The problem is not mine personally, but of a virtual acquaintance, but in the end it is a human being and we have to help :). So this girl lives with the thought that she is fat, which is complete nonsense - she weighs only 40 kilograms and has a drained thin physique (it is absurd to gain weight, probably even after birth!). Her diet is more than terrible - she is disgusted by the thought that she has to eat (in connection with gaining weight) and can not be controlled - or eat almost nothing, or crammed terribly much. I gave her advice as a start to imagine and convince herself of the truth - that she is weak and that there is no way to gain weight so as to eliminate the reason for avoiding food. I also advised her to try to have a normal breakfast (no breakfast!). But I'm still not an expert and I have no idea about the methods, on which you can deal with this problem on a psychological basis. Please for adequate advice, for which I thank you in advance :).
Well, doesn't this girl have parents to control her diet? And if a person thinks he's fat, it can never get out of his head, he can cover it up, but he'll still be of the same opinion. So that....
From the author: to 1. However, there is a section for health, we can use it freely :). to 2. The problem is that it is a bit of how to say ... wayward and difficult to control, be it for good. The parents obviously notice the problem and keep it as strict as possible, but they cannot put or take the food out of their mouths or monitor it for 24 hours. This girl is even super skinny and I just look at her name and I can't believe my ears when she tells me she's fat. But I don't think you can't change your thinking about anything, especially if it's objective untruth. It's just a kind of planted complex, caused by something. Probably, as far as I know, it will be difficult to convince her to go to the doctor, this stubbornness is sometimes a very bad thing.
She is also looking for a connection with her parents, later doctors.
Have you tried to show her pictures of girls like her who think they are fat and don't eat the consequences. I may sound rude, but tell me what can happen if he continues to eat nothing like this, let him know that he may not even have the strength to go to school, talk and even drink water. Try to scare her, no matter how stupid your darling sounds. And if that doesn't help, you have to go to the doctor.
From the author to everyone: The victim realized that I was trying to help her through your site, then fuck me and I was here with my help, I don't want to worry anymore about a person who is obviously not worth moving finger. There is a certain truth in that tale that he who does good finds evil. If anyone has something to say after my comment - let him order and do it, I withdraw from the topic.
Well said .. you really don't have to poke your nose into other people's problems ... people just don't like it :)
The girl does not feel loved. She needs an impartial listener who does not judge her or dictate her actions, but sincerely helps her simply express herself. At some point, she will realize that there are meaningful ways to express themselves. Here is some literature, maybe the girl will find it useful to read this: http://www.biberonbg.com/info/anoreksia.htm
If you don't know the girl, don't talk, please ... you really did this in a soap opera :)
The only way is to find the cause that led her to bulimia. If he knows where it came from, he will know and in this way he will be able to cure himself, because the specialists prove that bulimia is caused by stress, labor and the like :)
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See a doctor. We are not a health portal with medical knowledge here.