Hello. We've recently been boyfriends with a boy, but not officially. That is, he didn't tell me "Do you want to be my boyfriend", but we just started writing "I love you" and so on. It was our first meeting a few days ago. It was awkward, we didn't know what to talk about, he was looking in different directions and avoiding eye contact. He treats me like a friend, he didn't even hug me in the least, we just shook hands. He took me off in the chat, but nothing live. I would say he is romantic, considerate. I am one of those people who do not like to turn around, say everything they think and expect the same from the other person. I'm worried because I can tell myself everything straight and ruin things between us. I understand that he may be ashamed, but I felt very stupid. I lost a little self-confidence, I got bored, even though we're in the beginning, the meeting was not at all what I expected. Somehow my ego has been hurt, and now I secretly have a little hatred for it, but I want to stop that feeling.
1 alwaysapleasure138 answered
Social networks have completely changed the behavior and attitude of people towards each other, and that with "being my boyfriend" I do not know the last time I used it, maybe when I was 5-6 years old. So on the topic. The typical example that the boy behaved like a gentleman and did not come to hug you and kiss you on the first date, be it out of fear or whatever, there is a strange pattern when you go for physical contact on the first date, the title of the topic will be : "He came across me on a first date, he must only think about sex" and the current title, if he doesn't. Not everyone is a delicacy trader so that he can stretch topics and go from empty to empty to entertain you and on the basis of judging him that you even hate a little why you don't know.