Talk Of The Unknown

   Hi, I probably won't say anything you don't know, but I'll mention it anyway. I also have a hard time talking to strangers, but the next time you miss her just take a breath, say to yourself (what's going to happen) and go boldly to her, you can ask her for an hour and then insert that you meet often then ask to meet and if not a problem if I can go out with you. Good luck!

   What a problem to talk to a stranger! In what century are you heroes! After so many smiles, just say hello next time and invite her to lunch or just a drink. Good luck.

   Don't talk to her - you're infantile and advice from here won't help you at all.

   Rain car washes, and shame * duck not * was:)

   He wondered if he had spoken to her in any way. Author-ask yourself how and only how, not whether. Hey, from such "fears" a person takes and passes his happiness or a pleasant experience .... if things do not develop further. You have nothing to think about. Next time, just tell her something. Smile at her and smiling, for example, you say to her: - Abe, we only meet you. Already seeing that smile and my day is ok. I was even worried that we wouldn't be caught today, and I have to reject a lot of tasks. "Here you are already slightly smiling, but again cheerful and in a good mood, but the man's: - It will be nice to meet you you reach out. For example, she answers something or answers at all and you can already see how the conversation starts. And you continue: "This smile in the morning is not enough for me ... hehe, I will be glad to see you at lunch ...... really!" If she refuses something / she may be engaged, she may be bound, etc./, you say: - OK, write down my phone / don't ask for hers /, I will be glad to see you not only on this sidewalk haha. As you describe, I see a cheerful girl and I don't need any super approaches. It's just that if a woman likes you and you're not some rude or simpleton, she'll give you a chance after you take over first. And in my opinion, at least you are nice, at least otherwise you wouldn't be the first to smile.

   hey you're a fly ... abe veins love the brave was a boy, give it bolder and stop it and say that you can not sleep as you saw her and you're just crazy about her and if she does not go with you now for coffee will you die and things like that and be convincing and if you can and hold hands while you talk, women like things like that.

   Ask her: Excuse me what time is it? And here the conversation will start! - Wife of 21

   The next time you see her, you put a smile to your ears and say, "- Yes! I calmed down. And today everything will be fine when I see you so smiling. Are you in a hurry? Did you drink coffee? ... and later?" ... general unobtrusive questions about what he does, when he comes home, how he spends the evening ... and accordingly - an invitation as soon as possible ... "to see you", "for coffee", "to go somewhere ... "and to refuse you is nothing compared to not trying!

   Hello, Next time smile and say hello. You can ask her what her name is. You can start greeting her and then ask her for her name and then you will see what the attitude is and you can even invite her. I liked two of them at different times. We saw each other every day. One was on a bicycle, the other on foot, and so we smiled first, then hello, and then I even stopped to ask them their names. Well, nothing happened. I invited one of us to ride a bike, but he refused and then I found him on Facebook and saw that he had a boyfriend. And the other one suddenly stopped meeting him. But you don't mind and it's completely harmless, especially when she smiles at you and looks at you. You may like it. Good luck and write what happened.

   Just start saying hello to her and I think things will work out on their own

   Elementary! "Hello, you're very pretty! I'm Pesho, what's your name? Do you want to see me after work?" Etc. Success boy!

   I'm number 5! Author, what happened to the girl. Give info about some outcome, that we or at least some of us become impatient to learn how things are ;-) I would be very happy if it happened.

   Make up a witty joke about meeting every day. Women hate annoying people who start immediately with compliments or use the clichés "What time is it?" Starting with "you are very beautiful" you show her that you have a poor vocabulary, a tanner and applies this ingenious trick to every woman. Make her feel funny, not embarrassing. Who knows, one day you can tell this story to children and grandchildren how you met.

