My husband and I went through a serious conflict a few years ago. There was a misunderstanding, but I took it very seriously ... I blamed him constantly, I myself was poisoned by feelings of insult and disappointment ... I wondered how to forgive just to calm down mentally. I'm still wondering how to do it. The problem, however, is that a few months later he developed an illness associated with constant dull pain ... there was no cure. All esoteric sources say that this is a kind of "punishment" for him, caused by guilt. I came to this conclusion very recently because I was watching a seminar and I connected things there. Do you think it is possible? How can I forgive when I really have no control over my feelings? And if I do, will his condition improve? How do you overcome the anger and resentment of other people?
1 juliachaouachi answered
Don't forget to take the pills, if you don't have one, run to a specialist.