The Dilemma

The Story

My husband and I have been together for several years, we tried to get pregnant, but unfortunately it still doesn't work. Naturally, I did my tests, only one hormone was elevated, but with medication it returned to normal. The gynecologist wants my husband to do a spermogram and I haven't been able to get him to do it for more than a year. Sometimes he says he thinks he had a problem, sometimes he accuses me that I can't get pregnant. For several months, sex has been very rare. After another check-up with the gynecologist, I told him again that she wanted a spermogram, and then he replied that he would never do that and that it was not his goal to have a child. Not only has he not been talking and respecting my parents lately, but the reason was that he didn't like them, but if he cares about me, he should respect them for me, and even now that it wasn't his goal to have a child. . We are already 35-36. There is a man who likes me very much and wants to be with me, but he is younger than me, but he knows what he wants, he says he wants a family, a child. So my dilemma is whether to put up with not having a child and stay with the person I am with now and who despite everything I can say that I love him or with the other to whom I have no feelings, only some minimal sympathy, but with desire for a child. I know that in both cases I will be sorry, in one that I may not have a child, and in the other that I will be with someone just to have a child. Is there anyone who is with a person next to them without feelings and how does this affect time?

with whom I am now and who in spite of everything I can say that I love him or with the other to whom I have no feelings, only some minimal sympathy, but with a desire for a child. I know that in both cases I will be sorry, in one that I may not have a child, and in the other that I will be with someone just to have a child. Is there anyone who is with a person next to them without feelings and how does this affect time? with whom I am now and who in spite of everything I can say that I love him or with the other to whom I have no feelings, only some minimal sympathy, but with a desire for a child. I know that in both cases I will be sorry, in one that I may not have a child, and in the other that I will be with someone just to have a child. Is there anyone who is with a person next to them without feelings and how does this affect time?

Last Updated
August 04, 2020
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carolineodream

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