   You give various advice, but most, almost all of them, do not really work. Especially this line "hello, I'm edikoysi, you're very nice, what's your name". This is a very direct throw of the cards and it will be blind luck to turn it into an acquaintance and something more. It is a very delicate endeavor to talk to a complete stranger on the street. The place itself is such that it does not imply social contacts between strangers. Unlike another specific place, which is "inside", ie. restaurant, disco, library, where people go for a specific purpose. Honestly, I would also find it strange if a chick, no matter how attractive, stopped me and started with compliments and invitations. And women are generally very suspicious and reluctant to make such initial contacts. When she knows absolutely nothing about you and does not have this particular situation that characterizes you at least a little, then you should immediately enter information about you - that you are not a threat, that you are intelligent, normal. For example, if you walk a dog, it introduces information about you - that you are caring, you love animals. However, if you have your hands in your pockets, the girl has nothing to perceive you with - what you are, what you plan to do. He has nothing to do and will instinctively reject you. The game is a bit of a theater where a lot of fine skills are needed. Of course, there will always be exceptions, but as we know, they only confirm the rule. There is no way to give advice on the Internet, things are done with experience and sense. if you walk a dog, it introduces information about you - that you are caring, you love animals. However, if you have your hands in your pockets, the girl has nothing to perceive you with - what you are, what you plan to do. He has nothing to do and will instinctively reject you. The game is a bit of a theater where a lot of fine skills are needed. Of course, there will always be exceptions, but as we know, they only confirm the rule. There is no way to give advice on the Internet, things are done with experience and sense. if you walk a dog, it introduces information about you - that you are caring, you love animals. However, if you have your hands in your pockets, the girl has nothing to perceive you with - what you are, what you plan to do. He has nothing to do and will instinctively reject you. The game is a bit of a theater where a lot of fine skills are needed. Of course, there will always be exceptions, but as we know, they only confirm the rule. There is no way to give advice on the Internet, things are done with experience and sense. they only confirm the rule. There is no way to give advice on the Internet, things are done with experience and sense. they only confirm the rule. There is no way to give advice on the Internet, things are done with experience and sense.

   14, quite a good and comprehensive comment. Such advice cannot be given because it is not an algorithm. You can't tell a person to "take steps 1, 2 and 3 and you're done". Everything is very relative and it makes sense according to the specific situation. And this sense is acquired either by birth or by experience.

   A few things: 1st - You should not care about a possible refusal. This is the most important. 2nd - Don't look needy or horny. This repulses the 3rd - Tell her the truth. Something like saying with a smile: "Hello, is there an option to see each other for a longer time than our random differences - for example for a coffee" If he asks you "Why?" - "Because I don't see how else we can check if we like each other." Something like that. You are never ready for any situation, so you have to learn to improvise. Good luck and don't worry about failures, even strive for them, then you will be like a sniper :)

   Don't be too aggressive and aggressive - he may startle and stop going that way, or he may decide that you are a nuisance and cut you off. For starters, start with greetings every day - Hello is enough and normal. By whether and in what way he responds to your greetings / with a smile, with desire / - you will know if you have a chance. If she likes you, it will show, and then you can invite her for coffee, for example. If she accepts - your chances with her are great. If not - good health, just your paths diverge.

   I totally agree with number 17. Don't throw in a lot of extra lines. Just start by greeting a few days to see the reactions. Then you can ask for the name. If there are any holidays to greet her and further when you see the attitude and try to invite her. Write what is happening. We are interested.

   Bray, here and pickpockets I look give brains, like number 16 for example ;-) ...... good! But the author may not be ready to "lose" the chick.

   Number 18 - I'm number 5 and 12. In such cases, act immediately, not greet her for days to see the reactions. The reactions have been clear for a long time - she started smiling at him first, he even waited for her a lot. Like nothing somewhere, someone will stab her in the end ...... if it hasn't already happened, she may have been "busy". The cool, pretty and sexy girls take them off every day and constantly - on the street, in restaurants, at work, on the net, in the gym - everywhere. It won't cost him anything to go like I told him at the beginning. But I get angry at such people - they come in here, they want advice and there is none afterwards. I hope she didn't cut it off and it collapsed, ie. writing reviews to be his last concern.

   Take a map of the city and talk about how you can get to a place and then meet. Tell her, I like going to the movies so much, would you come with me? '' or see a gallery. There are many ways to dump and date. Or if she explains where she is today, tell her tomorrow that you didn't find her, or tell her a comical story about how you found her, but you've been thinking about her all along. And then he invited her on a date. F 27

   The approach of n 16 would repel me in an instant, even if it was nice to me until then! If such are the pickups (if he is right n 19) it is clear to me why they are the eternal chikids ...

   to 19: I'm a comment 16. I know what you mean, but I'm not a pickup :) I deal with trade and sales, for better or worse, the principles are obviously the same. Regards :)

   Excuse me, what time is it? HA HA HA Never listen to a woman about these things. Women do not understand women! It is not so important what you say, but HOW you say it! Addition to №16 Don't Just Don't Look, Don't Feel Needy! Respect yourself, you do not depend on a woman, whether she is a stranger or not (universally, a man also becomes - who, as he wants - does not judge anyone) What attracts is the positive. "Stable man", "nice smile" ... IF you feel good, she will feel it and like it - strange, but a fact. Body language is not just strange movements AHAHHA, but overall radiation. I personally do not tolerate 3. I do not like slime of the sort I say something, let her answer and I make a counter-argument! FEEL and learn! Push-pull should be in the form of emotion and not conversation. I prefer a spontaneous conversation at the beginning until I understand the type of interlocutor. I prefer the flirtation to be initiated by the woman and not by me - so you have an advantage. Remember, women start with the advantage and end without: D So if we go back to the beginning. Sorry what time it is, maybe it's a good strategy. It only needs to be said in a way that makes it clear that you are not asking about the time! For example, with a wide smile. And always be polite, the positive attracts!

