When a young person comes to work, in order to get to know him, employers often make scenes to see how he will react in opr. situation ... whether he speaks behind the backs of others, whether he would steal, etc. I am 22 years old and I came across similar scenes, schemes ... of my previous job, love and my current job. THE PROBLEM IS THAT I only now realized it. My first love was a teacher, now after 10 years we met again and he made me a similar scheme, "just for fun" ... handing out remarks to the people around me. He is a teacher of inf. tech. and uses methods for eavesdropping, surveillance, etc. The worst part is that she made me believe that she was dating my best friend and because she was a student she agreed to take part in the joke and asking me what I felt for him ... I fantasized countless nonsense, and he is ours. eavesdropped and probably recorded. THE PROBLEM IS, THAT I DON'T CARRY ON A JOKE. And when I found out what was going on, I went crazy. They do not admit it, but I am sure that the schemes continue, and there is no way to prove it ... What I say and share at home with relatives, the next day is known at work and commented. I have no evidence that he is eavesdropping on me, I don't have a lot of financial means ... Now the scheme is related to a rumor testimony, ie that I have shared in several places what I have experienced and similar hints are made at work ... If I share what is a scheme with a stranger, he will laugh at me, but if the teacher files a lawsuit against me for the rumors - end with me. I really couldn't eat or sleep and now fear alone is ruining me, and I was really in love with him and there is no way to prove it ... What I say and share at home with relatives, the next day is known at work and commented. I have no evidence that he is eavesdropping on me, I don't have a lot of financial means ... Now the scheme is related to a rumor testimony, ie that I have shared in several places what I have experienced and similar hints are made at work ... If I share what is a scheme with a stranger, he will laugh at me, but if the teacher files a lawsuit against me for the rumors - end with me. I really couldn't eat or sleep and now fear alone is ruining me, and I was really in love with him and there is no way to prove it ... What I say and share at home with relatives, the next day is known at work and commented. I have no evidence that he is eavesdropping on me, I don't have a lot of financial means ... Now the scheme is related to a rumor testimony, ie that I have shared in several places what I have experienced and similar hints are made at work ... If I share what is a scheme with a stranger, he will laugh at me, but if the teacher files a lawsuit against me for the rumors - end with me. I really couldn't eat or sleep and now fear alone is ruining me, and I was really in love with him that I have shared in several places what I have experienced and similar hints are made at work ... If I share a scheme with a stranger, he will laugh at me, but if the teacher files a lawsuit against me for the rumors, it's over with me. I really couldn't eat or sleep and now fear alone is ruining me, and I was really in love with him that I have shared in several places what I have experienced and similar hints are made at work ... If I share a scheme with a stranger, he will laugh at me, but if the teacher files a lawsuit against me for the rumors, it's over with me. I really couldn't eat or sleep and now fear alone is ruining me, and I was really in love with him
1 melani_cheeseholm answered
These are the idiotic methods from the time of communism where everyone listens and informs and various "active events" are held. Unfortunately, apparently those who still apply them first do not realize that they are absolutely unworthy, degrading, demotivating and disgusting and have not read the report made at the end of communism that in fact all this reporting and monitoring leads only to negative results. This is elementary for a person who can think independently, but obviously not for such people. By not trusting the people on your team, following them and suspecting them, making them follow each other and turning them into unworthy informers and traitors to your colleagues, you undermine all the loyalty they have, demotivate them, discourage them, make them deal more with gossip than work and support scoundrels instead of honest people. Then what success can you expect from these people? These are complete idiocies, but what do the people who apply them do? These are people brainwashed by communist education who are in the mood to look for the traitor with the party ticket. They know nothing else, lost work.