Hello, thanks in advance for the time you will spend on my story. We met in September and started writing to each other constantly on social networks. Our meetings started in October and by mid-November we went out 6-7 times. I even went to them, but without having sex. Suddenly he stopped looking for me and I didn't look for him either (we are both 21 years old). I dare say that he liked me a lot, his friends knew about me. In general, it seemed to him that he was not for one sex. But I was afraid to sleep with him, because in our city he is called a whore. On New Year's we wrote to congratulate each other and our communication started again. Although in the beginning we were both very withdrawn from each other and I refused to see him, but he did not give up. At the beginning of March, I just decided to go to bed with him and went to them. Sex was great from the first time. We've done it a total of 7-8 times since he told me he liked it a lot, and it was obvious to him. Last day I was in them for the last time and everything was normal, he sent me, kissed me and we agreed to see each other the next day. He hadn't called me yet, and in principle, after he took me, he wrote to me or called me, and at noon we met in a cafe and we smiled but nothing more. In the evening I wrote to see him, he agreed and said he was not in town and he would be back in 30 minutes and we ended the conversation. After an hour I called him to see what had happened, he didn't pick up and didn't write anymore. He hasn't called me since and I can't explain why. I know it's not a pain to die and it will pass, but I want to know the reason for this sudden change. Lastly, we have never discussed our relationship, but my friends who know how he treated me were of the opinion that we were in a relationship but I don't think that was the case. Thanks in advance to everyone for the comments.
1 oliverbornercerda answered
Well, it's clear what happened - his parachute opened up somewhere else, where he fished at the same time as you. Why waste more time with you? Besides, you say, "whore." Isn't this a man who doesn't care much about the women he's been with? He also doesn't care who she is with, the important thing is to be with someone? You don't need such a person! For me, sex has always been an expression of love, of intimacy, and not just some chewing gum to chew with occasion and without occasion, simply because "everyone does so" ... Even from such a person you can not expect to takes an interest in your sexual desires, fantasies and will start to realize them together ... He will comb his pussy for a few minutes, lift his panties and run to mom - he is happy! Don't waste your time with nonsense ... Enroll in a big university and find a serious person with whom you will respect each other, hold each other and love each other. "Fucking" will not escape, be calm.