a single mother. Avoid stress during your pregnancy because it's very risky. I'm giving you advice that I'd keep in your situation, without any illusions that it would be easy. You're a father who wants an abortion, and it's clear from now on that it's not a good thing to be a parent. But if something happens and you have trouble conceiving another time, you're going to blame yourself for this abortion. You want the child, and I believe you'il be a good mother. It is very important now to be calm if it provokes you for scandals - a complete yng Ngon. Good luck to you.

He has no right. if he threatens you, get a restraining order, tell loved ones about his situation, you can even play him in theater, you're going for an abortion.

I think the hormones are talking in you now, and it's normal for a man to react like that because you don't have a relationship anymore, and he probably doesn't want to have a lifelong relationship because of a child he's not ready for. My brother was in the same situation, they said the same words you said. The moment the child was born, when the difficult one became, suddenly the woman sang another song - " this child is yours too, you are a father". In my opinion, if one child is not wanted by both, you should not burden the other with your desire to be a mother. This kind of responsibility should be taken only consciously, not under pressure. Would you marry just because your father pays for the wedding?

Of course there's no way he's going to make you take it off. I congratulate you on the brave decision to give birth and raise your child on your own.

No, it's all your choice. Legally, there are no rights, obligations and everything else until she recognizes the child after the birth with your consent or court, because until then this child has only a mother and accordingly only she can make decisions about her own life, and her future child. He can't oblige you to remove it in any way, he doesn't have the right to vote in this case, and such legal stories don't exist. He can count as a parent only when he is born and voluntarily enroll him as a father or prove to him or you that he or you are the child's. Then he already has a legal right to see him, to pay maintenance, and, for example, an extra-border passport requires the signatures of both parents, etc., but only if he signs up as a father. The other thing I can think of is that if he doesn't want to, and you want to recognize him or the circumstified one, but after the birth of a child, the court imposes a DNA test and so obliges him, but for detention and the choice of whether to give birth, a decision can only be made. Neither childbirth nor abortion requires the decision of a person other than the mother. As long as she was not born for her pregnancy, she can decide only, but we are talking about an adult otherwise some decisions require the consent of a parent. So I can only wish you a light pregnancy and in the final one a healthy and obedient child. :)

if you'd been safe when you don't want kids, the poor kid without a father will have a lot of complexes and distorted thinking, your father needs for every child

No one can force you. So once you've decided, a light pregnancy, a slight birth, and I hope you're very happy with the baby.

I understand the arguments of most women here, but I think it's selfish not to take into account the interests of the child. No one can oblige the author to have an abortion, but what can she offer her future child in this situation: a life of a single mother, social isolation, a lack of for a normal family, and all sorts of extras that go with such a decision... I'm sure the first difficulties will be regretted. As someone wrote above - the child should be desired by both.

A child is a wonderful thing, but hard, how much help are you, help? A man , you can always have even a child , many women find another and have a second child. At first , the mile is mostly to the child , only she , the men work .

As a woman, I'm going to ask you a question. Why do you want the kid? Because you love your ex-boyfriend? Or because you're hoping this kid will reunite you? Very naïve either way. My friend is a single mother, and it's very difficult. The kid keeps asking her, "Where's Dad?"" I can't even imagine how she feels. This kid won't be an eternal baby will grow up and see that all the kids have a mom and dad. And she only has a mother, and she's going to ask you questions, maybe she'il blame you one day. And one day, what are you going to explain to your child? I thought you'd make a big mistake if you kept the kid, he'd struggle a lot. But let's have other kids, but let them be wanted on both sides, so it doesn't make sense... Sarah

You're really bad, but you'il find out what's waiting for you with this kid!

9, come on, don't be very understanding! I'm 20, my mother raised me all alone, and I once didn't say "Where's Dad? " even though all my friends grew up with fathers. I've never missed anything. I'd dance at my father's grave if I even knew his name. To the author- honey, I'm taking off my hat for the decision! You know best what your options are. Whatever your decision is, I wish you good luck!

I'm a woman. I advise the author to have an abortion. After the child is born, it will become more complicated. Don't do this to yourself, girl, think about it. One day he'il want to know who his father is.

of 13 - I'm definitely understanding, it's been my profession since there are -no 35 years. Just because you had a mother who worked hard just to cover the deficits doesn't mean they didn't exist, or that everyone did. And it's clear that you can't miss something you didn't have - even your father's name you don't know. Here we are talking about a whole other thing - about deciding a young woman on the verge of life, whether she is aware of the difficult path that lies ahead, and whether she is ready to take it, because enthusiasm is one thing, and the difficult 20 years after that - quite another thing. Especially if he has no one to rely on...

Short version: You don't want to see the father, and half the embryo's genes are from him. You'd better do the rational thing and abort that we're going to watch you in Litigation for sure. More advanced version: Actually, I'm very lazy to write. Don't let your animal instincts screw up your life, though I think it's clear that's how it's going to happen.

Abortion in a good and checked doctor. You have time to find a suitable man and start a family. I have one abortion and three children after that.

Abortion. Do you want him to carry his genes, or after a year, you know he's got a kid and he decides to watch it? There's no point in being a single mother.