   Author, what happened? Did you have the courage to talk to her? See how many people gave advice and ideas, at least tell me how things are?

   25, will not answer. Here I have noticed that it is a common practice, when they have the dawn to ask, to ask for advice, and then when the dawn passes, even if they do not consider it necessary to answer the question of what happened. So, they don't care anymore. Why answer?

   Instead, we can talk about it. And it is important because nowadays direct contact is becoming more and more difficult. As a woman, I will say how I would best take a possible approach. Initially, after meeting this nice person every day on the street, I would accept a polite "Good morning!", Accompanied by a smile. After two days, for example, this greeting can be combined with a comment such as: "And you will waste this sunny day in the office?" A question is usually answered with something. For example: "Unfortunately, yes." The next day, the question may be more personal, such as, “Do you live in this neighborhood?” When answered “yes,” it follows, “Do you know a dry cleaning studio nearby?” refuses. The next day, thanks are expressed for the advice, the reason for being asked is explained: I have recently been living here, I am busy, I don't have time, I don't know the neighborhood yet, my job is on the other side of town, This gradual engagement in non - engaging dialogue usually works to help people overcome the initial barrier. (But if someone starts with "you're very pretty," I'll probably change the street I'm walking on because there are all kinds of psychopaths). The formula - if the author is still reading here, in my opinion, is respect for the lady plus self-confidence, plus moderate curiosity about her. And by no means comments on her address, even if they are flattering. If she begins to readily accept the conversations at each discrepancy, only then does the invitation follow, preferably in some humorous form such as, "Don't you think that we spend too much time on this sidewalk, how about we sit somewhere for a coffee? "I'm not saying my recipe is authoritative. I'm just saying which approach would win me over personally.

   27 ... while he stretches candy every day, someone will pull his chick. I can't believe such advice is given by a woman. Obviously you will like it, but much more common cases are when things happen easily but quickly. I'm number 5 - I've already said it. He just shows the guy that he has an interest and there is nothing to delay her. If I am, among other tips, I will just tell her that I will enjoy, for example, having lunch together or seeing each other after work and so on. But once again I remind you that the author would be joking.

   The same story happened to me. We looked at each other several times with a colleague and once and I just said hello, she answered me and asked me how you were. It seemed that she was pleased to speak to her. We started some long conversations, I just forgot we were at work. Everyone is treated differently, one will respond, another will not, it is important to assess the situation and act very quickly, because the good moments come rarely, and then come the remorse that you did not take advantage. Women will almost never speak to you first because they are insecure and indecisive, most of them.

   Most of you are very serious here on the Internet, but when it really happens to you, very few people show confidence. I often talk to different people and I have noticed that people are super closed in bg. Everywhere everyone huddled in their shells and only some nervous looks. How many people smile and say good day ?? How many? If I look at the comments here, I guess everyone ... Is that really so? Come on out now, see a stranger, smile at him and tell him: Good afternoon!

   From the author: Hello! I hadn't been on the site in a long time, and I didn't expect you to write so many comments. I see that the topic has aroused great interest. Thanks a lot to everyone who commented. Otherwise, things develop a little slowly, but they develop :) I still don't see the woman every day, but when I see her there is always a reaction. Last time I read comment numbers 9 and 10. Taa ... we passed each other a few more times with just a smile, then one day I saw her I smiled, she smiled at me and I said "Hello!" - she answered with the same :) This It was the first time I heard her voice. Then we saw each other again, smiles again and just to greet her - she was ahead of me: D I haven't seen her since. As I said, I don't see her every day and that's why it's a delay, so to speak. It happened that we didn't see each other for a whole week. I didn't say anything special,

   Author, it was necessary after you greeted each other and she smiled at you again to introduce herself and directly ask her if she would like to drink coffee. You lose nothing. If he says fast-ok. From what I read, I understand that you are obviously nice to her. The next time you spot yourself, act. Women do not like indecisive men who just wonder and wait and think endlessly.

   Just meet next time .. What are you waiting for? Your girl smiles, greets you, you will not receive a rude answer.

   I think if the second time she greeted you first, then you are nice to her. The next time you see each other, talk to her, for example, to have lunch together or :, Don't you think we spend too much time on this sidewalk, how about we sit somewhere for a coffee? ". I liked the question this way very much. I'm almost sure he will agree. Write again what happened next, because the topic really aroused your interest. And it would be nice after reading a story and giving advice, let's find out what happened next.

   Author, what happened? Did you meet?