I am a 17-year-old girl. The thing is, the boys don't want to deal with me. That's why I thought for a long time that no one liked me, but recently I found out that several guys liked me seriously, but none of them told me about it. Now these guys are disappointed in me and really obviously don't want to have anything to do with me anymore, and I haven't done anything to them. The question is why don't they tell me they have an interest? Why do they expect me to read minds and take the first step alone, and for them to stand and wait for something to happen while sharing various statuses that hint that I am cold, etc. And this is not the biggest problem ... There's a boy we haven't seen in a long time, but we met last week and I realized I still like him even though it's been 2 years since we've been in a company, but he doesn't want to look at me, and I'm sure I didn't do anything to him, at least not on purpose for sure. I don't know why he behaves like that, I can't even ask him if he will pay me any attention at all. Has anything like this happened to you? What do you think is the problem and why is it happening? Post the story please, because it's important for me to know where I'm wrong.
1 alyssaraghu answered
Hello, obviously the reason is that you keep cool and distant and do not allow in your personal space. Work on your problem.