The Difficult Choice

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1 dianakbush answered

Neither. You will find another one! :)

Published on: July 05, 2020

2 silvielove answered

I will tell you as a man, no real man will be able to swallow that you forgot him and threw yourself into the arms of another, he will get up and fall asleep with the thought that after him another has touched you and will hardly last long, for your new friend that he is indecisive and will remain so in the future, no woman wants to take away the role of the man, in this case, you do, the initiative to move, etc., young do not rush.

Published on: July 05, 2020

3 krisztina_o answered

I'm sorry, but I think you're a person who doesn't know what he wants. You can't dump a man because he's depressed or because of some cigarette smoke. It's just not serious! It is best to distance yourself from both of you for a while and think calmly. And one more thing: it's definitely too early for your family.

Published on: July 05, 2020

4 caramel_lady answered

Hello, first answer a very important question - abstract from your current friend. Then think, if you don't have another boy in your head and your ex wants you to get together, would you go back to him? My opinion is that once you have broken off the relationship, it will not be any different. But it worries me that you obviously don't have serious feelings for the present, once you let your ex back in your thoughts. Don't confuse the spark with your ex with something real, these are fleeting sensations that fade and disappear over time, plus now he brings you intrigue and a sense of movement that something is happening in your life. It is not guided by this. Think about which of the two you behave closest to the way you behave when you are with your parents and family. The boy, the right boy for you should relax you and be yourself. Obviously there is something between you, but maybe you were still young and that's why you were separated by some circumstances? Otherwise, if we were 25-30 years old, you would have taken your life in your hands and followed it. Apparently you're old enough, I hope it doesn't sound rude, and can you give yourself a second chance? My advice is to leave lightly this fan who has no value system and try with the boy you had plans with. Apparently he had such plans for you ... My feeling is that you have to be with your ex.

Published on: July 05, 2020

5 emmbielle answered

the mind seeks the new emotion, that of the new relationship, and the heart says the one that gave you security, the question you have to ask yourself and answer is simple, which love are you looking for the primary or the lightest

Published on: July 05, 2020

6 kateactie answered

You are young, everything is still in front of you. Whatever you choose and make a mistake will not be fatal. They are unlikely to be the last men in your life. Just listen to yourself and think about how you will feel best, don't think of both of them and spare them ... when you decide what is better for you - act. Once you make a decision, do not look back and do not regret the choice you gave up :) Look only forward. And calm down, there's nothing so wrong.

Published on: July 06, 2020

7 juicy_place_ answered

Don't bother, darling, don't go back to your ex. If we don't think for ourselves, who will actually do it? !! There is nothing better than giving your heart to someone, why do you complicate your life? ... Just go to the former or the only one. Because if it weren't, you wouldn't hesitate and write here. For the boy with whom he does not worry, God helps will overcome you, pray for him to meet someone with whom it is ok. We are here for a while, let's be happy!

Published on: July 06, 2020

8 hoodbaby86 answered

Just sit down, think soberly, weigh the pros and cons with each other, and most of all, follow your heart and intuition. For us women, it is highly developed and always gives the right answers. We just sometimes miss listening to it.

Published on: July 07, 2020

9 mona_evans answered

If the fact that your ex has not lied to you, betrayed you, humiliated you, etc. is not true and he is conscious, and you are in love with him and there is no obstacle between you at all, why not try again? If you're not feeling well with the current one ... think about which of you is more thrilling ... we can't know better than you who you're in love with.

Published on: July 07, 2020

10 lana_violet answered

FROM THE AUTHOR: Thanks for the answers. Indeed, the decision is only in my hands. I forgot to mention that I am 25; the former is 33 years old and the current one is 31 years old. Regarding number 3 -Alpha, I would answer you: I did not abandon my ex due to depression. He dumped me because he shut himself in and refused to talk. I looked for him for a while after we "broke up", and I wanted to help him or at least clarify the situation, but he never wanted to see me. For cigarette smoke ... it's a serious motive for me because I developed an allergy. I came to his apartment with the stipulation that it will be until we find another home - ie within 2-3 months. Here, we have been like this for 7 months now and he claims that I will endure until the end of the year, if necessary, because he has not moved. Otherwise, as a relationship is good, it does not bother me, he tries to help me in the household. But when it comes to making important decisions, it always procrastinates. He tries to gain time and time to adjust things. I have to threaten him and repeat the problem to him to think of some compromise solution. All the best.

Published on: July 08, 2020

The Difficult Choice

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2 silvielove answered

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4 caramel_lady answered

5 emmbielle answered

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8 hoodbaby86 answered

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