Hello, I have never written something like this on such a site, but here came the moment to do it. I hope my story does not burden you and I will try to make it as understandable as possible, I expect both advice and constructive criticism. I am a girl of 25, I live in a rather big city and I recently met a boy who turned out to be living temporarily in the block where I work (he was sent to my city for the summer, otherwise he lives in another). So our acquaintance was accidental and we decided to see each other, he invited me to them, for a first date for me it was a pure invitation for sex. Anyway, I went to them all normal, sweet talk, each other .. but I did not want sex even then. Then we met twice more to say somewhere and it became a thing called sex is no longer a mirage. Another meeting followed, but I suggested it be a walk somewhere as it happened .. I dare say that he is a very interesting person and has something to say and tell, but I liked him. He is not one of those people who will start working ... how good am I or just to understand something from my day while we are both at work. In the sense that he just doesn't want to be on social media and therefore we don't write to each other. When we go out, then we understand each other more as we should. This leads me to think that he only wants sex from me or a summer adventure. His work involves going to many places, meeting a lot of people, etc. So I don't know exactly what I want to ask as questions ... when we see each other it's quite interesting, we have a lot of topics of conversation, we we have seen each other several times. The stupid thing is that I seem to be drowning in him, and he only seems to want fun on my part. And I don't know how to start a conversation, what does he think, does he like me at all .. I can't directly ask him if he's dating me just like that and if it's just sex. We spend a lot of time together when we see each other ... it's not just sex, but it seems that it doesn't matter. I want some advice on how to find out otherwise if this continues and the end of the summer, when he leaves I will cry a lot (as frivolous as it sounds). I expect any answers and thank you.
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Having read this, I am already crying!